How to cope with being talentless?

[Suimaxxer]

Theres not a single thing im good at, im either average at something or just terrible. Maybe if there was something i loved doing and was practicing it for years i would be good at it, but theres nothing that brings me joy or excites me

 

[Deleted member 26060]

you wont find stuff that gives you joy or excitement if you rot on forums saying to yourself that nothing excites or gives joy (Whatever you believe becomes reality). instead, try doing things that at least look interesting and try it out and persisty on it until you cant look back on it, this happened for me with working out and studying. Now im trying to do the same with chess

 

[juste]

you are indeed talentless and useless
you are born a follower

 

[Suimaxxer]

you wont find stuff that gives you joy or excitement if you rot on forums saying to yourself that nothing excites or gives joy (Whatever you believe becomes reality). instead, try doing things that at least look interesting and try it out and persisty on it until you cant look back on it, this happened for me with working out and studying. Now im trying to do the same with chess

Ive tried this but it didnt work, otherwise i wouldnt be here

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Pin testosterone

 

[Deleted member 24444]

you wont find stuff that gives you joy or excitement if you rot on forums saying to yourself that nothing excites or gives joy (Whatever you believe becomes reality). instead, try doing things that at least look interesting and try it out and persisty on it until you cant look back on it, this happened for me with working out and studying. Now im trying to do the same with chess

He is fishing for attention, useless to give proper advice

 

[Deleted member 21735]

you have talents but cant harnes them rn

 

[jojoyou]

Talents are useless until you have a means to use them. I was a very good cycling and sports athletic that I even won national and particitipated in international tournaments, but in my country no one gives a fuck about these sports unless it’s cricket. So now I am rotting in my house and just doing mma for fun, I hope I get enough brain damage to become low inhib and forget my regrets about my previous sports.

 

[Suimaxxer]

you have talents but cant harnes them rn

I dont think i do

 

[Deleted member 21735]

I dont think i do

keep searching

 

[Suimaxxer]

He is fishing for attention, useless to give proper advice

It might seem like i do but i dont, i actually need to find a way to cope with this shit

 

[Deleted member 26116]

I have a quite similar problem. I am above average in almost everything I do, but not above enough to be spectacular, just above enough to notice I'm better than average but not much. I still haven't figured out how I'm gonna break this cycle.