How to actually text girls?

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Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
 
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snaps bro, snaps
 
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(4 psl required)
 
Ask her sexual questions
 
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snaps bro, snaps
we were snapping last night
delivered 18 hours tho (prolly cuz school:forcedsmile:right??)

she just sends wall pics of like the top of her head with her hand on it or sum
 
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we were snapping last night
delivered 18 hours tho

she just sends wall pics of like the top of her head with her hand on it or sum
if you liked a girl, would u send dry snaps?
 
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Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
hear me out but let em talk, just respond now and then, dont put that much effort :soy:
 
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Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
You either have it or you don’t have it
 
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Best bet is to do snaps of stuff that ur doing or halfsnap ur face
 
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You know you could skip this whole forced courting rigamarole if you had some balls
oh thanks that really fucking helps
 
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I wish they were that simple:feelsgood:
I js dont really text, if you want to talk or hangout ask them to call rq and arrange it, then get to know her in person and you will also have way more things to talk about then, making you seem more interesting in person and having things to talk about makes you seem NT
 
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just try to talk about anything relevant if u want to text her, or it will seem forced, if there is nothing relevant then dont talk, unless she is like stacy then u should do anything for that puh
 
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I js dont really text, if you want to talk or hangout ask them to call rq and arrange it, then get to know her in person and you will also have way more things to talk about then, making you seem more interesting in person and having things to talk about makes you seem NT
but if your not in a position with her to call then yeah just snaps are probably best
 
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oh thanks that really fucking helps
I mean seriously, you already said yourself you're just trying to slay, no interest in LTR
 
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I guess bro
I feel like no progress is made that way tho
dude, you shouldnt be trying to make progress over the phone, phones make your exsistence known to her, dont waste ur time stressing about texting a girl if there isnt anything to talk about in the moment, wait for her to text you first, or try to hangout and talk then, best time//pussy ratio
 
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dude, you shouldnt be trying to make progress over the phone, phones make your exsistence known to her, dont waste ur time stressing about texting a girl if there isnt anything to talk about in the moment, wait for her to text you first, or try to hangout and talk then, best time//pussy ratio
yeah that's true you're right. We are going to the movies Saturday if you read my post, my goal is just to do something with her yk what I mean
 
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Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
 
I mean seriously, you already said yourself you're just trying to slay, no interest in LTR
Yeah true jfl :lul: but I don't know if she would slay first 'date' without really talking before
 
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"hey hru"
"im good and i bla bla bla"
"and what happened after?"

just keep the convo alive
more like
"hey hru"
"good wbu"
"I'm good also"
"that's good"
"wyd"
"watching tt" or "nothing"
"ohh ok"
"wyd"

boring shit and so on until it dies because she doesn't give me anything to go off of
 
more like
"hey hru"
"good wbu"
"I'm good also"
"that's good"
"wyd"
"watching tt" or "nothing"
"ohh ok"
"wyd"

boring shit and so on until it dies because she doesn't give me anything to go off of
be pushy :WeirdPeepo:
 
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Nigga texting girls :lul::lul:
 
ur forcing it, the one girl i truly loved, it felt effortless and great to talk to her, ive tried to talk to other girls and i just cant, to the point where i cant talk to them for more than like 5 mins a day, if u feel like that, then u dont truly like them back, and they probably don't even like u
 
Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
I’m no pro but start with “small talk” and if you feel like she’s engaging in the conversation it’s easier to talk about deeper stuff
 
Every time I like text girls on snap or whatever, it always feels like an interview or something.

I'm supposed to go to the movies this weekend with my friend and these 2 girls, and the girl that I guess is 'mine' is so dry and hard to text.
She said to her friend she does think I look good, so I know it's not because of that.

Also it feels so forced, and I just struggle overall
(most likely since I am nd) but I wanna be able to get to know her or closer to her (even though I could really care less I just wanna slay) but you know I gotta make it seem like I care about her and get close to her.

Anything helps
Feeling like a straight jester if I do all this and nothing happens with us

Probably going to take pregab + balofen or just a little alc with my brotha before to lower inhib.

Lemme know
try asking her why she is so dry, if she keeps red flagging, u will have to let her go, she is not interested.
 
If you’re gonna see her in person then just save any chit chat until then. Even if she really likes you, too much texting or Snapping can turn you into a jester orbiter. And for sure you can’t make her like you over text but you can inadvertently say something that gives her the ick. So just save it.
 

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