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Did you hire some dating coach irl 3 years ago ? Wow @subhuman incelIt's a simple process but it's not exactly easy, even if you're good looking, because you still need to find women that like you and want to have sex with you. Going out to bars and clubs will give you more women who just want to hookup but also more competition, so unless you can find a way to beat the competition by mogging them with better looks and more confidence and game, then it's not going to work.
As for day game, you have to be less direct but it can still work very well because there is no competition for those women.
As for online dating, it can work if you have enough matches and you follow the proper template to move things quickly. But for most guys it's not going to work, because you need top tier looks because online dating is where there is the most competition, so women have the advantage.
The true reason why you don't believe that day game could work is because this forum told you that women only want the men that this forum sees as Chads. The truth is that although self confidence on its own doesn't attract women, it allows you to make the approach without being awkward and then, if the woman finds you good looking enough and she is not taken and she wants to date, then she will give you her number and you'll be able to go on a date.
The reason why getting laid seems impossible is because as men, we put so many obstacles in our own path because we always believe that we are not good enough when trying to succeed with women. We see ourselves as ugly even though there are many women who would be happy to be with us. The only reason why women are picky on dating apps is because they have over a thousand matches.
The reason why Online Dating isn't like day game or night game is because women take it less seriously, because a text is less impactful than a real life conversation with someone.
The only time in my life where I ever cold approached women was when I had been taught to be confident by a pickup artist I met while on vacation in an all inclusive resort in Mexico. He was not good looking at all and he was average height, but because he played the numbers game and because he was confident enough to talk to women, he got laid with many women. Back then, I managed to approach a woman who was way out of my league (she was 18) and she was really interested in me so she gave me her contact info, but because I didn't know how to proceed from there, because I was an insecure 18 year old, I didn't manage to meet her again. I also met a hot 6 feet tall 25 year old woman who was really attracted to me but I didn't manage to have sex with her because I had to leave on the day where things started to get interesting because my parents booked for the weeks just before christmas because it was cheaper.
And, on the bus on the way back, I talked to a less attractive 24 year old asian woman, she gave me her contact info really quickly and she was so surprised by what I did that she told her family when we got to the airport, I also wasted that opportunity by not asking her out.
So, on a holiday, just because of a PUA that I met, I managed to attract 3 different women by talking to them, and that was back when I had a type 3 underbite (worst underbite imaginable), so I was way uglier than today and way skinnier too, I was maybe only 4/10 in looks but I was able to attract women who were 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in looks. While now, although I get stared at by hotter women, because I don't approach them, I am less successful than my former self.
So I believe that the best way to gain the confidence required to succeed with women is to force yourself to talk to women. And like I said, if women find you good looking, cold approaching will get you laid. And unless you are fat, there are some women who will want to have sex with you and some of them will be women that you would consider as being very attractive, but uglier women are still easier because they tend to have lower standards, based on my own experiences.