how to find friends

[Deleted member 4430]

if youre out of school

 

[Deleted member 19896]

What are the top 3 places you frequently visit currently?

 

[Deleted member 2403]

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Go outside

 

[Toth's thot]

no clue bro
all I know is that for the next 60 days my messenger won't beep once

 

[Deleted member 3041]

in clubs i know my best friend in club and he invite me for private party

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Go outside

and do what

 

[Deleted member 17791]

wanna be frens?

 

[AlexBrown84]

in clubs i know my best friend in club and he invite me for private party

Thanks I’ll try this

 

[Bakin donuts 🍩]

I can be ur friend

 

[Deleted member 4430]

wanna be frens?

no, I've already burned myself once. online friends is not a thing.

i mean IRL

 

[Deleted member 4362]

and do what

Make friends

 

[Deleted member 19896]

I think I get your situation, you haven't left your house in months you don't go anywhere because you are so terrified of people judging you and feel so outside

pop a phenibut or modafinil take admission in some college or course doesn't matter if it's shit you need some kind of base circle of real people to not go clinically insane

 

[Deleted member 17791]

no, I've already burned myself once. online friends is not a thing.

i mean IRL

no, im high headed patrician.

 

[Deleted member 19896]

You can literally make friends with anyone it's not hard at all

 

[Deleted member 4430]

I think I get your situation, you haven't left your house in months you don't go anywhere because you are so terrified of people judging you and feel so outside

yeah, kind of
but its like that for past few months, I didnt work with an people of my age and I practically have no friends since 2018.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

You can literally make friends with anyone it's not hard at all

it's not very true, you must have something in common with those people or have something they want

 

[germanlooks]

Not on Blackpill online forums Rupert

 

[Deleted member 19896]

it's not very true, you must have something in common with those people or have something they want

there is 0 iota of truth in that
People don't give a crap about interests they just talk for the sake of it whatever comes to mind

Go to some normie discord server or vc and see the topics they talk about, you can talk about anything or just interject random opinions. Maybe not some teen group where you don't belong and feel shit about yourself. Some bitcoin related server of 20-30 year old mostly men? Whatever just stick to no foid environment for the time being to keep your neuroticism in check

my suggestion is
week 1: observe normies + 150 minutes of cardio in week (it works like a charm and rips through anxiety fear all rubbish). Just buy a punching bag to make it fun, do not skip this part.

week 2: discord vc with normies, sign up for a gym plenty of lanklets like you

week 3: enroll in some course or trade profession or trade school with people similar to your age group

week 3-10 integrate socially

week 11: if you actually reach this point instead of dismissing by post as bluepilled cope, start visiting clubs and malls on weekends your confidence is exponentially higher at this point striking conversation should be easy. Now you can start thinking about LTRs


Its not an overnight process but it's nowhere long compared the time you have spent inside your shell and to what you continued misery you will 100% face if you don't go through this process.

 

[Gonthar]

if youre out of school

Good question, after college is over, it's very difficult to make new friends, in school you spend a lot of time next to people your age, you have plenty of time to talk, find common things, and eventually become friends. After college there aren't really many opportunities and most people already have established groups of friends, they don't want new ones.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

there is 0 iota of truth in that
People don't give a crap about interests they just talk for the sake of it whatever comes to mind

Go to some normie discord server or vc and see the topics they talk about, you can talk about anything or just interject random opinions. Maybe not some teen group where you don't belong and feel shit about yourself. Some bitcoin related server of 20-30 year old mostly men? Whatever just stick to no foid environment for the time being to keep your neuroticism in check

my suggestion is
week 1: observe normies + 150 minutes of cardio in week (it works like a charm and rips through anxiety fear all rubbish). Just buy a punching bag to make it fun, do not skip this part.

week 2: discord vc with normies, sign up for a gym plenty of lanklets like you

week 3: enroll in some course or trade profession or trade school with people similar to your age group

week 3-10 integrate socially

week 11: if you actually reach this point instead of dismissing by post as bluepilled cope, start visiting clubs and malls on weekends your confidence is exponentially higher at this point striking conversation should be easy. Now you can start thinking about LTRs


Its not an overnight process but it's nowhere long compared the time you have spent inside your shell and to what you continued misery you will 100% face if you don't go through this process.

thx for effort, i read it all

i already have a physically demanding job so i cant do cardio or goint to the gym. I know that the only option is to get more involved in society and socialize, but I dont think that discords or different corners of the internet will help me with that, because this forum didn't help either.

the only option is to change job where it is necessary to constantly socialize. And i know I dont have it mentaly right now

 

[Deleted member 2403]

thx for effort, i read it all

i already have a physically demanding job so i cant do cardio or goint to the gym. I know that the only option is to get more involved in society and socialize, but I dont think that discords or different corners of the internet will help me with that, because this forum didn't help either.

the only option is to change job where it is necessary to constantly socialize. And i know I dont have it mentaly right now

nigga has been saying this exact thing for 2 years and will continue to for the rest of his life

 

[Erik-Jón]

I can be ur friend

Who’s that giga chad as your avi mogs my avi

 

[Deleted member 4430]

nigga has been saying this exact thing for 2 years and will continue to for the rest of his life

what do you talking about

Honest question

 

[Deleted member 19548]

nigga has been saying this exact thing for 2 years and will continue to for the rest of his life

turnips, the romanian kettlebell

 

[Deleted member 4430]

turnips, the romanian kettlebell

ironic 100kg chap

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

Go travel Rupert. You're not going to find many ppl to be friends with in your remote Balkan village.

 

[SemMoney]

Go out to play some sport, like basketball for example. Turn it into a hobby

 

[Bakin donuts 🍩]

Who’s that giga chad as your avi mogs my avi

That's my new abused dog

 

[Erik-Jón]

That's my new abused dog

Your mine, I live rent free in your avi