How to approach girls as an introvert and not much confident dude who rotsin his room all day long ??

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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
 
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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any...
I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
if ur in high school its easy af
i got my first gf by approaching a random girl in my class i never talked to before
 
nigga is blushing when talking to a girl jeez man thats sad
 
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if ur in high school its easy af
i got my first gf by approaching a random girl in my class i never talked to before
Man I'm in hs but how do I approach a girl without getting all nervous :hnghn::hnghn:
 
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Solutions ? I mean I already addressed the problem...
quickadd girls on snapchat and go on 2 mans and make moves even if its hard i did that and now i have confidence and can talk to girls like normal people
 
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quickadd girls on snapchat and go on 2 mans and make moves even if its hard i did that and now i have confidence and can talk to girls like normal people
Will try this
 
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How is it good bro
i literally gained so much weight but became skinnier
Boys are usually skinny while growing once your done your body will start to gain mass and at your height is is either very easy to gain mass or very hard depends on metabolism and genetics
 
Bro atleast u are tall life's over for short and skinny
Yep its just annoying that i have to wait until puberty is over to gain weight
because right now im still growing so if i gain weight i just become skinnier
 
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Yep its just annoying that i have to wait until puberty is over to gain weight
because right now im still growing so if i gain weight i just become skinnier
Eat a ton in my case I have delayed bone plates so I will grow till 21 I'm currently 16 and 175 doc said I will be 6'7 at this pace I got a bone plates of a 13 yr old
 
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Eat a ton in my case I have delayed bone plates so I will grow till 21 I'm currently 16 and 175 doc said I will be 6'7 at this pace I got a bone plates of a 13 yr old
Broo u so lucky u got delayed bone plates
 
Broo u so lucky u got delayed bone plates
But I'm so weak like i can't even kick a ball without hurting my leg maybe I will be strong at 21 but either way it's good if u are tall you will h ave good personality suddenly
 
saying a blessing is a nerf
like what i would rather get tall than muscular
Ok but im still growing which is good for basketball but outside of sports im gonna look like a wimp
 
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Ok but im still growing which is good for basketball but outside of sports im gonna look like a wimp
go to the gym if you add me on discord @pistolrounds i can give you a plan and workout routine and good split
 
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go to the gym if you add me on discord @pistolrounds i can give you a plan and workout routine and good split
i already go to the gym since i need to train for basketball. i train my legs a lot for my vertical (squats, box jump, lunges). and i also train upper body like arms, chest, back. I have defined muscles like a very visible 6 pack but overall i am just skinny and i cant change that rn cuz im still growing
 
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i already go to the gym since i need to train for basketball. i train my legs a lot for my vertical (squats, box jump, lunges). and i also train upper body like arms, chest, back. I have defined muscles like a very visible 6 pack but overall i am just skinny and i cant change that rn cuz im still growing
That ain't skinny you built like webby my bro just wait fore pub to end and then u will have more
 
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i already go to the gym since i need to train for basketball. i train my legs a lot for my vertical (squats, box jump, lunges). and i also train upper body like arms, chest, back. I have defined muscles like a very visible 6 pack but overall i am just skinny and i cant change that rn cuz im still growing
okay ill quiz you, whats the best diet to eat if you want to gain muscle is it A, protein based diet B,plant based diet C,carb based diet
 
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okay ill quiz you, whats the best diet to eat if you want to gain muscle is it A, protein based diet B,plant based diet C,carb based diet
protein ofc bro i aint stupid lol
 
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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
Gang fuck you its your face
 
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okay ill quiz you, whats the best diet to eat if you want to gain muscle is it A, protein based diet B,plant based diet C,carb based diet
Protein man are u rly on looskamxx org I mean plant ain't taking u nowhere eat protein and some carbs and u good
 
its lit wrong the right answer is carb based diet you need like 65/35 carbs and protein
Broo wtff
I mean i do eat carbs like rice and bread and potatoes. my favorite meal at school is the rice + salmon they serve on thursdays
 
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Broo wtff
I mean i do eat carbs like rice and bread and potatoes. my favorite meal at school is the rice + salmon they serve on thursdays
just get a diet tracker and try to get more carbs than protein like for example for your weight probably 135 grams protein and 250 carbs everday
 
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Broo wtff
I mean i do eat carbs like rice and bread and potatoes. my favorite meal at school is the rice + salmon they serve on thursdays
Gng ur growing taller not horizontal so yeah ur all nutrients going in your bones and u said u have dancing abs so bro its good just eat like that and your good bro dont be insecure man u are already good than many of the beings here..
 
Gng ur growing taller not horizontal so yeah ur all nutrients going in your bones and u said u have dancing abs so bro its good just eat like that and ypur good bro dont be insecure man u are already good than many of the beings here..
Bro idk whats the big deal with abs it was genuinely so easy to get
it took me 1-2 months when i was like 14 i just did a bunch of push ups / weighted sit ups and core training
 
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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any end goal of dating her whatsoever. Buttttt because she was attractive I still got a little nervous when speaking to her. So when I would talk to her it would help me learn all sorts of things about how to talk to females, how to control my nerves, what they like to hear, and now I get advice whenever I talk to a girl. That’s what worked for me brah you got this, feel free to ask any questions and please mark as solution and rep this took 10 minutes 😭
 
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Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any end goal of dating her whatsoever. Buttttt because she was attractive I still got a little nervous when speaking to her. So when I would talk to her it would help me learn all sorts of things about how to talk to females, how to control my nerves, what they like to hear, and now I get advice whenever I talk to a girl. That’s what worked for me brah you got this, feel free to ask any questions and please mark as solution and rep this took 10 minutes 😭
no fuck you i got the solution and my plan works better
 
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Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any end goal of dating her whatsoever. Buttttt because she was attractive I still got a little nervous when speaking to her. So when I would talk to her it would help me learn all sorts of things about how to talk to females, how to control my nerves, what they like to hear, and now I get advice whenever I talk to a girl. That’s what worked for me brah you got this, feel free to ask any questions and please mark as solution and rep this took 10 minutes 😭
bro it's not hard to talk to females
just pretend ur talking to ur homie but make sure to have some filter like dont say crazy shit
 
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