brianismaxing
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Maybe it isn't you bro.
I've found that most of the time when you can't pull a girl, you are looking in the wrong places. No matter what your looks level is, you can pick up a girl. TRUST. ...Jesters will say that middle range people can pull, but it will never last. Meanwhile, those same jesters are sitting on their couch watching scrubhub.
So let's start with the mindset that you can pull a girl if you have a rating of 4-7/10.
forget rating on body for now as long as your not fat just stick to face, that's what girls care about the most
The real reason you can't pull is because of one thing. I did the same thing too, bro, I was missing out on all the attention I could of had from the ladies because of this one thing. When I fixed it I started getting crazy attention. Girls started talking to me first. Instead of having that cold shoulder, girls were smiling at me, engaging in conversation, and laughing unhinged, doing crazy actions, which eventually led to the good stuff...
If you have the mindset that pulling girls or getting a gf is the end result of all this looksmaxing, then it will never happen. The end result of looksmaxing is to get jacked or look 10/10 to respect yourself. Getting girls is a skill you can learn along the way, actually RIGHT NOW!
If you can't pull a girl do you really respect yourself? I know I wouldn't.
OK OK here is the secret enough bumble jumble.
Stop trying to date girls on dating apps (even clav couldn't pick up a girl on a dating app), and at school, instead, go to places where you are actually familiar with.
Those places were meant for the super attractive guys or the ones who have insane social skills. Instead, we need to come up with a different start.
The secret is:
LET ME EXPLAIN...If you can get good at one thing...and I mean just really good, then you will just have that aura around you.
This is how I did it. I thought I sucked, and I could never pull a girl before I ascended until I joined a rec soccer club. Now I used to play professional football on a high school team, but I just wanted to do something with my freetime and I was bored, so I joined a rec team. I am a midfield and if ya'll don't know much about football, then midfielders do most of the work (a lot of running). I was running and just showing off to the rec team (think I got 4 goals), and even though we didn't win the scrimmage, all the girls just surrounded me. I swear, when I was leaving, I could literally not close my car door, they were that close.
Eventually, I ended up dating one of the girls, but the moral of the story is...
It doesn't have to be football. It can be literally anything. Nerd out on one thing, just make sure it's something girls and guys both like in common. If you want a fit chick then nerd out about sports and gym and junk. If you want someone who understands your nerdy anime shows go to a book club lolllll.
That's why you see most couples like similar things. Because that's how people work. We hang out with people who are similar to us and understand us.
Also when you get good at one thing, you automatically get confidence because you know so much about it. It asserts dominance.
This is just one of the ways to ascend, so learn it and keep going. You got this, king!
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I've found that most of the time when you can't pull a girl, you are looking in the wrong places. No matter what your looks level is, you can pick up a girl. TRUST. ...Jesters will say that middle range people can pull, but it will never last. Meanwhile, those same jesters are sitting on their couch watching scrubhub.
So let's start with the mindset that you can pull a girl if you have a rating of 4-7/10.
The real reason you can't pull is because of one thing. I did the same thing too, bro, I was missing out on all the attention I could of had from the ladies because of this one thing. When I fixed it I started getting crazy attention. Girls started talking to me first. Instead of having that cold shoulder, girls were smiling at me, engaging in conversation, and laughing unhinged, doing crazy actions, which eventually led to the good stuff...
If you have the mindset that pulling girls or getting a gf is the end result of all this looksmaxing, then it will never happen. The end result of looksmaxing is to get jacked or look 10/10 to respect yourself. Getting girls is a skill you can learn along the way, actually RIGHT NOW!
If you can't pull a girl do you really respect yourself? I know I wouldn't.
OK OK here is the secret enough bumble jumble.
Stop trying to date girls on dating apps (even clav couldn't pick up a girl on a dating app), and at school, instead, go to places where you are actually familiar with.
Those places were meant for the super attractive guys or the ones who have insane social skills. Instead, we need to come up with a different start.
The secret is:
LET ME EXPLAIN...If you can get good at one thing...and I mean just really good, then you will just have that aura around you.
This is how I did it. I thought I sucked, and I could never pull a girl before I ascended until I joined a rec soccer club. Now I used to play professional football on a high school team, but I just wanted to do something with my freetime and I was bored, so I joined a rec team. I am a midfield and if ya'll don't know much about football, then midfielders do most of the work (a lot of running). I was running and just showing off to the rec team (think I got 4 goals), and even though we didn't win the scrimmage, all the girls just surrounded me. I swear, when I was leaving, I could literally not close my car door, they were that close.
Eventually, I ended up dating one of the girls, but the moral of the story is...
It doesn't have to be football. It can be literally anything. Nerd out on one thing, just make sure it's something girls and guys both like in common. If you want a fit chick then nerd out about sports and gym and junk. If you want someone who understands your nerdy anime shows go to a book club lolllll.
That's why you see most couples like similar things. Because that's how people work. We hang out with people who are similar to us and understand us.
Also when you get good at one thing, you automatically get confidence because you know so much about it. It asserts dominance.
This is just one of the ways to ascend, so learn it and keep going. You got this, king!
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