how to cope with my own thoughts

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got broken up with a few months ago, my first and only girlfriend ever, and although I’m mostly past it all I can think about is that when I die, all my memories will be of her, and not those who actively love me, like my family. any way to cope with this or does it just take time
 
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got broken up with a few months ago, my first and only girlfriend ever, and although I’m mostly past it all I can think about is that when I die, all my memories will be of her, and not those who actively love me, like my family. any way to cope with this or does it just take time
Time will pass and so will the feelings, not forever, but to a lesser extent. I don't know how you are, but one usually gets used to it, just don't dwell too much on it, the past is the past.

Feel the emotions and move on.
 
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Time will pass and so will the feelings, not forever, but to a lesser extent. I don't know how you are, but one usually gets used to it, just don't dwell too much on it, the past is the past.

Feel the emotions and move on.
thanks a lot man, you’re right. it’s how I’ve been handling it but I’m just not good with stopping myself from thinking about it so currently. i have so many unexpressed feelings towards her that i wish I could get out. it’s like they’re trapped in me and they want to leave but they’re rotting away inside my head. but thank you, I’ll keep moving like i have been and maybe dwell on those thoughts less.
 
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you rot here..
you mean in this headspace or on .org? I didn’t come here because of the nature of the break up, but because I have really low confidence in my own appearance.
 
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you mean in this headspace or on .org? I didn’t come here because of the nature of the break up, but because I have really low confidence in my own appearance.
you rot here

but only once u realize theres no looksmaxxing for your shit genetics. if u have good genetics you ascend even further and leave eventually.
 
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you rot here

but only once u realize theres no looksmaxxing for your shit genetics. if u have good genetics you ascend even further and leave eventually.
Realitypill is a tough one
 
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thanks a lot man, you’re right. it’s how I’ve been handling it but I’m just not good with stopping myself from thinking about it so currently. i have so many unexpressed feelings towards her that i wish I could get out. it’s like they’re trapped in me and they want to leave but they’re rotting away inside my head. but thank you, I’ll keep moving like i have been and maybe dwell on those thoughts less.
Don’t stop yourself from having the thoughts, analyze them and reassure yourself that what happened, happened and it’ll be okay.

Think positively!
 
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Some people do drugs or drink
 
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Don’t stop yourself from having the thoughts, analyze them and reassure yourself that what happened, happened and it’ll be okay.

Think positively!
absolutely, I like to think I’m pretty good with that, and again, thanks for the insight man
 
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