How to cure being into femdom?

Lonenely sigma

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My cringe gay weird friend told me he is into femdom.

How could I help him? I want him to be normal and neurotypical like me.
 
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What lack of bones does to a shudra.
 
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Does that make you a huge-boned gigachad? Or are you into femdom like that weird friend of mine?
I'm a failed ogre. Ogre features on a peanut skull. Dalits with my pheno skull mog me to death (my mum as well).
 
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Does he have more sucess with women?
 
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Boys fr how tf do you cure this shit, its actually ruining my I MEAN my friend's life big time
 
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Say hello to your new friend @flippasav
No I mean that friend I know isn't into humiliation or anything of that nature he just has a mommy fetish as far as I understood him.


Unlike that dude you tagged, he isn't into cucking or humiliation
 
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The best tip I can give to people struggling with weird porn fetishes/ porn addiction/ desensitisation, is to not just quit cold-turkey like those redpilled fags tell you too
You just gotta work backwards. There was something you must've been into before this, that caused this.
Start jerking it to that
For this scenario, if you were into girls face-sitting, make sure you jack off to that for a few weeks and that's the extent you can go
Then go down one step, after you have normalized that

Just make sure you never move forwards, always backwards.
 
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This is the result of female hypergamy
 
The best tip I can give to people struggling with weird porn fetishes/ porn addiction/ desensitisation, is to not just quit cold-turkey like those redpilled fags tell you too
You just gotta work backwards. There was something you must've been into before this, that caused this.
Start jerking it to that
For this scenario, if you were into girls face-sitting, make sure you jack off to that for a few weeks and that's the extent you can go
Then go down one step, after you have normalized that

Just make sure you never move forwards, always backwards.
Sometimes I wonder what goes on in your head when you make these statements

Not even hating just curious cuz LMFAO
 
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The best tip I can give to people struggling with weird porn fetishes/ porn addiction/ desensitisation, is to not just quit cold-turkey like those redpilled fags tell you too
You just gotta work backwards. There was something you must've been into before this, that caused this.
Start jerking it to that
For this scenario, if you were into girls face-sitting, make sure you jack off to that for a few weeks and that's the extent you can go
Then go down one step, after you have normalized that

Just make sure you never move forwards, always backwards.
I don't really agree with that.


I read @St.TikTokcel's post about this a while back and I think he got it right. Its a result of trauma.


Men are supposed to be dominant. Wanting to be submissive doesn't happen on its own by "evil pornography recommending you weird videos". No. You have to actively search for those, and the reason you have that to begin with is probably some sort of a childhood trauma/internal cope with rejection
 
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I don't really agree with that.


I read @St.TikTokcel's post about this a while back and I think he got it right. Its a result of trauma.


Men are supposed to be dominant. Wanting to be submissive doesn't happen on its own by "evil pornography recommending you weird videos". No. You have to actively search for those, and the reason you have that to begin with is probably some sort of a childhood trauma/internal cope with rejection
Yeah perhaps it might be with that
Like you might have problems with your mother so are into milf stuff

But most people also are generally normal, but watch messed up content because normal content didn't do it for them anymore. They liked the thrill of overstepping the boundaries, exploring something new... and then that became the new normal for them

For me personally, I was never addicted, but I almost went into some crazy uncharted territory. So what worked for me was instead of quitting, I just worked my way back, and it's much easier than you think it is. Because it's only one step down, something you were into maybe half a year ago.
 
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Yeah perhaps it might be with that
Like you might have problems with your mother so are into milf stuff

But most people also are generally normal, but watch messed up content because normal content didn't do it for them anymore. They liked the thrill of overstepping the boundaries, exploring something new... and then that became the new normal for them

For me personally, I was never addicted, but I almost went into some crazy uncharted territory. So what worked for me was instead of quitting, I just worked my way back, and it's much easier than you think it is. Because it's only one step down, something you were into maybe half a year ago.
Yeah but you can't step down if that was your first step. If you were ALWAYS into this stuff you can't change that.


Imagine not even having a drive to have sex but rather just wanting to do that weird stuff instead. And I think it has an opposite origin than being abused by your mother.


If you want to have a "mommy gf" and you search for comfort in that kinda stuff, maybe thats because your mom was the only person you had in your childhood
 
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of course you have thoughts like this, actual jeffrey
 
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This was sarcastic btw. You are NOT adonisssssssssssss just bc you decided to not jerk off
i jerk off bud i just dont fantasize about getting dominated by women
 
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i jerk off bud i just dont fantasize about getting dominated by women
Alr bro idk how to respond to that. I guess you won the argument.
 
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Alr bro idk how to respond to that. I guess you won the argument.
tldr indian op has fantasiez about getting dominated by women and asks other indian teens for help
 
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tldr indian op has fantasiez about getting dominated by women and asks other indian teens for help
Alright, I want to be dominated, I want to be facesat, but I AM NOTTT, AND I REPEAT, AM NOT an Indian
 
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Yeah but you can't step down if that was your first step. If you were ALWAYS into this stuff you can't change that.


Imagine not even having a drive to have sex but rather just wanting to do that weird stuff instead. And I think it has an opposite origin than being abused by your mother.


If you want to have a "mommy gf" and you search for comfort in that kinda stuff, maybe thats because your mom was the only person you had in your childhood
Yeah, my advice is not for people who have strong ties to their adult content due to heavy experiences that happened in their life
For those people, to fix this issue they must fix the root problem itself

I'm not really familiar with Femdom, but I think your friend might have to start with realising the true value of a woman's worth.
He should be aware that men are objectively (on average) physically, mentally, emotionally more capable than women.
Your friend might have to sort out this issue of valuing them more than the deserve to be.. i.e. placing them on a pedestal

Whether this is due to inabilities of forming a connection or not, he should understand that he shouldn't artificially add value to something just because it is currently inaccessible. Doing so, he would just be making it more so

Also, he shouldn't try to go 180, and start disrespecting/devaluing them.
Just come to a rational realisation that they are not worth above a Man. What he is
 
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What's wrong with being into femdom? Female domination is goated, get me a bad bitch to peg me and assert her dominance over me bruzza
 
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What's wrong with being into femdom? Female domination is goated, get me a bad bitch to peg me and assert her dominance over me bruzza
Imagine you break up with her and she tells everyone. I'd literally blow my brains out.


Today for instance, I met one tall MTB girl in my uni. She was an entire head taller than me. I had to look up to see her. This is what made me make this thread in the first place.


But even if her and I got together, and even if she was into that as well, I'd still be too scared to do it irl. Imagine we break up bro. I'd have to relocate to another continent
 
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Imagine you break up with her and she tells everyone. I'd literally blow my brains out.


Today for instance, I met one tall MTB girl in my uni. She was an entire head taller than me. I had to look up to see her. This is what made me make this thread in the first place.


But even if her and I got together, and even if she was into that as well, I'd still be too scared to do it irl. Imagine we break up bro. I'd have to relocate to another continent
you're scared to assume yourself and who you are, you're into femdom and it's okay, you need to assume who you are, that's the fix to your problem, you need to validate that's it's okay for you and that's who you are

.org and social media gave you this train of thought of always being alpha taking the 'W' in all situations and its retarded because life doesn't work like this and will never
 
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you're scared to assume yourself and who you are, you're into femdom and it's okay, you need to assume who you are, that's the fix to your problem, you need to validate that's it's okay for you and that's who you are

.org and social media gave you this train of thought of always being alpha taking the 'W' in all situations and its retarded because life doesn't work like this and will never
I agree 100% but like you must draw some sort of a line somewhere, right?


I mean pegging is really extreme and I think those people make a very small percentage of an already small amount of weirdos who are into that entire genre of fetishes.


But even something like facesitting... idk. Thats one reason (and obviously not the only one) why I literally never ever approach women. Approaching is a dominant trait. If I have to approach her and she accepts me, ofc she won't be into femdom. Ofc if I was Chico she'd agree to do anything but like... you get my point.
 
I agree 100% but like you must draw some sort of a line somewhere, right?


I mean pegging is really extreme and I think those people make a very small percentage of an already small amount of weirdos who are into that entire genre of fetishes.


But even something like facesitting... idk. Thats one reason (and obviously not the only one) why I literally never ever approach women. Approaching is a dominant trait. If I have to approach her and she accepts me, ofc she won't be into femdom. Ofc if I was Chico she'd agree to do anything but like... you get my point.
you said you were scared of what people were going to think of you, i'm telling you you should accept yourself for who you are and not care because when you know who you are, nobody can use it against you, at the end of the day it's the chemicals and how your brain feels, you're gonna see what i'm talking about when you achieve the level of actually not caring about that retarded shit anymore

and you'd be surprised, if you are into fully femdom just try the fetish dating websites iirc there was one
 
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