raspberryfart
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Long post but maybe someone need this.
1. MINDSET
Many people don't talk to others because they are afraid of rejection, so they starve themselves of social interaction, which just makes it worse. Stop overthinking what you're saying, stop seeking approval, and learn to accept rejection.
2. Appearance
People notice your look first. It's not only looks but also good hygiene, clean clothes, a hairstyle that suits you, and confidence that give people a strong first impression. Appearance won't create friends but will draw them in.
3. Conversation
Someone good at communicating is someone who listens, asks genuine and thoughtful questions, and responds naturally. Conversations get easier with practice, so try it first.
4. Keeping friends
A healthy friendship has all parties giving effort. Checking in, being reliable, keeping your word, and supporting your friends during both good and bad times builds trust. Friendships build over time.
5.Presence
This is huge for making friends: how you make others feel when you are around them. People enjoy when you are genuinely interested in something they like. Don't interrupt people, show you care, and avoid negativity. If someone is sad, show them that you make them happy.
6. Where to find friends
Finding friends isnt luck its about being in the right place at the right time. Do things that match your hobbies. Think about what you like to do, what you liked in the past, or maybe something new. Then find communities around this hobby or interest and build off of that.
1. MINDSET
Many people don't talk to others because they are afraid of rejection, so they starve themselves of social interaction, which just makes it worse. Stop overthinking what you're saying, stop seeking approval, and learn to accept rejection.
2. Appearance
People notice your look first. It's not only looks but also good hygiene, clean clothes, a hairstyle that suits you, and confidence that give people a strong first impression. Appearance won't create friends but will draw them in.
3. Conversation
Someone good at communicating is someone who listens, asks genuine and thoughtful questions, and responds naturally. Conversations get easier with practice, so try it first.
4. Keeping friends
A healthy friendship has all parties giving effort. Checking in, being reliable, keeping your word, and supporting your friends during both good and bad times builds trust. Friendships build over time.
5.Presence
This is huge for making friends: how you make others feel when you are around them. People enjoy when you are genuinely interested in something they like. Don't interrupt people, show you care, and avoid negativity. If someone is sad, show them that you make them happy.
6. Where to find friends
Finding friends isnt luck its about being in the right place at the right time. Do things that match your hobbies. Think about what you like to do, what you liked in the past, or maybe something new. Then find communities around this hobby or interest and build off of that.
