How to Date in High School? (15-17 GTFIH)

It's not realistic, probably around 15k. Ig I'll see once I grow up how much money I have to spend. If there is a way to fix hollow undereyes and the under eye area effectively. I might be able to just get the rhino.
Damn. Expensive. But still, hope you get the funds boss
 
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🏫 How to Date in School? 🏫
boys remember to wait for the girls that come naturally and are emotionally intelligent without reposting that they are on tiktok :)

20 foids in my snap requests while i know my oneitis would never be adding guys out of the blue to “see how it goes”
 
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boys remember to wait for the girls that come naturally and are emotionally intelligent without reposting that they are on tiktok :)

20 foids in my snap requests while i know my oneitis would never be adding guys out of the blue to “see how it goes”
True :feelswhy:
 
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in the last 5 months the only girls i’ve twiddled my thumbs about have had such minimal social media presence and display such crazy signs of NTism it makes me want to orgasm
 
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in the last 5 months the only girls i’ve twiddled my thumbs about have had such minimal social media presence and display such crazy signs of NTism it makes me want to orgasm
Yes. High Quality Nice Girls at school, are ideal partners. Are you dating any of them?
 
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Yes. High Quality Nice Girls at school, are ideal partners. Are you dating any of them?
in my quest to not sound like im making excuses im coming up short, however what i will say is all best friends of quiet nice girls are whores and will make your journey of getting to the goal miserable, both girls i was after, i got cockblocked by their best friends as my alcohol and cigarettemaxxing in the past makes me an easy target for them to be like “not the right guy”
 
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in my quest to not sound like im making excuses im coming up short, however what i will say is all best friends of quiet nice girls are whores and will make your journey of getting to the goal miserable, both girls i was after, i got cockblocked by their best friends as my alcohol and cigarettemaxxing in the past makes me an easy target for them to be like “not the right guy”
That's actually sad. I feel like friends have some sort of unconscious need to control more of their 'Quiet Nice Girls' attention. Perhaps it is because they feel a need to 'protect' them as they may project their own younger self onto them. It could also be due to jealousy, as they are not that type of girl themselves.. Therefore they do not wish for her to exploit the advantages that come with being that type of a girl.
 
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That's actually sad. I feel like friends have some sort of unconscious need to control more of their 'Quiet Nice Girls' attention subconsciously. Perhaps it is because they feel a need to 'protect' them as they may project their own younger self onto them. It could also be due to jealousy, as they are not that type of girl themselves.. Therefore they do not wish for her to exploit the advantages that come with being that type of a girl.
of course, it’s the way life goes. i play both sides of the coin by living 2 ways of life to appeal to both party bunnies and quiet chicks, i get met with intermingling of friend groups consisting of different girls, a mix of the 2, who have a goal of ruining love for quiet girls. of course is reputation the most important asset so either it bites you in the ass or opens doors to easy foids. nothing you can do but stay true to yourself and ideals and never settle for a whore even if it’s just for a few months
 
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of course, it’s the way life goes. i play both sides of the coin by living 2 ways of life to appeal to both party bunnies and quiet chicks, i get met with intermingling of friend groups consisting of different girls, a mix of the 2, who have a goal of ruining love for quiet girls. of course is reputation the most important asset so either it bites you in the ass or opens doors to easy foids. nothing you can do but stay true to yourself and ideals and never settle for a whore even if it’s just for a few months
In my opinion. You should only go after the quiet foids, clean up your reputation and establish a long-term relationship.
 
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In my opinion. You should only go after the quiet foids, clean up your reputation and establish a long-term relationship.
you sound like me giving advice to others bahah, im blessed to have female friends who clean my reputation for me and connections with other females who have a positive viewpoint on me, without them i would be another fish in the sea of horny guys

On a side note, recognising the importance of reputation was amazing, being a gymcel has brought this up majorly, being large for my age and getting spoken to about it by strangers has skyrocketed my self esteem because obviously foids don’t say it to your face but it give you an insight into how you’re perceived. that combined with not associating with others with bad reputation within school, it’s like a cheat code on not making life so hard for you
 
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you sound like me giving advice to others bahah,
Great minds think alike?
im blessed to have female friends who clean my reputation for me and connections with other females who have a positive viewpoint on me, without them i would be another fish in the sea of horny guys
Mirin
On a side note, recognising the importance of reputation was amazing, being a gymcel has brought this up majorly, being large for my age and getting spoken to about it by strangers has skyrocketed my self esteem because obviously foids don’t say it to your face but it give you an insight into how you’re perceived. that combined with not associating with others with bad reputation within school, it’s like a cheat code on not making life so hard for you
Lets gooo. How old are you + Height?
 
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Great minds think alike?

Mirin

Lets gooo. How old are you + Height?
14 172cm, at this age not much of a problem, and the more you look around the more girls are super short. self awareness and having older close friends helps life
 
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14 172cm, at this age not much of a problem, and the more you look around the more girls are super short. self awareness and having older close friends helps life
I was your height when I was 14. Coincidence. But yeah, girls are still short at your age.
 
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I was your height when I was 14. Coincidence. But yeah, girls are still short at your age.
how’d everything turn out?
 
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how’d everything turn out?
Height wise, I'm still stuck at 172-173 (17 years old). Stopped growing after 14. I'm still of average height in my social circle, so I don't experience the falio of being a shortcel.

Praying to Gandy that it turns out different for you. :feelswah:
 
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Height wise, I'm still stuck at 172-173 (17 years old). Stopped growing after 14.
well im grateful regardless, taller than every single member of my family on both sides, even on my australian side, my father is 170 and im taller, blessed with pronounced clavicles as opposed to him. i cant be ticked off if i am literally past my likely expected height. i am on mk, cope yes, but less cope than subliminals or masai jumps jfl
 
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well im grateful regardless, taller than every single member of my family on both sides, even on my australian side, my father is 170 and im taller,
Sadly, I can't say the same. My maternal uncle is six-foot, but my father who is 5'6 really messed up my chances.
 
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I've heard of this idea before from the PUA and red pill channels of the past, I was thinking about this potential rebuttal while writing this specific section. But, I ultimately decided to include it due to the following reasoning.

What if it just becomes a new standard for her instead?

If she has been surrounded by people who are good looking, the enjoyment she gains from a conversation with an average man will diminish. There is now a baseline of attractiveness that is needed for her to feel that enjoyment.

In the same way, if she has been surrounded by people who agree with her. Wouldn't she gain less enjoyment from a conversation with someone who doesn't agree with what she says.

Our brains are Hardwired (click on the orange for study) to desire other like-minded individuals. We also feel more Comfortable with people who agree with us, which makes a romantic relationship more likely. In fact, disagreeing with her over a view point will lead to tension and mistrust, this could be amplified if the viewpoint that she holds is contrarian. As people tend to be more passionate about their contrarian viewpoints.

I agree with the teasing. But the difference between opposing somebody during banter and disagreeing with someone in a conversation is the fact that the other person is aware/unaware that you are joking.

Furthermore, as we are only pursuing foids who are intelligent. The chances of them holding a viewpoint that can be shot down with a simple one sentences rebuttal is low. She has the mental faculties to evaluate her opinion beforehand, thus suggesting that she already has arguments against your rebuttal. This can lead to an argument or a debate, with most mainstream issues these debates usually end with an inconclusive answer.

This makes it not worth you, spiking emotions of tension and mistrust and proven by science.
valid, But its my mistake if you thought I was talking about intellectual or serious opinions. What I meant was having a different opinion in the useless convos in which most women usually participate. All those casual useless convos, "That guy in the corner shouldn't wear red it doesn't suits him" "the woman who was doing my nails yesterday had 2 rings in a single finger" Disagree here "I actually respect women who don't give a fuck about society fashion norms, I would highly appreciate her for that. Do you like being bold?" I disagreed here and made myself the prize, I am reframing question in a way that she's the one who is trying to impress me. Now obviously you don't do it too much just like a stretch band. Don't stretch it too much or it will break. I don't mean considering yourself as prize and all this in any misoginistic way (I do actually) I adore women BUT I don't worship them.

About comfort, first of all as I said you don't disagree with her on everything or else she would think that there's a problem with you. Second, comfort is built by jokes, physical (pushing her away while using a joke or slapping her palm lightly). Let me introduce the concept of rapport breaking here and why disagreeing actually builds comfort.

Imagine you go to a new city, a new school and its the first day. You meet some guys and try to befriend them, the teacher enters the classroom. He is a tall handsome, a very charasmatic and intelligent guy who is a ceo of a company doing millions in revenue (I know its very hypothetical) but he teaches in a school just because he is obsessed with teaching. You like everything about him but your new friends joke about him and say he's a retard and an absolute buffoon. You disagree but you and I we both know that at that moment you will agree with them cos you don't wanna break your rapport with them on the very first day unless you want to be left alone (don't give me a retard like response that yes you would cos we know nobody who is a socially experienced guy would) now if it was the same case but with your homies you would easily put your opinion on table and even just mock them. You cuss your homies, spank them, hit them and all. Similarly when a guy initially initiate a convo with a women he does the same agreeing and all, But when you joke with her, playfully push with her, disagree with her, she starts thinking that you and her have built comfort.


I have actually realized I can fucking give lectures on these topics
 
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valid, But its my mistake if you thought I was talking about intellectual or serious opinions. What I meant was having a different opinion in the useless convos in which most women usually participate. All those casual useless convos, "That guy in the corner shouldn't wear red it doesn't suits him" "the woman who was doing my nails yesterday had 2 rings in a single finger" Disagree here "I actually respect women who don't give a fuck about society fashion norms, I would highly appreciate her for that. Do you like being bold?" I disagreed here and made myself the prize, I am reframing question in a way that she's the one who is trying to impress me. Now obviously you don't do it too much just like a stretch band. Don't stretch it too much or it will break. I don't mean considering yourself as prize and all this in any misoginistic way (I do actually) I adore women BUT I don't worship them.

About comfort, first of all as I said you don't disagree with her on everything or else she would think that there's a problem with you. Second, comfort is built by jokes, physical (pushing her away while using a joke or slapping her palm lightly). Let me introduce the concept of rapport breaking here and why disagreeing actually builds comfort.

Imagine you go to a new city, a new school and its the first day. You meet some guys and try to befriend them, the teacher enters the classroom. He is a tall handsome, a very charasmatic and intelligent guy who is a ceo of a company doing millions in revenue (I know its very hypothetical) but he teaches in a school just because he is obsessed with teaching. You like everything about him but your new friends joke about him and say he's a retard and an absolute buffoon. You disagree but you and I we both know that at that moment you will agree with them cos you don't wanna break your rapport with them on the very first day unless you want to be left alone (don't give me a retard like response that yes you would cos we know nobody who is a socially experienced guy would) now if it was the same case but with your homies you would easily put your opinion on table and even just mock them. You cuss your homies, spank them, hit them and all. Similarly when a guy initially initiate a convo with a women he does the same agreeing and all, But when you joke with her, playfully push with her, disagree with her, she starts thinking that you and her have built comfort.


I have actually realized I can fucking give lectures on these topics
additionally your work isn't to make her very comfortable or make her feel special or you get friendzoned really. You make her turn on, you make things spicy. Not like a (I just care about sex guy) but as a confident bold man who make her feel her primal side.

Second what the fuck is your age, I dont even know if I should tell you all this
 
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would you need to get to know her family if you looked like this
Screenshot 2025 04 30 at 120932PM
 
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valid, But its my mistake if you thought I was talking about intellectual or serious opinions. What I meant was having a different opinion in the useless convos in which most women usually participate. All those casual useless convos, "That guy in the corner shouldn't wear red it doesn't suits him" "the woman who was doing my nails yesterday had 2 rings in a single finger" Disagree here "I actually respect women who don't give a fuck about society fashion norms, I would highly appreciate her for that. Do you like being bold?" I disagreed here and made myself the prize, I am reframing question in a way that she's the one who is trying to impress me. Now obviously you don't do it too much just like a stretch band. Don't stretch it too much or it will break. I don't mean considering yourself as prize and all this in any misoginistic way (I do actually) I adore women BUT I don't worship them.

About comfort, first of all as I said you don't disagree with her on everything or else she would think that there's a problem with you. Second, comfort is built by jokes, physical (pushing her away while using a joke or slapping her palm lightly). Let me introduce the concept of rapport breaking here and why disagreeing actually builds comfort.

Imagine you go to a new city, a new school and its the first day. You meet some guys and try to befriend them, the teacher enters the classroom. He is a tall handsome, a very charasmatic and intelligent guy who is a ceo of a company doing millions in revenue (I know its very hypothetical) but he teaches in a school just because he is obsessed with teaching. You like everything about him but your new friends joke about him and say he's a retard and an absolute buffoon. You disagree but you and I we both know that at that moment you will agree with them cos you don't wanna break your rapport with them on the very first day unless you want to be left alone (don't give me a retard like response that yes you would cos we know nobody who is a socially experienced guy would) now if it was the same case but with your homies you would easily put your opinion on table and even just mock them. You cuss your homies, spank them, hit them and all. Similarly when a guy initially initiate a convo with a women he does the same agreeing and all, But when you joke with her, playfully push with her, disagree with her, she starts thinking that you and her have built comfort.


I have actually realized I can fucking give lectures on these topics
Let's agree to disagree
 
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additionally your work isn't to make her very comfortable or make her feel special or you get friendzoned really. You make her turn on, you make things spicy. Not like a (I just care about sex guy) but as a confident bold man who make her feel her primal side.

Second what the fuck is your age, I dont even know if I should tell you all this
I'm a minor
 
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DNR. Just be good looking and cold approach foids at high school
 
DNR. Just be good looking and cold approach foids at high school
If you read my guide, you would know that I agree
 
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Agreed. But this guide is mostly about positioning.
im in a school where there is only the 11 - 13 grade and im grade 11, what should i do(arent even any foids in my class just straight up 20 males)
 
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im in a school where there is only the 11 - 13 grade and im grade 11, what should i do(arent even any foids in my class just straight up 20 males)
Fuck- that's brutal. Going for older girls is probably not even going to work out for you.

In your situation it makes more sense to look outside of school.
 
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Fuck- that's brutal. Going for older girls is probably not even going to work out for you.

In your situation it makes more sense to look outside of school.
dating apps or cold approach
 
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dating apps or cold approach
Those are HTN+ only options.

Considering that you are on this forum. It would be better for you to warm approach. Neighbours, Extracurricular or the sisters of your friends (Be careful with the last one, but it can potentially be life-fuel)
 
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Those are HTN+ only options.

Considering that you are on this forum. It would be better for you to warm approach. Neighbours, Extracurricular or the sisters of your friends (Be careful with the last one, but it can potentially be life-fuel)
no neighbours, no extracurricular, no sisters of friends, is it over? i had a girl in my old school that we lowk bonded with should i text her or smth. follow me back btw i fw you heavy
 
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If you even have to think this out then it is ovER for you. This is natural, if it aint in you then give up.
 
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Those are HTN+ only options.

Considering that you are on this forum. It would be better for you to warm approach. Neighbours, Extracurricular or the sisters of your friends (Be careful with the last one, but it can potentially be life-fuel)
btw im ukrainian in germany, and theres a dating app for minors the ukranians use i could get hella pussy if i nichemaxxed inot emo or opium its full of 15-17 year old drugged alt bitches who have a bodycount north of 100
 
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You clearly were never if you are here.
trust me i was the most nt person in my grade, knew everyone in the school, had a gf, all at 14, i academically mogged everyone skipped a grade and now all of my friends are still there or just dropped out(they all fell off just staying home gaming for days) and i only have like 5 close friends left. me and that gf went to a new school, but i went to study IT and she went to study economics, there are literally 0 girls in my grade. my gf broke up with me cause she "is lost in life and doesnt know what she wants". i was interested in blackpill ever since i was 14, went on here as a joke and now im stuck
 
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trust me i was the most nt person in my grade, knew everyone in the school, had a gf, all at 14, i academically mogged everyone skipped a grade and now all of my friends are still there or just dropped out(they all fell off just staying home gaming for days) and i only have like 5 close friends left. me and that gf went to a new school, but i went to study IT and she went to study economics, there are literally 0 girls in my grade. my gf broke up with me cause she "is lost in life and doesnt know what she wants". i was interested in blackpill ever since i was 14, went on here as a joke and now im stuck
Then leave this forum.
 
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