How to enter social groups?

[Napoleon1800]

Recently I switched to a new college and it’s been almost a month now since it’s started however I haven’t managed to fit into a proper social group yet, spending most time either alone or bouncing from one person little bit here little bit there. Unfortunately to being ugly I am giga mentalcel.

I struggle to start convos and then maintain them without it being boring or the other person not giving anything. I’m going to get more into sports in the hope that I can fit more into the niggas who play football in the free periods.

However I came to the conclusion that if you manage to be within a proper social group, ideally a popular group with a lot of girls, by the time it’s Halloween and u r invited to a party, u establish urself in a good status. Issue is most people already have their groups made and I do not fit with the popular hyper nt people because I don’t have the same social skills, extroversion, look or lingo.

However I do know one girl that used to go to my school that goes here and she’s with the popular hyper nt group however I don’t think she likes me much but I do have her number and snap so idk if there’s any viable way to somehow make myself connected to these group of people and not end up being at the bottom of the campus social hierarchy again

 

[Napoleon1800]

Nigga fuck humans for all this social connections bullshit

 

[Napoleon1800]

Bump

 

[Napoleon1800]

Bump niggas read u tiktokcels

 

[lemonnz]

Not even the title

 

[Fartmaxxing]

I am making a guide that might help you, I recently switched schools and it has been going great thanks to my social stratagies

 

[paveldurovreal]

Very relatable
Train to become ultra nt or embrace that you will never have a hollywood college experience and find something else to enjoy

 

[ChadL1te]

Honestly, bro all it takes is one connection, join clubs, academic frats, and other student groups.

As for the girl, this is gonna sound weird but you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her' so you can catchup and detect her attitude towards you. Reason being, its too risky to just message her out of thin air.

 

[distance decay]

You arent respected and you arent known. If you want to have more male friends you need to do more low inhib things without being completely cringe.

 

[Deleted member 30959]

You’re asking the question, it’s over for you bud

 

[Deleted member 88802]

Recently I switched to a new college and it’s been almost a month now since it’s started however I haven’t managed to fit into a proper social group yet, spending most time either alone or bouncing from one person little bit here little bit there. Unfortunately to being ugly I am giga mentalcel.

I struggle to start convos and then maintain them without it being boring or the other person not giving anything. I’m going to get more into sports in the hope that I can fit more into the niggas who play football in the free periods.

However I came to the conclusion that if you manage to be within a proper social group, ideally a popular group with a lot of girls, by the time it’s Halloween and u r invited to a party, u establish urself in a good status. Issue is most people already have their groups made and I do not fit with the popular hyper nt people because I don’t have the same social skills, extroversion, look or lingo.

However I do know one girl that used to go to my school that goes here and she’s with the popular hyper nt group however I don’t think she likes me much but I do have her number and snap so idk if there’s any viable way to somehow make myself connected to these group of people and not end up being at the bottom of the campus social hierarchy again

it depends on many factors but you should honestly just be more open with your body movement and behaviour and people will notice that and take note if they ever see you again. take the high trust pill

 

[tombradylover]

Honestly it’s over if u have to think this hard about it

 

[sportsmogger]

Think of yourself as a different species, a superior one

Laugh at the meaningless conversations humans have with each other to come to an understanding/agreement

Laugh at their stupid attempts at trying to build life lasting friendships

 

[Napoleon1800]

I am making a guide that might help you, I recently switched schools and it has been going great thanks to my social stratagies

Sure tag

 

[Napoleon1800]

Honestly it’s over if u have to think this hard about it

True

 

[Napoleon1800]

Think of yourself as a different species, a superior one

Laugh at the meaningless conversations humans have with each other to come to an understanding/agreement

Laugh at their stupid attempts at trying to build life lasting friendships

I see their snap or ig stories all the time when they are out in concerts, in parks, in parties, at sporting events, eating out, in gyms

 

[Napoleon1800]

You arent respected and you arent known. If you want to have more male friends you need to do more low inhib things without being completely cringe.

Like?

 

[noahwillascend]

Honestly, bro all it takes is one connection, join clubs, academic frats, and other student groups.

As for the girl, this is gonna sound weird but you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her' so you can catchup and detect her attitude towards you. Reason being, its too risky to just message her out of thin air.

I don’t want to sound autistic like I can’t speak to women but what would you say to her after you ‘accidently’ run into her. If your goal is to get with her

 

[Napoleon1800]

Honestly, bro all it takes is one connection, join clubs, academic frats, and other student groups.

As for the girl, this is gonna sound weird but you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her' so you can catchup and detect her attitude towards you. Reason being, its too risky to just message her out of thin air.

I did this, she only said hello and said how r u for about 2 minutes then walked off. Brootal

 

[Napoleon1800]

Honestly, bro all it takes is one connection, join clubs, academic frats, and other student groups.

As for the girl, this is gonna sound weird but you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her' so you can catchup and detect her attitude towards you. Reason being, it’s too risky to just message her out of thin air.

I also don’t have any particular skill or hobby jfl, I suppose rotting in your youth doesn’t help you develop in any aspect beside becoming retarded

 

[ChadL1te]

I did this, she only said hello and said how r u for about 2 minutes then walked off. Brootal

well important thing is that you gained information in a way that was much less embarrassing then you jestering for her attention in her DMs or something.

 

[ChadL1te]

I also don’t have any particular skill or hobby jfl, I suppose rotting in your youth doesn’t help you develop in any aspect beside becoming retarded

are you atleast above avg in common categories? I also dont really have any particular skill but im kinda a jack of all trades. Im very knowledgeable about most common hobbies.

 

[Napoleon1800]

are you atleast above avg in common categories? I also dont really have any particular skill but im kinda a jack of all trades. Im very knowledgeable about most common hobbies.

Not really, I play guitar and know somewhat about music and a little bit about sports but I suppose about it. I’m terrible at sports and I don’t watch much movies or shows or any other popular hobby

 

[ChadL1te]

I don’t want to sound autistic like I can’t speak to women but what would you say to her after you ‘accidently’ run into her. If your goal is to get with her

Well start it off by just greeting her, "hey x how are u doing, blah blah small talk." Depending on her responses you should be able to find her attitude towards you, if shes into you she will create some opening for you to go off of.

 

[ChadL1te]

Not really, I play guitar and know somewhat about music and a little bit about sports but I suppose about it. I’m terrible at sports and I don’t watch much movies or shows or any other popular hobby

I suppose that isnt ideal, but you might have to commit to nichemaxxing then. Or expand your tastes and skills

 

[Outerz14]

Not very Napoleon of you

 

[Napoleon1800]

Well start it off by just greeting her, "hey x how are u doing, blah blah small talk." Depending on her responses you should be able to find her attitude towards you, if shes into you she will create some opening for you to go off of.

She is not into me I was thought of a school shooter back when I went to school with her jfl she only spoke to me to be polite I immediately realised from her tone when I spoke to her, she wanted it to be done asap,

 

[Napoleon1800]

Not very Napoleon of you

Well I’m at least Manlet like him

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Start your own group and massively promote it in laundry rooms, billboards, student lounges, bar room bathrooms, flyers on windshield wipers, e.g.

Call the group, One Man All Women Group. Only females can join since I'm the only man.

 

[Outerz14]

Start your own group and massively promote it in laundry rooms, billboards, student lounges, bar room bathrooms, flyers on windshield wipers, e.g.

Call the group, One Man All Women Group. Only females can join since I'm the only man.

True be the alpha male sigma wolf

 

[Napoleon1800]

Start your own group and massively promote it in laundry rooms, billboards, student lounges, bar room bathrooms, flyers on windshield wipers, e.g.

Call the group, One Man All Women Group. Only females can join since I'm the only man.

Only a chad can pull shit off like that jfl

 

[ChadL1te]

She is not into me I was thought of a school shooter back when I went to school with her jfl she only spoke to me to be polite I immediately realised from her tone when I spoke to her, she wanted it to be done asap,

well yeah i was responding to that guy, but yeah man thats brutal. Either way you need to join student organizations.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Only a chad can pull shit off like that jfl

You'll be surprised. However, warning, you must be confident enough to maintain the group or a flagrant lesbian will take charge of it.

 

[Napoleon1800]

well yeah i was responding to that guy, but yeah man thats brutal. Either way you need to join student organizations.

All the hyper nt ones are sports jfl which I’m terrible at, rest are all nerdy or autistic ones like film club or economics society
Maybe if I just get good at a sport and get into a sport group that would help

 

[Napoleon1800]

You'll be surprised. However, warning, you must be confident enough to maintain the group or a flagrant lesbian will take charge of it.

I’m a newbie nigga no one gon listen to me I joined a college in the second year

 

[shia.jihadist]

everything is looks brah

respect and social status all come from looks

best you can do is NT / jestermaxx or rot all day

 

[Donkeyballs]

You already have a social circle here bro! Don’t be too greedy just be thankful for what you have

 

[Napoleon1800]

You already have a social circle here bro! Don’t be too greedy just be thankful for what you have

Yes, my bhais on bbc.org, nothing better than this

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

I am making a guide that might help you, I recently switched schools and it has been going great thanks to my social stratagies

Tag me in it pls

 

[ChadL1te]

All the hyper nt ones are sports jfl which I’m terrible at, rest are all nerdy or autistic ones like film club or economics society
Maybe if I just get good at a sport and get into a sport group that would help

dude join some academic ones, theres plenty of normal people

 

[Sub5kang]

Recently I switched to a new college and it’s been almost a month now since it’s started however I haven’t managed to fit into a proper social group yet, spending most time either alone or bouncing from one person little bit here little bit there. Unfortunately to being ugly I am giga mentalcel.

I struggle to start convos and then maintain them without it being boring or the other person not giving anything. I’m going to get more into sports in the hope that I can fit more into the niggas who play football in the free periods.

However I came to the conclusion that if you manage to be within a proper social group, ideally a popular group with a lot of girls, by the time it’s Halloween and u r invited to a party, u establish urself in a good status. Issue is most people already have their groups made and I do not fit with the popular hyper nt people because I don’t have the same social skills, extroversion, look or lingo.

However I do know one girl that used to go to my school that goes here and she’s with the popular hyper nt group however I don’t think she likes me much but I do have her number and snap so idk if there’s any viable way to somehow make myself connected to these group of people and not end up being at the bottom of the campus social hierarchy again

I just created my own albeit it's only two guys, me and another autist who doesn't fit in and we're both new, I'm fine with having one friend anyways

 

[Suns9999]

you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

dude join some academic ones, theres plenty of normal people

you suggesting that hyper nt ppl are not normal ?

 

[ChadL1te]

you suggesting that hyper nt ppl are not normal ?

huh?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

As for the girl, this is gonna sound weird but you'll need to follow her or somehow track down her whereabouts and 'accidentally run into her' so you can catchup and detect her attitude towards you. Reason being, its too risky to just message her out of thin air.

this sounds like weird advice but it's legit lol

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

All the hyper nt ones are sports jfl which I’m terrible at, rest are all nerdy or autistic ones like film club or economics society

cuz he was complaining about hyper nt and nerdy ppl and you advised him on how to find 'normal ppl' so I assumed you were implying that you didn't fw hyper nt people @ChadL1te

 

[ChadL1te]

this sounds like weird advice but it's legit lol

ikr? Underrated method tbh

 

[Napoleon1800]

this sounds like weird advice but it's legit lol

Just Be A Stalker Theory

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

Just Be A Stalker Theory

ofc don’t be a retard and make it obvious but engineering a situation in which you and her happen to be together in what seems like a coincidence is high IQ

 

[Napoleon1800]

ofc don’t be a retard and make it obvious but engineering a situation in which you and her happen to be together in what seems like a coincidence is high IQ

She’s always with a group of hyper nt popular people and prettyboy jacks, it’s near impossible to catch her alone or interact with her outside her group, and her group is creeped out by me, not that I’ve done anything, they just smell u if ur nt and made of the same cloth or not, based on your appearance, convos, accent, vocabulary, interests etc and they immediately knew I was an abused dog incel jfl