How to cope with being an undesirable, fairly gl guy?

[.*my*.]

I'm 21 years old and I still haven't been able to get a girl. I have been rejected 15 times (not cold approach type of rejected, I actually knew them and they would dump me soon). ALL OF THEM were less attractive than me. I really can't take it anymore. All I got so far is held hands and got a hug and three dates.


I would've understood and maybe even come to terms with it if I was ugly or average, but I'm 6'3, in good shape chadlite. I can't even kill myself because I don't want to burn in hell. I don't know what to do. I, frankly speaking, won't even try anymore because the probability that I would get a girl is zero. Every guy my age, regardless of his looks has had some kind of a meaningful relationship, but not me.

 

[Deleted member 15129]

You are good looking and tall. Tbh I think you just might be the world's unluckiest Chad. Like nature's joke for us incels

 

[Deleted member 9670]

get gf faggot

 

[Deleted member 15129]

Also have you tried Indian women yet?

 

[.*my*.]

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Also have you tried Indian women yet?

Indians no. Asians yes.

 

[.*my*.]

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You are good looking and tall. Tbh I think you just might be the world's unluckiest Chad. Like nature's joke for us incels

I wonder who feels worse. Incel who can't get a girl or me.

 

[Deleted member 15129]

I wonder who feels worse. Incel who can't get a girl or me.

 

[justadude]

you genuinely have a bad personality bro

 

[Deleted member 11414]

im not tryna be a dick or make a joke of ur situation but do u have autism?

 

[.*my*.]

im not tryna be a dick or make a joke of ur situation but do u have autism?

Maybe very mild because I keep a job for months just fine, my colleagues treat me well and my friends love me. Everything is fine except for my intimate relationships. But that's enough to make me extremely sad.

 

[Deleted member 11414]

Maybe very mild because I keep a job for months just fine, my colleagues treat me well and my friends love me. Everything is fine except for my intimate relationships. But that's enough to make me extremely sad.

i relate, im not really super ugly, i can keep a healthy social circle but when it comes to getting gfs i just can't, i have b4 the first one went good but the second one was trash

 

[Deleted member 4430]

youre delusional HTN

 

[.*my*.]

youre delusional HTN

Even if I was htn I'm still 6'3, employed and make above average income.

 

[Ryan]

youre delusional HTN

with height holo and good harmony hes chadlite

 

[Deleted member 4430]

employed and make above average income.

weren' you homeless and now youre doing manual labor?

 

[.*my*.]

weren' you homeless and now youre doing manual labor?

Yeah I am. And it pays well. Mainly because everybody else quits because it's hard.

 

[n0rthface]

Yeah I am. And it pays well. Mainly because everybody else quits because it's hard.

What job is it bro

 

[Deleted member 14793]

Everything matters, a girl could be attracted to you at first but anything can still turn her off. Personality barley matters for hookups but it 100% matters for ‘meaningful relationships’

 

[eduardkoopman]

I'm 21 years old and I still haven't been able to get a girl. I have been rejected 15 times (not cold approach type of rejected, I actually knew them and they would dump me soon). ALL OF THEM were less attractive than me. I really can't take it anymore. All I got so far is held hands and got a hug and three dates.


I would've understood and maybe even come to terms with it if I was ugly or average, but I'm 6'3, in good shape chadlite. I can't even kill myself because I don't want to burn in hell. I don't know what to do. I, frankly speaking, won't even try anymore because the probability that I would get a girl is zero. Every guy my age, regardless of his looks has had some kind of a meaningful relationship, but not me.

1 out of 5, leading to a date.
Not bad.
Basically 20% of women you chat up, will go on a date with you.


Your issue seems.
You only chatted up 15 women in your life so far.

If you add 100 Women, to the list of whom you try to get with.
You have 20 dates.
It be really odd, if a few of these 20 dates don't convert into something

 

[AlexAP]

Brutal, a legit Chadcel.

 

[JawGuyFatFaceGuy]

I'm 21 years old and I still haven't been able to get a girl. I have been rejected 15 times (not cold approach type of rejected, I actually knew them and they would dump me soon). ALL OF THEM were less attractive than me. I really can't take it anymore. All I got so far is held hands and got a hug and three dates.


I would've understood and maybe even come to terms with it if I was ugly or average, but I'm 6'3, in good shape chadlite. I can't even kill myself because I don't want to burn in hell. I don't know what to do. I, frankly speaking, won't even try anymore because the probability that I would get a girl is zero. Every guy my age, regardless of his looks has had some kind of a meaningful relationship, but not me.

I think you should try a different haircut,sides short leave the top as it is

 

[eduardkoopman]

I think you should try a different haircut,sides short leave the top as it is

you genuinely have a bad personality bro

Probably cope, analysis.

The passivity, pro-active. factor is often overlooked here.
ONLY, a Chad can get away with being passive!!

Why, no one mentions; Passive-cel?????

Assuming, OP started dating at 18.
in 3 years time.
aka, in 1000 days.
He only tried to get with, and flirt with 15 women. And even got to have 3 dates.
That's like flirting with 1 woman, every 2 months.
aka, Passiv-cel.
As a non-Chad dude; you have to make the first move.

Just hit, flirt with 3 women per week, and you be good.

(not cold approach type of rejected, I actually knew them and they would dump me soon).

You fell for the blackpill cope of some dudes, that making the first move makes you a cringe PUA or something. And for the cope, that you should only go for women within social circle.You can also hit on women, other than social circle also. maybe online, dating apps, at parties, at events, even in daily life when waiting at the bus stop or whatever.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Are you very high inhib? Can’t see why you shouldn’t get girls tbh

 

[JawGuyFatFaceGuy]

Probably cope, analysis.

The passivity, pro-active. factor is often overlooked here.
ONLY, a Chad can get away with being passive!!

Why, no one mentions; Passive-cel?????

Assuming, OP started dating at 18.
in 3 years time.
aka, in 1000 days.
He only tried to get with, and flirt with 15 women. And even got to have 3 dates.
That's like flirting with 1 woman, every 2 months.
aka, Passiv-cel.
As a non-Chad dude; you have to make the first move.

Just hit, flirt with 3 women per week, and you be good.

You fell for the blackpill cope of some dudes, that making the first move makes you a cringe PUA or something. And for the cope, that you should only go for women within social circle.You can also hit on women, other than social circle also. maybe online, dating apps, at parties, at events, even in daily life when waiting at the bus stop or whatever.

Then your just boring dude looking allright is one thing but if ur personality and ur behaviour is inceltier then over also not all females are into tall dudes and ur face is more so slightly above average nothing special

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

All I got so far is held hands and got a hug and three dates.

Mogs me