How to cope with being friendzoned?

[mitsuki6643]

Some months ago I met a girl and she gave me all the signals that she was into me too, but she said to one of my friends that is her friend too, that she only see me as a friend

 

[Deleted member 136057]

Some months ago I met a girl and she gave me all the signals that she was into me too, but she said to one of my friends that is her friend too, that she only see me as a friend

All signals? Many people think girls being nice to u is IOI

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Just dip theres never any reason to be friends with a girl

 

[Mess]

Move onto another girl.

 

[xzylecrey]

By hating them cus yk im a cool nice boy but im still khhv

 

[mitsuki6643]

All signals? Many people think girls being nice to u is IOI

I spent like everyday in call with her from like 10PM to 4AM, she was always hugging me and saying how she loved me and that I was pretty and all that shit, she even said that she doesnt wanted me to date anybody because we would talk less and she send pictures of her with no reason just saying love u, she wrote me a letter too saying how much she liked me and that I was the best thing that happened to her in 2025, (she didnt mention anything about dating on the letter), she was always posting photos with me on her private instagram and I was the main photo of one of her highlights too, I talked with one of her male friends and he said that by how much she talked about me he was surprised when I said we werent dating, I even met her mother. I think this is more than just being nice

 

[mitsuki6643]

Move onto another girl.

Im trying to that but even when I was with another girl like 5 days ago I was thinking about her and how I would much rather be with her

 

[trump]

simply dont care

 

[mitsuki6643]

Just dip theres never any reason to be friends with a girl

Its good sometimes because u can pull one of her friends

 

[Zeuxx]

Just let ur desire for her die down naturally, make sure to cry if you feel like it

 

[mitsuki6643]

Just let ur desire for her die down naturally, make sure to cry if you feel like it

I already tried crying but I simply cant

 

[Datto29]

Its simple you dont..
If she once sees you as just a friend she will never truly be attracted to you because she didnt in the first place. its over for you
Just move on

 

[Zeuxx]

I already tried crying but I simply cant

Unironically wait until ur alone and listen to some sad songs, mac de marco is great for sad love

(Also add sad Bart as pfp)

 

[mitsuki6643]

Unironically wait until ur alone and listen to some sad songs, mac de marco is great for sad love

(Also add sad Bart as pfp)

I may try this ty

 

[Zeuxx]

I may try this ty

Rep me nigger

 

[limerence]

I spent like everyday in call with her from like 10PM to 4AM, she was always hugging me and saying how she loved me and that I was pretty and all that shit, she even said that she doesnt wanted me to date anybody because we would talk less and she send pictures of her with no reason just saying love u, she wrote me a letter too saying how much she liked me and that I was the best thing that happened to her in 2025, (she didnt mention anything about dating on the letter), she was always posting photos with me on her private instagram and I was the main photo of one of her highlights too, I talked with one of her male friends and he said that by how much she talked about me he was surprised when I said we werent dating, I even met her mother. I think this is more than just being nice

she dont like you bro, she hates you, thats the way you gotta think, coming from someone who went through the same thing.