How to get a gf as a 21 yo who has finished up studying and works from home?

[Deleted member 8608]

It is over?

 

[mortis]

be gl

 

[Deleted member 3946]

do you have no friends

 

[Deleted member 19896]

Stats?

 

[Deleted member 3946]

Yes so im supposed to be gay now?

do you only have male friends? just meet ppl through friends, if youre 5.5 psl like it says, you should have no problem to have gf through common friends

 

[Deleted member 3946]

My common friends dont have foid friends jfl

It doesnt matter youre looking at it wrong. Imagine youre covid. You meet one person this person should know at least 2-3 unique ppl, who in turn will know at least 2-3 unique ppl etc. Just go out with male friends it doesn't matter, encourgae them to bring other ppl you dont know. This way you practice social skills and eventually someone should have fucking foid friends.

 

[Deleted member 3946]

And the ones that they have are either out of my league or not worth it

Mate I dont know anyone of my friends' acquintances' friends, you probably don't either unless you live in 3k pop place. I have gone out with people who I've never seen or heard in my life before, not even following each other on instagram. I have gone out with people who come from a different city. You could be a negative or you could just try what I told you to try. At the very least it will make your life better by going out and having fun. Out of league or not worth it is a subjective assessment you make after meeting them, and it's okay for it to be either. You can be using Tinder at the same time if you think it will take too long

 

[Gonthar]

Go to college, move into a dorm - you start from scratch basically just like everyone else and it's very easy to get new friends and a social circle. Study game and apply it.

 

[Gonthar]

I already finished college jfl

OK...And what did you do there? Didn't you find a circle of friends to hang out with and have fun together? Didn't you hit on any girls?
After college is over, things get much harder - very difficult to make new friends or get an opportunity to hang around girls for a really long time until your looks matter less and your personality and game start to shine, so you could actually get a girlfriend.

 

[Gonthar]

There were 2 foids in my class jfl. Its fucking over.

What class, you should go to a college/university where girls are the majority...
You're still young, you could go to another college, as long as you are in your 20s you won't look out of place there, in fact if you are a little older and also have some money you'll get a status boost.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

do you only have male friends? just meet ppl through friends, if youre 5.5 psl like it says, you should have no problem to have gf through common friends

mixed gender friendcircles are extremely rare tbh. Usually only includes girlfriends of guys in the group

 

[Gonthar]

Bro wtf, I finished my degree and now i have to search for a job

No, you should go again to college, I went to three universities for example.
For money just work from home, but don't ruin your 20s without getting the full college experience.

 

[Deleted member 3946]

mixed gender friendcircles are extremely rare tbh. Usually only includes girlfriends of guys in the group

uber common in Greece, doesnt have to be friends can be acquiantances

 

[Deleted member 17578]

uber common in Greece, doesnt have to be friends can be acquiantances

southern europe, balkans, eastern europe. women are more friendly there.

in nordic countries, this doesnt exist.

 

[ChristianChad]

Gaymaxxx

 

[Gonthar]

Just go to uni again bro! Being 5 8 HTN is just mental!

Yes, I suggest something easy, so you don't have to put much effort in studying and also a place where the classes can't be skipped so you will spend a lot of time together with the girls and get to bond and know each other better....
I went to biology for example, and it was amazing, most of the students were girls, many were quite nerdy so we had lots of things in common to discuss about, there were many lab classes that couldn't be skipped so we spent a lot of time close to each other, watching through microscopes, drawing plants, animals, cells, comparing our drawings, doing chemistry and physics experiments and other projects together, etc...