How to Actually Make your life good/worth living

[Insomnia]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
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It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

 

[Aryan Incel]

Good thread

 

[Terrortheplug]

 

[lucifer88]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

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It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

appreciate the effort but im killing myzelf soon

 

[Born Superior]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

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It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

good read

 

[Insomnia]

appreciate the effort but im killing myzelf soon

Why?

 

[Mess]

The will to improve (amongst men) is sadly something that has been slowly dissolving over time.
Probably to do with the declining test levels. Every man must be on TRT.

 

[huckstrut]

Im running away from my home in roughly a year to first get some money doing modeling in china and then get certificates and work on errv in the north sea

 

[lucifer88]

Why?

i dont feel happy living, and honestly i dont really see the bad on just killing myself, in my opinion it will just be a huge sleeping time and i have nothing to fear, i just want my suffering to end and if killing myself means that will happen id love to do it, in fact the reason why i havenr kill myself before its bc the idea of suicide and knowing that at any moment i could js off myself and feel nothing was what kept me alive but atp i really dont want to even try living another day but instead js end it so i dont have to live in this unconformity anymore

thanks for asking

 

[Insomnia]

Im running away from my home in roughly a year to first get some money doing modeling in china and then get certificates and work on errv in the north sea

Good luck mang.

 

[Sink]

 

[lucifer88]

Im running away from my home in roughly a year to first get some money doing modeling in china and then get certificates and work on errv in the north sea

I hope u slay the chuzzz (chinese huzz)

 

[huckstrut]

I hope u slay the chuzzz (chinese huzz)

hopefully wont blow all my money on hoeing around there again. run away to the sea too bro its better out there

 

[Insomnia]

i dont feel happy living, and honestly i dont really see the bad on just killing myself, in my opinion it will just be a huge sleeping time and i have nothing to fear, i just want my suffering to end and if killing myself means that will happen id love to do it, in fact the reason why i havenr kill myself before its bc the idea of suicide and knowing that at any moment i could js off myself and feel nothing was what kept me alive but atp i really dont want to even try living another day but instead js end it so i dont have to live in thos unconformity anymore

thanks for asking

I understand how you feel, and frankly, don’t blame you for it. You won’t solve much with suicide unfortunately. I know you have no will to improve but what if you did improve?

Imagine you’re at the pool. The water is cold. You can physically jump in the water, yet you hesitate. It feels like there is a 0% chance to jump, even if you can.
You can make your life worth living, but you can’t commit to it.

It’s a weird comparison but it makes sense in my mind

 

[K4nfe]

Bump

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

Read every electron.

 

[huckstrut]

most men prefer to lose quickly than win slowly @Insomnia

 

[Insomnia]

most men prefer to lose quickly than win slowly @Insomnia

That’s how humans are. We will always choose the easy/fast route even though it’s not the best in the long run

 

[huckstrut]

That’s how humans are. We will always choose the easy/fast route even though it’s not the best in the long run

its a ceasar quote. to be honest its not even that we chose the easy route but the fast route. humans for most part have little to no patience, many men would lie down their life for their children but wont even do a little bit of exercise to be able to protect them. We are still animals at the end of time trying to transcend our futility

 

[Insomnia]

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[knightgtb65]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

---

It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

yes this was useful and its true

 

[Deniz42]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

---

It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

High iq

 

[Deniz42]

i dont feel happy living, and honestly i dont really see the bad on just killing myself, in my opinion it will just be a huge sleeping time and i have nothing to fear, i just want my suffering to end and if killing myself means that will happen id love to do it, in fact the reason why i havenr kill myself before its bc the idea of suicide and knowing that at any moment i could js off myself and feel nothing was what kept me alive but atp i really dont want to even try living another day but instead js end it so i dont have to live in this unconformity anymore

thanks for asking

Brother stop being a retard, there's no second life, read the post again, just start doing something uncomfortable, make yourself proud

 

[King_Schnitzel]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

---

It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

NOT EVEN TAGGED IN A SUBCOMMENT OR SMT
NOT EVEN A NOTICE

 

[Chintuck22]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

---

It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

Yeah it's true, we only have control over what we think, how we react, by changing the way we think about ourselves, and the world, over the course of time, we can change our life (be the change that you want to see). By changing how we react, then we become more ,,aware'' so that way you can change what you do.

The problem is that if you don't fix yourself, one day you will meet the right person, the person of your dreams, and because of personality traits that you never improved on, you're gonna ruin it with that person, genuinely, trust me
WHY? ---- Because you are what you attract ---- be the type of person that you want to meet

 

[3tky]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

---

It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

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@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

Why if I just killed myself instead this sounds like sm work

 

[GoErOnFoids]

Since you’re here, it’s fair to assume you have numerous problems, mental illnesses and a list of things that make your life hell.

While these problems may or may not be true depending on the person, the average user only chooses to focus on his flaws & things out of his control, which, leads them to being sad and ,,miserable”.
​

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It might upset a lot of people, but the truth is, you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Like I said in the beginning, some people have actual uncontrollable problems that hinder with their lives, but that doesn’t mean you should give up everything.
It’s like killing yourself because you had a bad day. Yes, your day was shit, it’s okay to acknowledge that, but you shouldn’t let that day change your whole week.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t vent about your problems and whatnot, I’m saying you should: acknowledge your problems, talk to someone about them, and move on with life.

I know that getting out of bed and doing what needs to be done is truly hard, but if you’re able to do something you hate, then you’re almost guaranteed to succeed.

Hopefully you read this and found it slightly useful

Spoiler

@Orka @Daddy's Home @BigBallsLarry @Aryan Incel @Sink

everything other than sitting on pc feels hard....I mean not like basic shit but making my car's aluminium wheels shiny ashell with sandpaper is SO ASS i rather rot

 

[3tky]

everything other than sitting on pc feels hard....I mean not like basic shit but making my car's aluminium wheels shiny ashell with sandpaper is SO ASS i rather rot

I’d rather rot on aimlabs and wonder why I can’t be genetically gifted

 

[why not me?]

Nothing matters

Its All in your brain

Yet you cant control it

 

[Insomnia]

Brother stop being a retard, there's no second life, read the post again, just start doing something uncomfortable, make yourself proud

He probably knows what he has to do, it’s just really hard for him to actually do it. Like saying you’ll change your life and you will wake up at 6am, but when the alarm rings you cba to get out of bed. You can get out of bed, and you know you should, it’s just really hard to do it.

NOT EVEN TAGGED IN A SUBCOMMENT OR SMT
NOT EVEN A NOTICE

I just tagged who was online at the time. I would tag 30 people per thread but I’m not allowed.

Yeah it's true, we only have control over what we think, how we react, by changing the way we think about ourselves, and the world, over the course of time, we can change our life (be the change that you want to see). By changing how we react, then we become more ,,aware'' so that way you can change what you do.

The problem is that if you don't fix yourself, one day you will meet the right person, the person of your dreams, and because of personality traits that you never improved on, you're gonna ruin it with that person, genuinely, trust me
WHY? ---- Because you are what you attract ---- be the type of person that you want to meet

your quality of life mostly depends on your perspective. Unfortunately the people here are really pessimistic and have a hard time seeing the good side of things.

Why if I just killed myself instead this sounds like sm work

because it is. But like another user said, it’s the easy/quick path to failure.

everything other than sitting on pc feels hard....I mean not like basic shit but making my car's aluminium wheels shiny ashell with sandpaper is SO ASS i rather rot

i get what you mean as I also have that feeling sometimes. It truly sucks but continuously complaining won’t change it, quite the contrary

 

[Insomnia]

Nothing matters

Its All in your brain

Yet you cant control it

If everything is in our brains that proves we have control over everything that happens.

 

[Deniz42]

I hope u slay the chuzzz (chinese huzz)

I made a thread for you

 

[HundredManSlayer]

how do i live as a manlet

 

[Chintuck22]

people here are really pessimistic and have a hard time seeing the good side of things.

Because you are not guaranteed success, and there is no incentives for people here to work hard to achieve their goals.

 

[Insomnia]

how do i live as a manlet

It probably sucks being short, truly, but you shouldn’t focus your whole life around a singular or multiple problems.

It’s okay to vent and complain, but overdoing it will just make the problem worse.

 

[HundredManSlayer]

It probably sucks being short, truly, but you shouldn’t focus your whole life around a singular or multiple problems.

It’s okay to vent and complain, but overdoing it will just make the problem worse.

yeah i just can’t really find a way to live without thinking about it.

even something i’m passionate about which is lifting im constantly reminded of it. i have shorter limbs, i look less aesthetic than taller guys, etc.

it’s like the things i want so badly in life i can’t have due to being restricted by my height. like an ltr, looking aesthetic and being big, or just feeling okay in my skin

 

[3tky]

He probably knows what he has to do, it’s just really hard for him to actually do it. Like saying you’ll change your life and you will wake up at 6am, but when the alarm rings you cba to get out of bed. You can get out of bed, and you know you should, it’s just really hard to do it.

I just tagged who was online at the time. I would tag 30 people per thread but I’m not allowed.

your quality of life mostly depends on your perspective. Unfortunately the people here are really pessimistic and have a hard time seeing the good side of things.

because it is. But like another user said, it’s the easy/quick path to failure.

i get what you mean as I also have that feeling sometimes. It truly sucks but continuously complaining won’t change it, quite the contrary

Honestly you made hella fair and logical statements/points after I read the whole post. Suicide is the easy way out 100/10 times, personally I’m pretty happy with my life and would never commit but some people who truly have nothing going for them or feel like they have no one turn to suicide as a last resort.

If yall need help, reach out yall do matter

 

[Insomnia]

Because you are not guaranteed success, and there is no incentives for people here to work hard to achieve their goals.

Success is something subjective. For some, success means rotting all day without a care in the world, while for others it means changing a whole industry. You aren’t guaranteed success, but playing your cards right will raise your chances of reaching it

 

[why not me?]

My brother

Majority of your frontal development relies on prenatal development (you cant control) genetics (you cant control) and childhood events/traumas you cant control most the time.

Just because you own the brain, doesnt mean you can control it as you want. In fact you are the brain itself. There is no "you".

Only Reason youre typing this is because you get stimulated by interacting with ppl online. You need dopamine. Are you really free?

If everything is in our brains that proves we have control over everything that happens.

Bad take.

 

[Insomnia]

yeah i just can’t really find a way to live without thinking about it.

even something i’m passionate about which is lifting im constantly reminded of it. i have shorter limbs, i look less aesthetic than taller guys, etc.

it’s like the things i want so badly in life i can’t have due to being restricted by my height. like an ltr, looking aesthetic and being big, or just feeling okay in my skin

Yeah this is why overlooking your ,,problems” is hard. It will get better with time, but for now try to take your mind off it as much as possible

 

[3tky]

yeah i just can’t really find a way to live without thinking about it.

even something i’m passionate about which is lifting im constantly reminded of it. i have shorter limbs, i look less aesthetic than taller guys, etc.

it’s like the things i want so badly in life i can’t have due to being restricted by my height. like an ltr, looking aesthetic and being big, or just feeling okay in my skin

I’m 5’10 and and a thing I love is soccer, I’ve been put at such a disadvantage especially a couple years ago when I was still hardstuck 5’8. You kinda gotta embrace it, being short isn’t who you are. It may suck like shit but you have so many other qualities that outshine your height. it’ll always be in the back of your mind and that’s ok, you’ll figure it out brotha

 

[HundredManSlayer]

Yeah this is why overlooking your ,,problems” is hard. It will get better with time, but for now try to take your mind off it as much as possible

yeah i try to do that with video games and other copes but i just end up making my life worse

 

[ybuyhgui]

you are miserable because you choose to be. You like being sad, it’s comfortable and easy. You don’t have a will to improve yourself because being sad is easier than actually doing something.

Life teaches people to be miserable. Ultimately, our happiness and mental states are dependent on positive reinforcement from others, in both past and present, but especially past which means the damage is done. Some get that reinforcement, others don’t. Your logic of ‘muh just choose to be happy bro’ is a level of cope comparable to those who deny the existence of trauma entirely. Our past experiences define us.

But also, how can you even expect everyone to have that will to improve at all? The question should be asked sometimes as to whether or not effort is even worth it anymore. Perhaps you’re speaking to the general audience here but I personally wouldn’t tell a struggling 50 year old night shift worker to muh keep grinding, choose to be happy bro, that’s completely unreasonable and would almost certainly result in nothing anyway.

 

[HundredManSlayer]

I’m 5’10 and and a thing I love is soccer, I’ve been put at such a disadvantage especially a couple years ago when I was still hardstuck 5’8. You kinda gotta embrace it, being short isn’t who you are. It may suck like shit but you have so many other qualities that outshine your height. it’ll always be in the back of your mind and that’s ok, you’ll figure it out brotha

thanks for the daily dose of bluepill but it won’t work at 5’4

 

[Insomnia]

My brother

Majority of your frontal development relies on prenatal development (you cant control) genetics (you cant control) and childhood events/traumas you cant control most the time.

Just because you own the brain, doesnt mean you can control it as you want. In fact you are the brain itself. There is no "you".

Only Reason youre typing this is because you get stimulated by interacting with ppl online. You need dopamine. Are you really free?

Bad take.

Unless your neurotransmitters are fried you can still make your life worth living. And yes, changing your perspective on certain stuff will make you happier.

Thread 'The Law of Mentalism, Reality begins with thought'
https://looksmax.org/threads/the-law-of-mentalism-reality-begins-with-thought.1707377/
Also you should check this thread out. I sort of answered to your questions in it

 

[Insomnia]

Life teaches people to be miserable. Ultimately, our happiness and mental states are dependent on positive reinforcement from others, in both past and present, but especially past which means the damage is done. Some get that reinforcement, others don’t. Your logic of ‘muh just choose to be happy bro’ is a level of cope comparable to those who deny the existence of trauma entirely. Our past experiences define us.

But also, how can you even expect everyone to have that will to improve at all? The question should be asked sometimes as to whether or not effort is even worth it anymore. Perhaps you’re speaking to the general audience here but I personally wouldn’t tell a struggling 50 year old night shift worker to muh keep grinding, choose to be happy bro, that’s completely unreasonable and would almost certainly result in nothing anyway.

If sadness Didnt exist, neither would happiness. Also I kind of agree with the second paragraph. A 50 year old can definitely improve his life but there isn’t much he can do

 

[3tky]

thanks for the daily dose of bluepill but it won’t work at 5’4

you should just become a fucking mass monster gym bro that would be dope

 

[HundredManSlayer]

you should just become a fucking mass monster gym bro that would be dope

it’s crossed my mind and i’ve thought of that but i care more about being aesthetic than anything tbh. i like looking super shredded and not a mass monster look

but if i did do that id probably end up looking like the tren twins jfl

 

[ybuyhgui]

If sadness Didnt exist, neither would happiness

I believe happiness and sadness exist and can be felt by everyone, but the baseline emotion of someone ‘depressed’ would be that of misery, their only ‘happiness’ being fleeting and forced, inevitably returning to that baseline misery built in through the countless moments of negative reinforcement throughout their life (= depression).

Acting as if that constant built up psychological damage can be willingly undone by just choosing to be happy is ridiculous. Like I said previously about trauma, you can’t just tell shell shocked troops to forget about what they’ve seen in the war, because their experiences have been ingrained in them, they carry them everywhere, much like someone with depression.

 

[gymceltard]

i dont feel happy living, and honestly i dont really see the bad on just killing myself, in my opinion it will just be a huge sleeping time and i have nothing to fear, i just want my suffering to end and if killing myself means that will happen id love to do it, in fact the reason why i havenr kill myself before its bc the idea of suicide and knowing that at any moment i could js off myself and feel nothing was what kept me alive but atp i really dont want to even try living another day but instead js end it so i dont have to live in this unconformity anymore

thanks for asking

If it makes you feel better you should watch videos on people in 3rd world countries in brutal wars and shit.

These people don't kill themselves despite living in 1000x worse circumstances than you or me.