How to deal with dysmorphia

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For context i get with girls really easily and often get aproached in public but i just cant look at the mirror or camera and think i look good(enough) often thinking im ugly.
How do i get over this??
 
For context i get with girls really easily and often get aproached in public but i just cant look at the mirror or camera and think i look good(enough) often thinking im ugly.
How do i get over this??
try and look in the mirror and see the features on your face that are objectively good, even if u dont like them, and count them up and compare how many good features you have to bad features. if you do get approached by girls and get with them easily then im guessing you are decent looking or average so this will be a confidence boost, since you can see how much more good features you have vs bad
 
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For context i get with girls really easily and often get aproached in public but i just cant look at the mirror or camera and think i look good(enough) often thinking im ugly.
How do i get over this??
Bro, you are suffering from severe body dysmorphia induced by looksmaxing forums. Let’s look at the objective data: girls are literally approaching you in the streets. In the real world, this is a statistical anomaly for men. It means your real-life SMV (Social Market Value) is easily 6+ (Chadlite tier), because women never approach average normies first. Your brain is lying to you because you’re comparing your moving, 3D face to heavily edited, frauded, and perfectly-lit photos of prime models on TikTok and forums. Camera lenses distort facial proportions (especially front cameras), making your face look wider or asymmetrical. Trust the real-world validation, stop staring at your flaws under dynamic lighting, and touch some grass. Your build is already winning.
 
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Bro, you are suffering from severe body dysmorphia induced by looksmaxing forums. Let’s look at the objective data: girls are literally approaching you in the streets. In the real world, this is a statistical anomaly for men. It means your real-life SMV (Social Market Value) is easily 6+ (Chadlite tier), because women never approach average normies first. Your brain is lying to you because you’re comparing your moving, 3D face to heavily edited, frauded, and perfectly-lit photos of prime models on TikTok and forums. Camera lenses distort facial proportions (especially front cameras), making your face look wider or asymmetrical. Trust the real-world validation, stop staring at your flaws under dynamic lighting, and touch some grass. Your build is already winning.
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Bro, you are suffering from severe body dysmorphia induced by looksmaxing forums. Let’s look at the objective data: girls are literally approaching you in the streets. In the real world, this is a statistical anomaly for men. It means your real-life SMV (Social Market Value) is easily 6+ (Chadlite tier), because women never approach average normies first. Your brain is lying to you because you’re comparing your moving, 3D face to heavily edited, frauded, and perfectly-lit photos of prime models on TikTok and forums. Camera lenses distort facial proportions (especially front cameras), making your face look wider or asymmetrical. Trust the real-world validation, stop staring at your flaws under dynamic lighting, and touch some grass. Your build is already
But how do i get over it? Its really bothering and making a effect on my social life
 
But how do i get over it? Its really bothering and making a effect on my social life
Look, if it's interfering with your social life, you need to see it as a systemic failure and deal with it logically, just don't react to it, it's okay, you're just overreacting.
 
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For context i get with girls really easily and often get aproached in public but i just cant look at the mirror or camera and think i look good(enough) often thinking im ugly.
How do i get over this??
just let go we ALL have something we hate about our face that makes us really insecure even tho 99,99% of the people dont notice the things we see on our own face
 
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just let go we ALL have something we hate about our face that makes us really insecure even tho 99,99% of the people dont notice the things we see on our own face
yh accept ur failios and focus on good features, and see what overall ur face is and choose a stratagy for a quality life according to however ur face is
 

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