How to find emotional support?

[AlexAP]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

 

[Kroker]

Reddit

 

[sover]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

You need human interaction.online talks wont do anything.therapy or group sessions might be helpfull.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

hookers

 

[Lord Shadow]

Therapy ( self explanatory ) or talking to your homies (Use discord thats how I found good people initially sounds crazy but trust me)

 

[davidlaidisme67]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

I would say go to a support group for drug addicts. I just go to them even though I never been addicted to drugs, it’s a good way to release your transgressions about society within a group setting in a way that’s healthy and positive

 

[Kroker]

Therapy or talking to your homies

Never show weakness to males especially close friends, they might seem all supportive and understanding at the begging but right after can be used against you or even mocked

 

[spongebob]

Find a good friend.
Otherwise therapy.
Maybe u should expand your circle.

 

[AlexAP]

I would say go to a support group for drug addicts. I just go to them even though I never been addicted to drugs, it’s a good way to release your transgressions about society within a group setting in a way that’s healthy and positive

Can you go to such groups if you're not a drug addict yourself?

 

[davidlaidisme67]

Can you go to such groups if you're not a drug addict yourself?

Yeah you can, it’s anonymous so no one will even know you went

 

[Lord Shadow]

Never show weakness to males especially close friends, they might seem all supportive and understanding at the begging but right after can be used against you or even mocked

Eh people say that but I actually agree with hamza that talking to your friends helps, ive gone to my close friends many times abt personal things and we've stayed solid for years and I've met some of them on the Internet you just gotta surround yourself with good people

 

[TiktokUser]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Vent to ChatGPT

 

[Lord Shadow]

Vent to ChatGPT

Unironically not bad advice lol

 

[Krisis]

Therapy. Be more social. Plenty of things you can do; you don't have to fight this alone.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You can do it bro !
Don’t give up okay sweetheart

 

[bicromial]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Find it within yourself, if u need to be dependent on someone in order to feel ok, it will hurt you in the long run
Personally i havent talked to a single soul about my feelings for almost a year and ive been getting better at managing and portraying them thru physical and mental activites. Journaling and keeping track of how you feel and why is a good way to start, also doing something out of your comfort zone is key in order to grow and excel. Hope this helps

 

[apocalypse]

1. Be a foid

 

[AlexAP]

Vent to ChatGPT

Unironically not bad advice lol

Nah, it needs a soul to feel real for me ngl

 

[goontang]

Men have nobody

 

[Vincent Freeman]

mods ban op she is a woman

 

[Wexilarious]

Just find yourself a water zodiac sign girl

 

[MoggerGaston]

impossible as a man I think