How to fucking approach girls And not sound stupid?

[Deleted member 2352]

I get a lot of stares lately from many girls by just walking around.
But I always want to approach but I dont know how to fucking start or even carry the conversation.
Someone have a guide or advice.
Im so awkward sometimes and sometimes very fucking smooth and low inhib.
Also boys my Oneitsis update.
SHE LIKES ME AND WE WILL MEET UP NEXT WEEK TO DO SCHOOL STUFF MAJOR 100% LIFEFUEL.She is kinda boring tho,The whole magic went away...
Also I dont know if that shits gonna work out so need more bitches on the side.
BOYS HOW TO FUCKING APPROACH BITCHES ON THE STREET OR JUST RANDOM SCHOOL HOES WITHOUT AWKWARDNESS
I NEED THIS NOW I need non cringy easy approach

 

[Nosecel]

Step 1: have this FACE

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[Chad69]

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[Deleted member 2352]

Step 1: have this FACE
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EVEN THEN YOU HAVE TO FUCKING APPROACH.NORMAL ANSWER UGHH I HATE THIS SITE SOEMTIMES

 

[Bewusst]

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Face

Ok i have that and now?

Why is everyone so stupid here?GIVE ME A NORMAL ANSWER.
I NEED TO APPROACH SOMEHOW

 

[hebbewem]

Make sure you dont cry . Then just hi and ask her for social media loud and confident .
If you are really brave ask. i have seen you looking at me so maybe we can share social media.

 

[uglymofo]

come from behind and touch her shoulder

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Make sure you dont cry . Then just hi and ask her for social media loud and confident .
If you are really brave ask. i have seen you looking at me so maybe we can share social media.

But isnt that kinda weird?
Just asking without even knowing her
I mean I want to get to know the person.
I dont give a fuck about her social media

come from behind and touch her shoulder

And then I hear the police sirens 30 seconds later

 

[Deleted member 3591]

I dont give a fuck about her social media

Take a wild guess what u are gonna do when you have her social media

 

[Mr.cope]

EVEN THEN YOU HAVE TO FUCKING APPROACH.NORMAL ANSWER UGHH I HATE THIS SITE SOEMTIMES

Nope. Women approach you

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Nope. Women approach you

THEN WHY DID MY POLISH CHAD FRIEND NEVER GET APPROACHED?
They all just fucking stared

Take a wild guess what u are gonna do when you have her social media

Well ok good point.
Theres a problem now.
I am a fucking social media incel.
I have nothing.
And I have like 2 fucking friends.
I am a litterall loner

 

[Pillarman]

Just tell her you want to fuck her, no give me your number soyboy shit tbh, it will be less embarassing after they reject you also, cause you show them no respect by looking at them as nothing but meat to fuck

this is my philosophy

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Just tell her you want to fuck her, no give me your number soyboy shit tbh, it will be less embarassing after they reject you also, cause you show them no respect by looking at them as nothing but meat to fuck

this is my philosophy

Damn bro.
Thats fucking low inhib.
Dont you have a little more ...Uhm...
Nicer approach?They are jbs,It doesnt really work like that.

 

[hebbewem]

But isnt that kinda weird?
Just asking without even knowing her
I mean I want to get to know the person.
I dont give a fuck about her social media

And then I hear the police sirens 30 seconds later

Cold approching women on the street/school is weird if you have never talked to her

I guess you can comment on thing she is doing and introuce yourself .

But hold the conservation short

 

[Deleted member 5912]

look like this guy

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Cold approching women on the street/school is weird if you have never talked to her

I guess you can comment on thing she is doing and introuce yourself .

But hold the conservation short

Ok I ‘ll write that down.
Sounds good

look like this guy

Well I dont.
So what now

 

[uglymofo]

ask what time it is and when she tells you pull your phone out and say „yeah thats true“ then go from there easy

 

[Deleted member 2352]

ask what time it is and when she tells you pull your phone out and say „yeah thats true“ then go from there easy

Ok I will try that one.
Im already kinda confident now so Thats an easy one

 

[uglymofo]

Ok I will try that one.
Im already kinda confident now so Thats an easy one

most importantly make it quick to get number/snap/insta/whatever and leave

 

[Deleted member 2352]

most importantly make it quick to get number/snap/insta/whatever and leave

If Its a girl from My school I shouldnt keep talking?Or ask If we go to school together If I see her in the subway?

 

[uglymofo]

If Its a girl from My school I shouldnt keep talking?Or ask If we go to school together If I see her in the subway?

id just go like, hey arent you from my school, oh yeah cool whats your name etc, were both busy rn whats your insta

 

[Deleted member 2632]

If you notice a girl giving you iois I would just walk up and say something about the area you're in

The gym > Hey I noticed a workout you did and was interested if you could show what lifts you do

Hey I noticed you went a long time on the treadmill, how much cardio you do a week?

The bar > Hey what are you drinking? I dont drink much so I could use a recommendation

Do you come to this bar often? Im new here is the food any good, do you live in this area?

If a girl is physically attracted she will keep the conversation flowing rather than just responding to you, she will also constantlt smile and be somewhat nervous usually

 

[Deleted member 2352]

id just go like, hey arent you from my school, oh yeah cool whats your name etc, were both busy rn whats your insta

Nice.
Thanks bro.
I will use all of what you said tommorow. On this hot girl from school I see everyday on subway.
She stares at me very often and obvisouly .I think I have a shot

If you notice a girl giving you iois I would just walk up and say something about the area you're in

The gym > Hey I noticed a workout you did and was interested if you could show what lifts you do

Hey I noticed you went a long time on the treadmill, how much cardio you do a week?

The bar > Hey what are you drinking? I dont drink much so I could use a recommendation

Do you come to this bar often? Im new here is the food any good, do you live in this area?

If a girl is physically attracted she will keep the conversation flowing rather than just responding to you, she will also constantlt smile and be somewhat nervous usually

Ok Solid advice btw.
What about I see a girl on my way to school?
Or subway station?

 

[uglymofo]

Nice.
Thanks bro.
I will use all of what you said tommorow. On this hot girl from school I see everyday on subway.
She stares at me very often and obvisouly .I think I have a shot

do it and update, afterwards just write that you 2 should expand on that short conversation from the subway

 

[Ocelot]

LOOKS IS A PREREQUISITE TO APPROACHING!

So I assume since you get stares you're either deformed or at least high-tier normie + height halo.
You want to converse with them as naturally as possible, despite not knowing pretty much anything about them. This will make the conversation based upon where you are seeing them + any expressions you've observed + things they might've been doing which you saw. Don't always take this site's stuff literally, then you'll humiliate yourself by going up to her and saying "hey you're cute, wanna bang? my cock is 7 inches NBEP."

 

[Deleted member 2352]

do it and update, afterwards just write that you 2 should expand on that short conversation from the subway

Ok.
I hope I see her tommorow.
If not I will try obviously when I see her.
I will do a thread probably anyways what happened

LOOKS IS A PREREQUISITE TO APPROACHING!

So I assume since you get stares you're either deformed or at least high-tier normie + height halo.
You want to converse with them as naturally as possible, despite not knowing pretty much anything about them. This will make the conversation based upon where you are seeing them + any expressions you've observed + things they might've been doing which you saw. Don't always take this site's stuff literally, then you'll humiliate yourself by going up to her and saying "hey you're cute, wanna bang? my cock is 7 inches NBEP."

I am over 6 ft 3 in shoes.
And I look decent I guess+in shape.
Im sure Im not hideous.
I know.Of course I wont tell her I want to bang.
Thats just meme.
I will try to talk smoothly and normaly with a dirty smirk on my face

 

[eduardkoopman]

If you notice a girl giving you iois I would just walk up and say something about the area you're in

The gym > Hey I noticed a workout you did and was interested if you could show what lifts you do

Hey I noticed you went a long time on the treadmill, how much cardio you do a week?

The bar > Hey what are you drinking? I dont drink much so I could use a recommendation

Do you come to this bar often? Im new here is the food any good, do you live in this area?

If a girl is physically attracted she will keep the conversation flowing rather than just responding to you, she will also constantlt smile and be somewhat nervous usually

I agree. This. A comment/observation about occassion or location, is a good start. Then add a question or something.
+ To add.
Thinking back in my pua days. What worked best, in general.
0. Be in social mood/vibe, just say hi to randoms passing by or at shop and stuff, just getting the socializing low-inhib vibe in you own mind/head.
1. comment/statement on location/situation. Followed by question, maybe.
2. if she is into you, she will stop/fully face you. If she doesn't do that, in essence just continue, leave, let it be just that
3. now she is talking, and you can talk back a bit.
4. next, if convo goes weel-ish. exchange names and hands
5. optional, compliment to make sure you are interested in that typ of way. maybe, depends
6. talks about what you are going to do in future. Invited her along
7. if she says yes, exchange numbers.
No stupid string things like pua do. Them being the following: jumping in front of women blocking them from walking away; walking with the woman when she tries to wlk away from you. If she won't stop for you, she won't fuck you for sure!

Best example i know out there (see how he doesn't jump in front of women, or runs with them. Women stop for him, that's how it should be).

this one alsopretty decent I notice


Shit example. of a dude staying in pushing when women respond bad/uniterested, or jumping in front of them blocking them, walking/satlking along. Stuff like that, very bad, to aggressive.
. Stalking-walking along with a woman speeding up, standing in front of them to block. Like these women at 7;55 they basically trun their body away from him. Just eject asap dude, fuck that. I don't like either AS A NORMIE, to give compliments immediately, because likely you will be rejected and you look bad. Hence a comment about situation/location, you can still frame to others like "just being soical and friendly", instead of got rejected.


This is that aggressive autistic PUA shit, that gives it a bad rep.. Stupid as fuck. aggrasive as fuck.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

I agree. This. A comment/observation about occassion or location, is a good start. Then add a question or something.
+ To add.
Thinking back in my pua days. What worked best, in general.
0. Be in social mood/vibe, just say hi to randoms passing by or at shop and stuff, just getting the socializing low-inhib vibe in you own mind/head.
1. comment/statement on location/situation. Followed by question, maybe.
2. if she is into you, she will stop/fully face you. If she doesn't do that, in essence just continue, leave, let it be just that
3. now she is talking, and you can talk back a bit.
4. next, if convo goes weel-ish. exchange names and hands
5. optional, compliment to make sure you are interested in that typ of way. maybe, depends
6. talks about what you are going to do in future. Invited her along
7. if she says yes, exchange numbers.
No stupid string things like pua do. Them being the following: jumping in front of women blocking them from walking away; walking with the woman when she tries to wlk away from you. If she won't stop for you, she won't fuck you for sure!

Best example i know out there (see how he doesn't jump in front of women, or runs with them. Women stop for him, that's how it should be).

this one alsopretty decent I notice


Shit example. of a dude staying in pushing when women respond bad/uniterested, or jumping in front of them blocking them, walking/satlking along. Stuff like that, very bad, to aggressive.
. Stalking-walking along with a woman speeding up, standing in front of them to block. Like these women at 7;55 they basically trun their body away from him. Just eject asap dude, fuck that. I don't like either AS A NORMIE, to give compliments immediately, because likely you will be rejected and you look bad. Hence a comment about situation/location, you can still frame to others like "just being soical and friendly", instead of got rejected.


This is that aggressive autistic PUA shit, that gives it a bad rep.. Stupid as fuck. aggrasive as fuck.

Ngl god level response .appreciate it bra

 

[eduardkoopman]

Ngl god level response .appreciate it bra

Got 500+ chat-upps of randoms womens under my belt. Nearly all back from the years 2007-2011 (I was back then, low tier normie looks level). That's why I know a little bit from experience. It was pretty fucked up, what I did back then. But I got better and more relaxed in the end. All I said, is what I learned at the end from that period. The first 3 years I did more aggresive style of pua shit, andI hit way out of my league. The first 3 years, I had zero lays. The last 1.5 years, I had my handfull of lays and entered LTR. I dropped my standards to looksmatched women, and I approached very much not aggressive. Works best, in the end. For getting lays. being aggressive works better to get alot of telephone-number, but they will nearly all flake or planty de false ones. When doing the first chat-up initially; you wanna be the relaxed/cool guy; not the pushy one. Only after she responds well, and into you, makeing stuff touchy/physical/sexy so to not be in the friendzone.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Got 500+ chat-upps of randoms womens under my belt. Nearly all back from the years 2007-2011 (I was back then, low tier normie looks level). That's why I know a little bit from experience. It was pretty fucked up, what I did back then. But I got better and more relaxed in the end. All I said, is what I learned at the end from that period. The first 3 years I did more aggresive style of pua shit, andI hit way out of my league. The first 3 years, I had zero lays. The last 1.5 years, I had my handfull of lays and entered LTR. I dropped my standards to looksmatched women, and I approached very much not aggressive. Works best, in the end. For getting lays. being aggressive works better to get alot of telephone-number, but they will nearly all flake or planty de false ones. When doing the first chat-up initially; you wanna be the relaxed/cool guy; not the pushy one. Only after she responds well, and into you, makeing stuff touchy/physical/sexy so to not be in the friendzone.

Bro thanks man.
You actually just answered alot of important questions for me.
I will keep all your advice in my head.
But 3 years no lay?
Damn that sounds harsh especially since you acttually tried reall hard it seems.
Thanks anyways.
Helped me alot honestly

 

[Amnesia]

I usually open with my Post to Rep ratio on .me to impress them but since yours is negative I guess that option is off the table for you OP.

 

[Deleted member 5818]

Watch the YouTube Coach Kyle his videos are so fucking good, literally watch then

 

[Deleted member 6164]

U cant

 

[uglymofo]

I usually open with my Post to Rep ratio on .me to impress them but since yours is negative I guess that option is off the table for you OP.

i usually run around with a ruler and ask them to measure my fwhr and midface

 

[Amnesia]

i usually run around with a ruler and ask them to measure my fwhr and midface

I wear a measuring tape as a bracelet so all bitches can instantly see my wrist circumference is 7 inches. Seriously it gets them so wet

 

[eduardkoopman]

Bro thanks man.
You actually just answered alot of important questions for me.
I will keep all your advice in my head.
But 3 years no lay?
Damn that sounds harsh especially since you acttually tried reall hard it seems.
Thanks anyways.
Helped me alot honestly

You're welcome.
Yes 3 years. Defenately approached more then 100 women a year back then. Zero lays. Bad advice, didn't help. I also beleived back then I could hit way out of my league and that looks don't matter that much I guess. That didn't help. I was structurally hitting +2 points out of 10 out of league.

Only 2 dudes, from that pua scene. back then (2000's period). That I think were legit (and I know). And whom give pretty good advice:
* Paul Janka;
* 60 years of challenge / chris sicty/ Christopher Andersen / Chris Andersen.
They both akwnoledged decently. Looks matter (alot). Woman know within .. seconds she wouldbe okay fucking you; and if you wanna get laid sell sex not yourself (selling yourself, is LTR boyfriend context), tone down on the "entertainment monkey" and "betabuxxing"

 

[Deleted member 2352]

You're welcome.
Yes 3 years. Defenately approached more then 100 women a year back then. Zero lays. Bad advice, didn't help. I also beleived back then I could hit way out of my league and that looks don't matter that much I guess. That didn't help. I was structurally hitting +2 points out of 10 out of league.

Only 2 dudes, from that pua scene. back then (2000's period). That I think were legit (and I know). And whom give pretty good advice:
* Paul Janka;
* 60 years of challenge / chris sicty/ Christopher Andersen / Chris Andersen.
They both akwnoledged decently. Looks matter (alot). Woman know within .. seconds she wouldbe okay fucking you; and if you wanna get laid sell sex not yourself (selling yourself, is LTR boyfriend context), tone down on the "entertainment monkey" and "betabuxxing"

Okay good shit man
also one more question.
I know this kinfa weird.
But would you say laughing alot is good?
Or should you act cool And hard to impress ?

 

[eduardkoopman]

But would you say laughing alot is good?

Generally, no.
If you wanna make buddies and be friendzone, then yes. Be the funny, fun guy.

If you wanna have "romance", then mostly no. It's okay, and good, and cool, and nromal, when you laugh when you have to laugh because it's funny. But laughing alot (more then you regularly would), means something else.
It means: breaking tention because you can't handle the tention. While tention, is the best friend when on a path with a woman towards sex. Sex is tention,. tention is hot, when she finds you attractive. Laughing, is breaking tention. I mean, every time I had sex for the first time with a woman, it got high tention at some point. Like staring at each other with silence coming closer together to each other, breathing getting heavier, and so on. If I (or she) would laugh then, it would so fuck up that whole tention, it's like a turn off switch)

Or should you act cool And hard to impress ?

Cool, is imo yes alot of that for the inital phase. Be cool, and be laid back. Then after some time, when you are one-on-one somewhere, it's time to show more sexual interest. As in: becoming more "physicall". As in, touching her, holding her (hand, etc), maybe in words more sexual if you can do that, etc.. You can see her respnse then, to that. If she find a dude hot, she will allow and participate with that. Otherwise not.

That playing "hard to get"/"hard to impress stuff" I dunno. It sounds stupid to me. You can't fool a girl, into believing that. She either does or doesn't see you as valuable dude/a dude with option . I would more say, don't make oneself look desperate/needy/optionless (by saying or doing certain things); that's enough. I don't see any point in swinging the other way, of being mr. "hard to get". Just don't be a needy simp.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Generally, no.
If you wanna make buddies and be friendzone, then yes. Be the funny, fun guy.

If you wanna have "romance", then mostly no. It's okay, and good, and cool, and nromal, when you laugh when you have to laugh because it's funny. But laughing alot (more then you regularly would), means something else.
It means: breaking tention because you can't handle the tention. While tention, is the best friend when on a path with a woman towards sex. Sex is tention,. tention is hot, when she finds you attractive. Laughing, is breaking tention. I mean, every time I had sex for the first time with a woman, it got high tention. Like staring at each other with silince coming closer together to each other, breathing getting heavier, and so on. If I (or she) would laugh then, it would so fuck up that whole tention, it's like a turn off switch)

Cool, is imo yes alot of that for the inital phase. Be cool, and be laid back. Then after some time, when you are one-on-one somewhere, it's time to show more sexual interest. As in: becoming more "physicall". As in, touching her, holding her (hand, etc), maybe in words more sexual if you can do that, etc.. You can see her respnse then, to that. If she find a dude hot, she will allow and participate with that. Otherwise not.

That playing "hard to get"/"hard to impress stuff" I dunno. It sounds stupid to me. You can't fool a girl, into believing that. She either does or doesn't see you as valuable dude/a dude with option . I would more say, don't make oneself look desperate/needy/optionless (by saying or doing certain things); that's enough. I don't see any point in swinging the other way, of being mr. "hard to get". Just don't be a needy simp.

Thanks man You are one of the few helpful guys here on the site.
What you say really makes sense And I will keep everything in Mind.
You actually put effort into your responses

 

[eduardkoopman]

Thanks man You are one of the few helpful guys here on the site.
What you say really makes sense And I will keep everything in Mind.
You actually put effort into your responses

To add about the common BlackPill believe. That women will approach men. I saw that comment comming back in this Thread also.

This is my view about that:

https://looksmax.org/threads/women-never-approach-first.131522/page-2#post-2234095

 

[maxr]

'Hey I just saw you and thought you looked cute / nice / sexy, i had to come say hello / had to come meet you

wait for reaction

what u up to now / where u from blabla then just get her number or go for a coffee / beer