How to Escape Cycle of Hatred?

[bananacoffee]

I live in a city full of white people, and I am among the few brown people.

This city is very cliquey and it is very hard to socialize/make friends/make a girlfriend if you are a newcomer.

I very obviously get treated worse because I'm brown and 5'7.

Therefore, I end up hating the society here and as a result more people behave bitterly towards me

It's like im in a cycle of endless hatred

They hate me ---> I hate them ---> They hate me more

 

[Deleted member 90849]

ignore them and live for yourself not other
let go of hatred and learn to love
its easier said than done but you have to put in effort
i used to hate the world and everyone but now i dont let that shit affect me and im significantly happier
LOVE

 

[Rzn]

live with brown peaple ...?

so retarted

 

[Deleted member 88079]

move cities

 

[Rzn]

I live in a city full of white people

I very obviously get treated worse because I'm brown

so why u liveing here

 

[Rzn]

move cities

why brown peaple just apsolutly NEED to live withwhites . its like instinct .

 

[bananacoffee]

ignore them and live for yourself not other
let go of hatred and learn to love
its easier said than done but you have to put in effort
i used to hate the world and everyone but now i dont let that shit affect me and im significantly happier
LOVE

i am currently on that mindset, where i "dont give a fuck about anybody"

but that translates into "i dont give a fuck about anybody so fuck you as well and fuck off"

so its not a good solution

 

[bananacoffee]

so why u liveing here

i have to live here for one more year to obtain citizenship then im out of this city

 

[Rzn]

i have to live here for one more year to obtain citizenship then im out of this city

move back

 

[FreakShowCel]

Move places or smile and look approachable and be kind to everyone you see aka bluepill yourself

 

[Deleted member 90849]

i am currently on that mindset, where i "dont give a fuck about anybody"

but that translates into "i dont give a fuck about anybody so fuck you as well and fuck off"

so its not a good solution

i know, its hard
just ask yourself, in 5 years, will these words matter to you? will those people matter? probably no. dont give your time and attention to fags. you have a life ahead of you. thats all.

 

[bananacoffee]

move cities

toronto seems good, much more accepting

 

[bananacoffee]

i know, its hard
just ask yourself, in 5 years, will these words matter to you? will those people matter? probably no. dont give your time and attention to fags. you have a life ahead of you. thats all.

how can i live life with no girl or not many friends in my life

 

[Deleted member 90849]

how can i live life with no girl or not many friends in my life

i live that kind of life. its hard. just live. or work extra hard to keep friends close and looksmax and work hard to have a good life and gf

 

[Deleted member 85196]

It's not your race or your color if literally all of them are against you. You should try to fit in and not challenge if you do that. People hate when outsiders come and challenge their norms. If you glow up it'll also help because a better looking person gets treated better everywhere ofc. Don't mind them just try to improve and you'll be rewarded when you do. Resentful and hateful people are disgusting to others

 

[bananacoffee]

It's not your race or your color if literally all of them are against you. You should try to fit in and not challenge if you do that. People hate when outsiders come and challenge their norms. If you glow up it'll also help because a better looking person gets treated better everywhere ofc. Don't mind them just try to improve and you'll be rewarded when you do. Resentful and hateful people are disgusting to others

i dont do anything wrong, i just go to work peacefully, work well with my colleagues, and i go to gym then go back home

but inbetween when i order a coffee for example, or when im at a grocery store and an old white karen looks at me with disgust for existing

i am improving but whats the point

 

[bananacoffee]

i live that kind of life. its hard. just live. or work extra hard to keep friends close and looksmax and work hard to have a good life and gf

i live in a richer neighborhood (i pay full rent every month) and almost every morning while im locking the doors on the way to work, white people drive by slowly and stare at me as if im robbing my own house

 

[Deleted member 90849]

i live in a richer neighborhood (i pay full rent every month) and almost every morning while im locking the doors on the way to work, white people drive by slowly and stare at me as if im robbing my own house

ok?
doesnt disregard what i said, this only seems like a complaint.

 

[bananacoffee]

ok?
doesnt disregard what i said, this only seems like a complaint.

it feels like i am django from django unchained

 

[Deleted member 90849]

it feels like i am django from django unchained

django pushed thru he didnt complain