how to approach a girl?

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especially when she’s with friends
 
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Wait till she’s alone you can only approach them w friend if your htn+
so ur saying to stalk her till shes all alone?
 
Night time is the best cause therell be less people meaning not as embarassing and you wont raise your cortisol. From there when you see her walking on the street with her friend wait until they finally seperate and slowly get closer to her until she notices your presence. From there any fast movements can scare her so put your hands in your hoodie pocket and look down while walking faster. Then lock eyes with her and when she starts to run and shout you know she is ecstatic to play a game of tag. Her way of flirting is weird but you dont mind. Chase her to a dark alley until she is out of breath and begging you not to do what your about to do. From there shes all yours player :AmazingPls:
 
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especially when she’s with friends
These questions suck. What works for one guy isn't necessarily gonna work for you.
 
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Night time is the best cause therell be less people meaning not as embarassing and you wont raise your cortisol. From there when you see her walking on the street with her friend wait until they finally seperate and slowly get closer to her until she notices your presence. From there any fast movements can scare her so put your hands in your hoodie pocket and look down while walking faster. Then lock eyes with her and when she starts to run and shout you know she is ecstatic to play a game of tag. Her way of flirting is weird but you dont mind. Chase her to a dark alley until she is out of breath and begging you not to do what your about to do. From there shes all yours player :AmazingPls:
real rap
 
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If ur gonna cold approach, never ever do it when she's around friends, even just one friend, always do it when she's alone or when her friend is talking to someone else or some shit
 
what? why wouldnt it?
Because if you're just emulating someone else and not really feeling it girls will know. They can smell that shit a mile away. Girls are way more intuitive than men when it comes to knowing how someone's really feeling. They can smell the slightest whiff of desperation.

It's like with sales. You could memorize the best pitch ever written, word for word, but if you're an insecure little nerd it's not gonna do jack shit for you.
 
Because if you're just emulating someone else and not really feeling it girls will know. They can smell that shit a mile away. Girls are way more intuitive than men when it comes to knowing how someone's really feeling. They can smell the slightest whiff of desperation.

It's like with sales. You could memorize the best pitch ever written, word for word, but if you're an insecure little nerd it's not gonna do jack shit for you.
so ur basically js saying “be urself”
 
so ur basically js saying “be urself”
Yes and no. If your "self" is unattractive then you gotta cultivate some character first. If you're an unnatractive desperate nerd boy then you're not gonna get shit out of women no matter what you do, until you've had experiences that have shaped you into a more attractive well rounded type of dude.
 
Yes and no. If your "self" is unattractive then you gotta cultivate some character first. If you're an unnatractive desperate nerd boy then you're not gonna get shit out of women no matter what you do, until you've had experiences that have shaped you into a more attractive well rounded type of dude.
u js said the same thing twice did u not
 
especially when she’s with friends
Dont approach if she is with friends i know it from experience, wait till shes alone
 
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With vim and gusto
 
u js said the same thing twice did u not
No, I explained that if yourself needs to change then it needs to change. But emulation won't work.
 
especially when she’s with friends
Say this to her,
I was stalking you,
because you were so pretty,
I am in love with you,
If she rejects you,
after you say this,
she is a whore
 
No, I explained that if yourself needs to change then it needs to change. But emulation won't work.
i understand u know. thanks for putting a low amount of words for my average-below average iq. ive already started to quit porn but any other tips can also help. im also 90% sure im neurodivergent
 
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i understand u know. thanks for putting a low amount of words for my average-below average iq. ive already started to quit porn but any other tips can also help. im also 90% sure im neurodivergent
I'm neuro divergent as well. Though I don't explain myself to people and I let it work to my advantage.

Boldness and an unapologetic nature will take you very far. Never look to others for approval.
 
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I'm neuro divergent as well. Though I don't explain myself to people and I let it work to my advantage.

Boldness and an unapologetic nature will take you very far. Never look to others for approval.
thank u for the help unc ❤️
 
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i understand u know. thanks for putting a low amount of words for my average-below average iq. ive already started to quit porn but any other tips can also help. im also 90% sure im neurodivergent
dude if ur a porn addicted ND guy with no social skills then u can just fuck the whole approaching thing
 
Rock out with ya cock out
 
dude if ur a porn addicted ND guy with no social skills then u can just fuck the whole approaching thing
atp just don’t approach anybody (personal experience)
 
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