how to be more social?

[casuus]

My life is pretty boring right now. I dont really socialize outside of school. I have like a lot of “friends“ from several friend groups (6 friend groups) but I dont do anything with them outside of school except maybe play fortnite or something. It feels so weird cuz its like im so close but yet so far from them. I spent all my weekends isolated by myself rotting in bed or going on walks. I rarely get invited to anything. I dont have any hobbies right now except working out at home and editing videos for youtubers. I wanted to go to the gym but I dont know how the machines work and shit so I wanted someone that I could go with for the first time to help and shit. several people offered me to go with them but at the end none of them did (just like any other shit I try to do with someone). I also played basketball for several years but quit a year ago after all of my old friends quit. For some reason nothing works out for me and I cant make real valuable friends. Im mtn, above average tall, 15, muslim living in germany. Im not introverted dont get me wrong. Even though I am isolated by myself, when I get the change to talk to ppl I have good conversations. I feel like a fucking loser tho because of my lack of socializing with people. I also have a screentime of 10h+ a day because of that.

 

[nik.077]

why be more social when you could just watch instagram reels instead of socializing

 

[twothousandtwelve]

dnrd james pfp

 

[LetStartPleas]

My life is pretty boring right now. I dont really socialize outside of school. I have like a lot of “friends“ from several friend groups (6 friend groups) but I dont do anything with them outside of school except maybe play fortnite or something. It feels so weird cuz its like im so close but yet so far from them. I spent all my weekends isolated by myself rotting in bed or going on walks. I rarely get invited to anything. I dont have any hobbies right now except working out at home and editing videos for youtubers. I wanted to go to the gym but I dont know how the machines work and shit so I wanted someone that I could go with for the first time to help and shit. several people offered me to go with them but at the end none of them did (just like any other shit I try to do with someone). I also played basketball for several years but quit a year ago after all of my old friends quit. For some reason nothing works out for me and I cant make real valuable friends. Im mtn, above average tall, 15, muslim living in germany. Im not introverted dont get me wrong. Even though I am isolated by myself, when I get the change to talk to ppl I have good conversations. I feel like a fucking loser tho because of my lack of socializing with people. I also have a screentime of 10h+ a day because of that.

Go to the gym now days is easy to learn u have apps that shows u how to do the exercises and those “a lot of friends” are not ur friends they are just school people because a real friends is outside and inside of the school and go talk to random people it’s funny just ask random questions trust me is not that hard

 

[mqtl]

dont be social, dont talk to girls until ur chadlite or ur just gon end up like me