how to ask out girl in my uni?

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we used to have a class together and talked one time 4weeks ago
now i see her everyday at the library how do i strike up conversation with her

when should i ask for a "date" like going to the cristmas market
not instantly probably

what do say to her in general
 
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Just go to talk to her make her comfortable with you. Jfl how do people struggle with this
 
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Just go to talk to her make her comfortable with you. Jfl how do people struggle with this
how like she sits at a weird place in the library its like you go all the way up and its only one table there it would maxbe seem like i am chasing her down
 
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damn idk man i have social anxiety got bullied a lot when i was fat
Damn nigga. That is tough. But you need to accept you need to be a low inhib mogger and just do it
 
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Damn nigga. That is tough. But you need to accept you need to be a low inhib mogger and just do it
so chase her down and go all the way up to her table lmao
what do ineven say
 
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now i see her everyday at the library how do i strike up conversation with her
Start a convo with her at the library
when should i ask for a "date" like going to the cristmas market
After a few days of talking I’d say. Once you guys are more comfortable with each other.

what do say to her in general
Since you used to have class with her, maybe talk abt stuff that happened during class. You know those “Oh remember in class when…”
 
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Just approach her and introduce yourself, only way that wont work is if you look horrendous, which i assume you don't
 
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Start a convo with her at the library

After a few days of talking I’d say. Once you guys are more comfortable with each other.


Since you used to have class with her, maybe talk abt stuff that happened during class. You know those “Oh remember in class when…”
the bloodline ends with me
i feel like the conversation will feel so forced
 
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the bloodline ends with me
i feel like the conversation will feel so forced
Try brah, we never know. She might just be one of those shy girls so that’s why the first interactions might feel forced.
 
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Very simple. Find a topic you wanna discuss with her and invite her to a cafeteria to chat about it. Be chill and playful and you will be golden.
 
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Try brah, we never know. She might just be one of those shy girls so that’s why the first interactions might feel forced.
yeah she always sits alone and doesnt have many friends but im also shy so who is gonna do the socializing
 
Very simple. Find a topic you wanna discuss with her and invite her to a cafeteria to chat about it. Be chill and playful and you will be golden.
how do i find this
 
"hey bitch, u wanna fuck"
 
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jfl go up to her and say hey, how you doing and talk about what you did at the weekend or something interesting going on at uni. 3 minute conversation but don't be a stoic idiot.

do this a couple times, not every day, maybe 4-5 times a week. THEN ask for instagram and start making intentions clear.
 
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jfl go up to her and say hey, how you doing and talk about what you did at the weekend or something interesting going on at uni. 3 minute conversation but don't be a stoic idiot.

do this a couple times, not every day, maybe 4-5 times a week. THEN ask for instagram and start making intentions clear.
must be nice to be nt
 
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how do i find this
You can talk about anything within reason. Its the delivery and tone that matters. If she is interested she will entertain whatever you want to talk about. Be creative and think about something, idk what your interaction was like with her before so I cant just tell u for sure
 
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You can talk about anything within reason. Its the delivery and tone that matters. If she is interested she will entertain whatever you want to talk about. Be creative and think about something, idk what your interaction was like with her before so I cant just tell u for sure
it was very short
i was late so i had to sit next to her and i made a joke about how the teacher is gay and the she laughed amd also made a joke how you cant ask him as a man bc he will think im hitting on him and them she asked me how to get into the like uni account i helped her and then we never talked again
 
needed pregab for that simple of an interaction
 

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