How to focus on yourself without being isolated

[Deleted member 175555]

I really need to and i want to fully focus on myself

But i am scared if i focus on myself too much i might lose some of my social circle or become alone.

How can i keep it still social but still focused
Should i drop the roster fully?(I only got 3 actually JFL)
I dont want to become one of these weird gymcels that just go gym eat and sleep

 

[hax]

But i am scared if i focus on myself too much i might lose some of my social circle or become alone.

inevitable

 

[Deleted member 175555]

inevitable

Why is that?

 

[hax]

Why is that?

focusing on yourself too much = insecure = not loving yourself = not being able to love others fully

 

[Deleted member 175555]

focusing on yourself too much = insecure = not loving yourself = not being able to love others fully

I dont love myself right now because im simply not enough for anything,im not particularly “good” in anything.

Im really insecure though like even when a girl compliments me i immediately think she is just being nice or just not being geniune.I cant ever believe some is geniune when they say something good about my looks.

 

[hax]

I dont love myself right now because im simply not enough for anything,im not particularly “good” in anything.

Im really insecure though like even when a girl compliments me i immediately think she is just being nice or just not being geniune.I cant ever believe some is geniune when they say something good about my looks.

same, i can't help you on that

 

[AlexoJeLTN]

I really need to and i want to fully focus on myself

But i am scared if i focus on myself too much i might lose some of my social circle or become alone.

How can i keep it still social but still focused
Should i drop the roster fully?(I only got 3 actually JFL)
I dont want to become one of these weird gymcels that just go gym eat and sleep

its impossible

 

[Apchun144]

Impossible to become better and not loose your social life
Social life is sacrifice for improving urself
I have same problem now im a weird gymcel

 

[Deleted member 175555]

Impossible to become better and not loose your social life
Social life is sacrifice for improving urself
I have same problem now im a weird gymcel

But in order for me to ascend
I need to focus on myself
But if i lose my social circle doing that
Then there is no point in ascending if im not even gonna go outside