How to find emotional support?

[AlexAP]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

 

[Kroker]

Reddit

 

[sover]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

You need human interaction.online talks wont do anything.therapy or group sessions might be helpfull.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

hookers

 

[Lord Shadow]

Therapy ( self explanatory ) or talking to your homies (Use discord thats how I found good people initially sounds crazy but trust me)

 

[davidlaidisme67]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

I would say go to a support group for drug addicts. I just go to them even though I never been addicted to drugs, it’s a good way to release your transgressions about society within a group setting in a way that’s healthy and positive

 

[Kroker]

Therapy or talking to your homies

Never show weakness to males especially close friends, they might seem all supportive and understanding at the begging but right after can be used against you or even mocked

 

[spongebob]

Find a good friend.
Otherwise therapy.
Maybe u should expand your circle.

 

[AlexAP]

I would say go to a support group for drug addicts. I just go to them even though I never been addicted to drugs, it’s a good way to release your transgressions about society within a group setting in a way that’s healthy and positive

Can you go to such groups if you're not a drug addict yourself?

 

[davidlaidisme67]

Can you go to such groups if you're not a drug addict yourself?

Yeah you can, it’s anonymous so no one will even know you went

 

[Lord Shadow]

Never show weakness to males especially close friends, they might seem all supportive and understanding at the begging but right after can be used against you or even mocked

Eh people say that but I actually agree with hamza that talking to your friends helps, ive gone to my close friends many times abt personal things and we've stayed solid for years and I've met some of them on the Internet you just gotta surround yourself with good people

 

[TiktokUser]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Vent to ChatGPT

 

[Lord Shadow]

Vent to ChatGPT

Unironically not bad advice lol

 

[Krisis]

Therapy. Be more social. Plenty of things you can do; you don't have to fight this alone.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You can do it bro !
Don’t give up okay sweetheart

 

[bicromial]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Find it within yourself, if u need to be dependent on someone in order to feel ok, it will hurt you in the long run
Personally i havent talked to a single soul about my feelings for almost a year and ive been getting better at managing and portraying them thru physical and mental activites. Journaling and keeping track of how you feel and why is a good way to start, also doing something out of your comfort zone is key in order to grow and excel. Hope this helps

 

[apocalypse]

1. Be a foid

 

[AlexAP]

Vent to ChatGPT

Unironically not bad advice lol

Nah, it needs a soul to feel real for me ngl

 

[goontang]

Men have nobody

 

[Vincent Freeman]

mods ban op she is a woman

 

[Wexilarious]

Just find yourself a water zodiac sign girl

 

[MoggerGaston]

impossible as a man I think

 

[AlexAP]

Therapy takes too long to find where I live, and in the past I was and didn't help.
I struggle to make friends, I only have colleagues, and can't get close to no one.

It's brutal, I don't know what to do, tried to change something the last two days and it went nowhere.

 

[AlexAP]

impossible as a man I think

It's absolutely possible, I see many men who have this.

But I don't know how to do it, how to find a good circle and get close to people. It's probably just a skill issue, but that doesn't make it less painful.

 

[grungymallard97]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Ask ur spouses partner he might know

 

[AlexAP]

Ask ur spouses partner he might know

Don't have one.

 

[AlexAP]

Ask ur spouses partner he might know

Also please kys

 

[fukmylyf]

obviously this site. Where else would u find supportive ppl like @Vincent Freeman?

 

[AlexAP]

obviously this site. Where else would u find supportive ppl like @Vincent Freeman?

Hope this is a joke

 

[getratioedbozo]

I have some things happening to me rn that make me in need to have emotional support. I mean either a person a group that provides basic stuff like:
- Positive encouragement (like have interest in your life, give compliments, celebrate good events).
- Safe space to share vulnerability (just for venting, not for analysis or solutions).

How tf do you find this. Since I ghosted my toxic family I haven't been able to find a person or group who provides emotional support (not that my family did either). I don't want to go through things alone anymore.

Has anyone of you a good support system? How did you find it? I'm ready to do the work (keeping contact, provide support myself, etc.), but where do you find the people in the first place and manage to move into a deeper connection with them?

Praying or just talk to people u love or meet sm1 idk

 

[fukmylyf]

Hope this is a joke

you just need a girl and good friends tbh

 

[AlexAP]

you just need a girl and good friends tbh

Not a Chad but a girl is still not that difficult, although I have low motivation at the moment and in a long, weird friendzone situation.

Good friends are hard to get, I always end up isolated in a group, and have trouble finding one at all.

 

[R@m@]

Insanity is the cure to all mental problems

 

[CelBright]

I would say go to a support group for drug addicts. I just go to them even though I never been addicted to drugs, it’s a good way to release your transgressions about society within a group setting in a way that’s healthy and positive

Good Idea any of the Anonymous groups.

 

[AlexAP]

Good Idea any of the Anonymous groups.

Have you experience with it?

 

[CelBright]

Yeah, I had some issues a while back and while I didn't buy all of the doctrine the people all seemed supportive.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

Not a Chad but a girl is still not that difficult, although I have low motivation at the moment and in a long, weird friendzone situation.

Good friends are hard to get, I always end up isolated in a group, and have trouble finding one at all.

the answer is still the same. Youre just the same crying manchild which is just as boring here as IRL. You literally try to stick where you don't belong, you don't see that your sub tier looks are one of the reasons why you can't expect friendship from people who are level about you and no, sucking someone off and flattering like you do some so called gl men online just reveals what a spineless, no opinion person you are. just a toy for them, so obviously you don't fit in.
find someone you have something in common with. it won't be as hard as ethnic in a big city in new istanbul aka germany.

i know you wont answer anyway because you're scared to face the truth

 

[Deleted member 121435]

Never show weakness to males especially close friends, they might seem all supportive and understanding at the begging but right after can be used against you or even mocked

Real shit

The male friends you get after your childhood aren't real friends. Although it's still better than girl friendships

 

[Clown Show]

>Emotional support
>Being a man

Choose one.

 

[Marsiere214]

@Ritalincel and @fukmylyf are my emotional support.