How to cope with the fact that your parents will DIE?

[Deleted member 24940]

My dad just turned 70 and I'm afraid he's going to die within like 10-15 years.

Do .org users have any dead relatives? How do you guys cope with the thought of your parents dying?

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@MoggerGaston @Xangsane @TRUE_CEL @SecularIslamist @the BULL @defezman @HimmyButler

 

[MoggerGaston]

i don't have any contact with my family.

 

[Deleted member 28916]

think about it, if they were in heaven watching you, would they want you to cry or just move on and and focus in life and make them proud, so just dont be sad

 

[Dr. Bludy]

With a bullet going trough my skull innit

 

[Deleted member 24940]

i don't have any contact with my family.

That's sad, Why?

 

[Deleted member 30679]

U ask an incel forum?

think about it, if they were in heaven watching you, would they want you to cry or just move on and and focus in life and make them proud, so just dont be sad

Parents in heaven watching you rot on a incel forum called looksmaxxing.org

 

[Deleted member 24940]

think about it, if they were in heaven watching you, would they want you to cry or just move on and and focus in life and make them proud, so just dont be sad

The thing is I'm not sure I believe in God. What proof do you have that God exists?

 

[MoggerGaston]

That's sad, Why?

abusive parents, dickhead brother.

I broke contact with them for what they did to me and have no real interest in getting back in touch

 

[Deleted member 28916]

U ask an incel forum?

Parents in heaven watching you rot on a incel forum called looksmaxxing.org

no, theyre watching me ascend

 

[Deleted member 30679]

no, theyre watching me ascend

Would be mirin if I was your parent

 

[Deleted member 28731]

Spend time with them, no regrets

 

[It'snotover]

We simply can't. They are the only people that will truly love you(of course there are bad exceptions) and once they will be passed you'll be alone. Life is brutal.

 

[SecularIslamist]

My father was old as well. My mother is the last person that actually cares about me. When she passes away I'd literally have no one. It's a haunting thought. Moving out for a job and living alone made it worse tbh - even tho I'm 28.

My phone history is literally 90% just calls from my mother. I stupidly ignore it and keep convos short but I know I'll regret it in future.

 

[HitAndRun]

Elon Musk will creaty or either buy inmortality dw
Plus in my environment some people reach 90 years or even more ngl

 

[the BULL]

Are you seriously asking how to cope with death
Just enjoy your time with them and Hope they pass away peacefully, 70 Means still plenty of time hopefully.

 

[looksmaxxed]

just die before them so you don't have to deal with that shit

 

[Zer0/∞]

My dad just turned 70 and I'm afraid he's going to die within like 10-15 years.

Autism

 

[Deleted member 24940]

abusive parents, dickhead brother.

I broke contact with them for what they did to me and have no real interest in getting back in touch

How did they abuse you?

Are you seriously asking how to cope with death
Just enjoy your time with them and Hope they pass away peacefully, 70 Means still plenty of time hopefully.

You seriously don't worry about your parents health and shit? Would you feel bad if they died?

 

[Tusseleif]

Hopefully I’ll have roped before then. Dad just turned 65 and mum turns 60 next year. I’ll have no one else except my two siblings (who I’m not very close with tbh). When my parents and grandparents die, I’ll be a complete loner. People say losing a child is bad, but losing your parents is equally bad when you’re vulnerable

 

[Tusseleif]

My father was old as well. My mother is the last person that actually cares about me. When she passes away I'd literally have no one. It's a haunting thought. Moving out for a job and living alone made it worse tbh - even tho I'm 28.

My phone history is literally 90% just calls from my mother. I stupidly ignore it and keep convos short but I know I'll regret it in future.

Yeah. My mum had food poisoning some weeks ago and had kidney failure, spent weeks in the hospital. Could have died, you never know. You kinda take your parents for granted but it made me appreciate her more. Always felt weird telling my parents or those close to me I love them because it feels unmasculine, but after it happened and she recovered I told her

 

[MoggerGaston]

How did they abuse you?

control my life, direct their anger from each-other (failed marriage) towards me and my brother, threaten me with abandonment if I didn't do as they say, etc.

Mostly my mom was extremely abusive, both towards me and my dad. My dad is weak and let it all happen, retreated to the basement.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

control my life, direct their anger from each-other (failed marriage) towards me and my brother, threaten me with abandonment if I didn't do as they say, etc.

Mostly my mom was extremely abusive, both towards me and my dad. My dad is weak and let it all happen, retreated to the basement.

Holy shit exact same for me. My mother was extremely abusive cunt and my dad was a pushover who just worked all the time to avoid her wrath.

I talked to my dad recently and he told me he regrets being a weak cuck back then. I feel sympathy for him now and understand he was a victim too, although I hate my mother and hope she dies. You should talk to your father bro.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Yeah. My mum had food poisoning some weeks ago and had kidney failure, spent weeks in the hospital. Could have died, you never know. You kinda take your parents for granted but it made me appreciate her more. Always felt weird telling my parents or those close to me I love them because it feels unmasculine, but after it happened and she recovered I told her

I never show my emotions and can hide them really well.

I'm one of those autists who desire family and friendship but I'm too autistic and afraid of people, and come off as 'cold' and emotionless when I'm really not.

NGL I blame JRPGs in my younger days jfl

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I never show my emotions and can hide them really well.

I'm one of those autists who desire family and friendship but I'm too autistic and afraid of people, and come off as 'cold' and emotionless when I'm really not.

NGL I blame JRPGs in my younger days jfl

Same. I find all signs of affection cringe for some reason.

For example I find hugging cringe as fuck. I also find saying "I love you" to be cringe as fuck even if I feel it towards my father. I don't know why I'm like this.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Holy shit exact same for me. My mother was extremely abusive cunt and my dad was a pushover who just worked all the time to avoid her wrath.

I talked to my dad recently and he told me he regrets being a weak cuck back then. I feel sympathy for him now and understand he was a victim too, although I hate my mother and hope she dies. You should talk to your father bro.

I've talked to my father not too long ago, and he said he suffers from extremely low self-esteem, and it saddened him to see that I took over that trait atleast partially.

Also he said he was stuck with my mom indefinitely and he saw+sees no way out. Because in a divorce he would lose half his wealth, pension, house, etc. And he said it just ain't worth it for him to go through that anymore. And he prefers coping with my narc mom's abuse and finding ways to deal with that, than to go through divorce.

Brutal.

My dad also suffered from depression when he was in his twenties/early thirties. Then got a wife(my mom) from eastern Europe since he felt like he needed to start a family, which he regretted afterwards. My mom has also told me she regretted getting married and having kids.

Tbh it's all just fucked. 2 parents with mental issues having kids they didn't really want, and now my brother and I deal with their fucked up upbringing as a result and the damage it caused to our psyche.

I feel bad for my dad since he's so weak and let it all happen ngl. But at the same time he is just as much to blame as my abusive mother I guess. He never did anything to stop her or help us/himself.

 

[Tusseleif]

I'm one of those autists who desire family and friendship but I'm too autistic and afraid of people, and come off as 'cold' and emotionless when I'm really not.

Yeah I’m the same, can’t communicate very well, afraid of people, used to being alone. Feel very lonely and desire companionship, family, friends, yet always push people away

 

[longjohnmong]

One of the most terrible things about existence if you love your parents, just gut wrenchingly horrible. Not really anything you can do except not think about it too much.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

One of the most terrible things about existence if you love your parents, just gut wrenchingly horrible. Not really anything you can do except not think about it too much.

It's brutal. I'll be sad AF when my dad does. The mf did so much for me growing up.

 

[The Grinch]

Heard old people have incontinence. Is this the case with your parents

 

[BearBoy]

I dont cope with shit they already are gone.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

i get inheritance so idc

 

[Deleted member 15067]

It will be tough but I have my siblings I am close with and I am older than them so I hopefully won’t have to see them die as well

 

[Nick.Harte]

I don't know man. I would say start envisioning life without them gradually so that you can cope with it better when the day comes.

 

[longjohnmong]

It's brutal. I'll be sad AF when my dad does. The mf did so much for me growing up.

I've been thinking about it my entire life. I used to cry myself to sleep as a kid thinking about my parents dying.

My mom has Alzheimer's now and in a way it's kind of easier because the person just slowly fades away. I guess when they finally die it's sad, but by that point the "real" them has been gone for so long that you probably don't miss them as much.

 

[Artemis]

My dad just turned 70 and I'm afraid he's going to die within like 10-15 years.

Do .org users have any dead relatives? How do you guys cope with the thought of your parents dying?

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@MoggerGaston @Xangsane @TRUE_CEL @SecularIslamist @the BULL @defezman @HimmyButler

Wait.. how old are YOU then?

 

[frenchmaxxing]

My dad just turned 70 and I'm afraid he's going to die within like 10-15 years.

Do .org users have any dead relatives? How do you guys cope with the thought of your parents dying?

Spoiler

@MoggerGaston @Xangsane @TRUE_CEL @SecularIslamist @the BULL @defezman @HimmyButler

having kids and securing the bloodline, raising them good, if your parents have a house you inherit then clean it up and take care of it. By making the bloodline live you are making sure that your parent’s time wasn’t spent for nothing and that you also had kids that you will love and sacrifice everything for them. The ultimate goal in life is to keep your bloodline alive, to save the most people possible or to make sure your name is remembered for decades if not millenias, like jules ceasar or the mustache man.

 

[looksmaxxed]

having kids and securing the bloodline, raising them good, if your parents have a house you inherit then clean it up and take care of it. By making the bloodline live you are making sure that your parent’s time wasn’t spent for nothing and that you also had kids that you will love and sacrifice everything for them. The ultimate goal in life is to keep your bloodline alive, to save the most people possible or to make sure your name is remembered for decades if not millenias, like jules ceasar or the mustache man.

npc behavior. muh bloodlines. i can guarantee you whatever dna julius caesar had no longer exists today due to genetic drift. same with your dna 2 thousand years from now. people are just going through motions without considering the actual logical outcome of their actions

 

[Deleted member 23218]

My dad is 52 so I have at least nanother 25 years for him and like 35 for my mom. I’m 20 so my life will be over then anyayea I can just rope

 

[Xangsane]

I think I'd faint, vomit and cry.

 

[longjohnmong]

npc behavior. muh bloodlines. i can guarantee you whatever dna julius caesar had no longer exists today due to genetic drift. same with your dna 2 thousand years from now. people are just going through motions without considering the actual logical outcome of their actions

People can't accept their own death so they invent ways to live on - muh genes, muh legacy, the human race colonizing Mars.

 

[horizontallytall]

With a bullet going trough my skull innit

Shit innot blud

 

[horizontallytall]

My father was old as well. My mother is the last person that actually cares about me. When she passes away I'd literally have no one. It's a haunting thought. Moving out for a job and living alone made it worse tbh - even tho I'm 28.

My phone history is literally 90% just calls from my mother. I stupidly ignore it and keep convos short but I know I'll regret it in future.

Serioulsy man i wish my parents can get a bit younger healthwise. Am 19 and my pa is55 and mom 50

 

[Gengar]

npc behavior. muh bloodlines. i can guarantee you whatever dna julius caesar had no longer exists today due to genetic drift. same with your dna 2 thousand years from now. people are just going through motions without considering the actual logical outcome of their actions

This. I lol’d at that part. Like who the hell cares about that? I bet those “muh bloodline” copers don’t even know a damn thing about their great-great-grandparents.

 

[Gengar]

My dad is 52 so I have at least nanother 25 years for him and like 35 for my mom. I’m 20 so my life will be over then anyayea I can just rope

Shirk.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Shirk.

Wdym?

 

[Gengar]

Wdym?

Only God possesses the knowledge of those things. To claim “I have this much time” means you are putting yourself on the same level as God.

 

[longjohnmong]

This. I lol’d at that part. Like who the hell cares about that? I bet those “muh bloodline” copers don’t even know a damn thing about their great-great-grandparents.

I have a bunch of pictures of my great great great grandparents and shit. None of them bear any resemblance to me whatsoever. What people think of as "their genes" are really a particular combination of genes that will be completely diluted beyond all recognition within 3-4 generations. Every single one of your individual genes exists in other people. The majority of them exist in plants. And if you have any unique genes it's probably some gay cancer mutation.

 

[Gengar]

I have a bunch of pictures of my great great great grandparents and shit. None of them bear any resemblance to me whatsoever. What people think of as "their genes" are really a particular combination of genes that will be completely diluted beyond all recognition within 3-4 generations. Every single one of your individual genes exists in other people. The majority of them exist in plants. And if you have any unique genes it's probably some gay cancer mutation.

Yeah. I think it’s all BS and meaningless in the end. I always chuckle whenever I hear this “muh bloodline” cope. It’s all meaningless.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Wait.. how old are YOU then?

25, my dad at me at 45.