JustChris
Slay or be slayed
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So many people ask the same question : How do you get her into your bed? Is it thanks to your looks? Is it thanks to your height? Eye color? Because you got game? Because you're high energy? Well, the answer is all of the above, but NOT in excessive quantity.
I'll use a friend of mine as an example. He's not that good looking, slightly above average, around 1m82 and 75 kilograms. He does however dress well, takes good care of himself (hygiene wise), always smiles, and knows how to make girls laugh.
We used to go to parties together during College, and he'll always end up with a girl by the end of the night.
Now how does he do it? Is there a secret to it? No.
Do you know how many times he got rejected before being able to properly talk to a woman? He got rejected so many times that he doesn't even give a fuck about rejection anymore. He has that "what's the worst that can happen" mindset before approaching a girl.
Despite not being that good looking, he is smooth as butter. He knows how to start a conversation, he knows how to keep a conversation going, he knows how to draw the attention of the girls, and he does all that by smiling, cracking jokes, nagging the girl a bit then establishing playful physical contact.
Now you're gonna say "but Cris, he only ends up with average looking girls". No, he doesn't. He fucks Stacies on a daily basis. Now, keep in mind, if you're still living with your parents, don't have a car to drive her to her place while she invites you over, then all of this is not possible.
There is not ONE SINGLE ELEMENT that makes girls go crazy about a guy. It's a whole package. You need the right amount of everything to create the perfect person for the opposite sex.
You actually need to go out and fail first before succeeding. Even the biggest slayers and chads got rejected. You think pussy falls from the sky right on your dick while sitting on the couch playing whatever video game you enjoy on a Friday and Saturday night?
Go out, go talk to people, socialize. Social skills develop overtime, you're not born with it, that's why it's a skill. It can be practiced and you can become good at it.
If you're not socially awkward, then half the job is already done. If you're not capable of scoring PSL 8's right off the bat, lower your standards, and build up your confidence slowly. There's no need to hurry, 10 years is more than enough to have enough sex for your whole life.
I'll use a friend of mine as an example. He's not that good looking, slightly above average, around 1m82 and 75 kilograms. He does however dress well, takes good care of himself (hygiene wise), always smiles, and knows how to make girls laugh.
We used to go to parties together during College, and he'll always end up with a girl by the end of the night.
Now how does he do it? Is there a secret to it? No.
Do you know how many times he got rejected before being able to properly talk to a woman? He got rejected so many times that he doesn't even give a fuck about rejection anymore. He has that "what's the worst that can happen" mindset before approaching a girl.
Despite not being that good looking, he is smooth as butter. He knows how to start a conversation, he knows how to keep a conversation going, he knows how to draw the attention of the girls, and he does all that by smiling, cracking jokes, nagging the girl a bit then establishing playful physical contact.
Now you're gonna say "but Cris, he only ends up with average looking girls". No, he doesn't. He fucks Stacies on a daily basis. Now, keep in mind, if you're still living with your parents, don't have a car to drive her to her place while she invites you over, then all of this is not possible.
There is not ONE SINGLE ELEMENT that makes girls go crazy about a guy. It's a whole package. You need the right amount of everything to create the perfect person for the opposite sex.
You actually need to go out and fail first before succeeding. Even the biggest slayers and chads got rejected. You think pussy falls from the sky right on your dick while sitting on the couch playing whatever video game you enjoy on a Friday and Saturday night?
Go out, go talk to people, socialize. Social skills develop overtime, you're not born with it, that's why it's a skill. It can be practiced and you can become good at it.
If you're not socially awkward, then half the job is already done. If you're not capable of scoring PSL 8's right off the bat, lower your standards, and build up your confidence slowly. There's no need to hurry, 10 years is more than enough to have enough sex for your whole life.
