How does one actually go about non-chemically lowering inhibition

[luuk]

More and more I’m realising that my looks aren’t capping me at all I’ve got a lot of IOIs recently I’m just too high inhibition to do anything if they don’t make a move or overtly signal me to do so which is why literally every sexual encounter I’ve had was drunk and partially initiated by the girl

Pharmacology is COPE for this purpose its not sustainable, you won’t always be intoxicated (I don’t just want to pull in the club I actually wanna BE low inhibition) they’re bad for your health and a looksmin over time (yes even the trendy niche alcohol alternative GABAergics you guys always sperg out about) and they don’t even work very well at least not for me.

I get that its psychological but how do I fix it? I don’t even have social anxiety its just an incredibly rigid ND self-policing system ingrained in my neurocircuitry. I can talk to people fine its just that I have a cop in my mind stopping me from doing anything inappropriate or vunerable (which is absolutely necessary to get a girl) and my attempts at ignoring it hasn’t worked, probably because the “first step” is too big every time, evidently I need to be gradual with it. Does anyone have any experience with this?

 

[luuk]

bump

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

exposure, higher test and mindset

 

[luuk]

exposure, higher test and mindset

I was at like 894ng/dl last time I checked
maybe I should just roidmaxx but thats probably cope for inhib

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I was at like 894ng/dl last time I checked
maybe I should just roidmaxx but thats probably cope for inhib

yeah that's good focus on the other things

 

[luuk]

yeah that's good focus on the other things

What kind of exposures and mindset changes are necessary then? Like how do I build this up from nothing

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

What kind of exposures and mindset changes are necessary then? Like how do I build this up from nothing

just push yourself to do scary and low inhib things and you should adapt, all stress is in your head you need to care less and be more detached as well as building the discipline to do these hard things and a swell as strong inner courage

 

[NoExit]

im low inhib and i get nothing

 

[luuk]

just push yourself to do scary and low inhib things and you should adapt, all stress is in your head you need to care less and be more detached as well as building the discipline to do these hard things and a swell as strong inner courage

I genuinely don’t get my mind man
I’m not scared of pretty much anything other than rejection
I’m not afraid of dying or pain and I have pretty much no phobias yet something entirely inconsequential makes my brain shut down and refuse to obey me when it comes to that stuff
Its pretty hard to undo wiring that you spent your entire childhood developing

But sound advice though. Any advice on where to start? It has to be something gradual that I build up otherwise I simply won’t end up going through with it though

 

[luuk]

im low inhib and i get nothing

Rip, I presume its your looks?
I guess I’m in a pretty good spot if I’m only limited by something (probably) fixable, a face is harder to mould than a brain

 

[NoExit]

Rip, I presume its your looks?

im ltn

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I genuinely don’t get my mind man
I’m not scared of pretty much anything other than rejection
I’m not afraid of dying or pain and I have pretty much no phobias yet something entirely inconsequential makes my brain shut down and refuse to obey me when it comes to that stuff
Its pretty hard to undo wiring that you spent your entire childhood developing

But sound advice though. Any advice on where to start? It has to be something gradual that I build up otherwise I simply won’t end up going through with it though

work your way up, start talking to bitches on dicord or omegle, then be part of groups and interact with ugly bitches...

if you want to ask girls out then start cold approaching ugly bitches in the street, if you still can't drink alcohol before

 

[luuk]

work your way up, start talking to bitches on dicord or omegle, then be part of groups and interact with ugly bitches...

if you want to ask girls out then start cold approaching ugly bitches in the street, if you still can't drink alcohol before

Omegle might be a shout tbh its something that would make me uncomfortable yet also make it easier to talk to strangers
Wouldn’t be able to approach random girls in the street yet, their looks isn’t even an issue

Honestly its more about my brain being very resistant to breaking any sort of social rules (probably a defence mechanism for being aspie to not get myself in major trouble) and our society villainises the idea of approaching a woman outside of any pre-approved social context (unless you’re chad)

Growing up in the London exaggerates this because there’s an unwritten rule of minding your own business and keeping to yourself in public, literally nobody interacts with strangers (whereas I hear americans tend to smile and chat to people in public more often)

Need to undo the goy mind programming tbh

 

[luuk]

im ltn

Ah shame
Is it really over at LTN though if you’re low inhib? I have friends that fit that description that pull more than me

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

Omegle might be a shout tbh its something that would make me uncomfortable yet also make it easier to talk to strangers
Wouldn’t be able to approach random girls in the street yet, their looks isn’t even an issue

Honestly its more about my brain being very resistant to breaking any sort of social rules (probably a defence mechanism for being aspie to not get myself in major trouble) and our society villainises the idea of approaching a woman outside of any pre-approved social context (unless you’re chad)

Growing up in the London exaggerates this because there’s an unwritten rule of minding your own business and keeping to yourself in public, literally nobody interacts with strangers (whereas I hear americans tend to smile and chat to people in public more often)

Need to undo the goy mind programming tbh

idk me seing the foids I approach as worthless and ugly whores that I mog in every aspect helped then I could talk to girls I like

don't care about soyciety of course

 

[luuk]

idk me seing the foids I approach as worthless and ugly whores that I mog in every aspect helped then I could talk to girls I like

don't care about soyciety of course

I feel like this would just give me a madonna-whore complex of categorising women into easy to slay whores and treating the ones I want as unapproachable and putting them on a pedestal

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I feel like this would just give me a madonna-whore complex of categorising women into easy to slay whores and treating the ones I want as unapproachable and putting them on a pedestal

you should either see foids as whores bc that's what they are or as normal people

 

[NoExit]

Ah shame
Is it really over at LTN though if you’re low inhib? I have friends that fit that description that pull more than me

ltn is death sentence

 

[gorgias]

Exposing yourself to social situations more often and changing social circles if your friends are ND

 

[Spieldren]

sonny im crying right now. just take the damn xanax

 

[birthdefect]

More and more I’m realising that my looks aren’t capping me at all I’ve got a lot of IOIs recently I’m just too high inhibition to do anything if they don’t make a move or overtly signal me to do so which is why literally every sexual encounter I’ve had was drunk and partially initiated by the girl

Pharmacology is COPE for this purpose its not sustainable, you won’t always be intoxicated (I don’t just want to pull in the club I actually wanna BE low inhibition) they’re bad for your health and a looksmin over time (yes even the trendy niche alcohol alternative GABAergics you guys always sperg out about) and they don’t even work very well at least not for me.

I get that its psychological but how do I fix it? I don’t even have social anxiety its just an incredibly rigid ND self-policing system ingrained in my neurocircuitry. I can talk to people fine its just that I have a cop in my mind stopping me from doing anything inappropriate or vunerable (which is absolutely necessary to get a girl) and my attempts at ignoring it hasn’t worked, probably because the “first step” is too big every time, evidently I need to be gradual with it. Does anyone have any experience with this?

you could try mixing cocaine or testosterone with microdosed lsd
as an example with test: you would microdose lsd while being on a relatively high dose of testosterone for like 10 weeks and then come off and see if theres a difference.
as an example with cocaine or meth (really any stimulant that makes you happy): microdose acid and microdose your drug of choice just enough to get a mood increase, but tolerance does build so be careful

no idea if this would work but microdosed acid does increase neuroplasticity so you could try it if you want

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Primal diet+high meat+nihilistc mindset+god complex+public humiliation
ez

 

[Jeremy Meeks]

Exposure, because exposure leads to detachment( not caring about failing/rejection… because it doesn’t matter if you fail).

Or if you have high meta cognition you could internalize it that it actually doesn’t matter if you fail, which makes everything easier.

Also if you don’t want pharmacological inhibition, because it’s not permanent
You could still try drugs which increase neuroplasticty and then get exposure while using them which will change your mentality faster.

 

[Jeremy Meeks]

Also JFL inhibition will always be chemical, doesn’t matter if you use drugs or not

 

[Glazey]

Exposure therapy paired with a physilophical mindset is the best natural method