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Ok so there are going to be 2 sections divided by methods 2 meet girls + sections with steps on how to escalate and a section with general advice that is applicable to previous methods.
There are more methods to meet girls but i assume if ur not a chud with no social skills you dont need a guide so im not going to mention those.
Method no.1 Friend of friends.
Unfortunately this method requires some level of social skill. Sections will rank from most nt to most nd.
Appropriate settings for this method: parties, hang outs, group hobbies, etc. Basically anywhere you already know SOME ppl this gives you social proof and makes you not seem like as much as a stranger. The first step is socialize with as many ppl in the group as possible. Important TALK TO MANY GIRLS not just the ones u like this makes u not seem like ur singling ppl out and being weird. If a girl seems to fw u make up an excuse to get their number or social dont be scared to get several number socials "as friends".
Method no.2 dating apps
Requires signifigantly less effort but generally yields worse results especially in quality of women.
Make sure you have good photos and pls for the love of god DO NOT put a shirtless mirror selfie unless you have a top 1% physique. It will make u look like a disgusting ugly hoe.
Pics should be in good lighting. Examples of good pics: you in a park or some shit wearing a nice outfit, you at the club or out w friends (social proof), pics of you with a pet, you doing a hobby, etc. If you NEED to show off ur physique make sure it makes sense in context of the pic. Eg. At the beach/pool, form fitting clothing, etc.
Bio should be as normal as possible dont post autistic shit pretty self explanitory.
Just swipe right on everything and filter l8r.
Once you match. Referance their profile for things to ask about. Dont just send a "hey". Dont spend days texting try to set up a date asap do not invest any time unless you have a date set. Also doing a phone call to screen to make sure they arent weird asf helps.
Step 1. Ok you have a number/date what now?
DO NOT be clingy and call/text them all the time remember you are strangers if you do it will make u look weird.
Best dates are activity based not going to explain u can figure it out.
Ask them questions about themselves try to be actually interested and try to learn about them. Find excuses to break the touch barrier you will know if they fw it.
After the date text saying you enjoyed the date or whatever and ask when they are free again. Try to schedule a week after to not seem clingy. This is assuming you werent retarded and the date went well.
Step 2. After a couple dates hopefully ur at least making out or something. For third (or 4th dates sometimes if u havent fucked yet) try to schedule ur dates later at night like around 6-8pm. Dont eat a shit ton btw. Try to invite them over to ur house after to watch a movie or some shit or sone other excuse. Try to make out once ur settled after ur date and escalate w more and more touching dont be scared to ask if its ok or what they want. Ideally u lay pipe.
Step 3. Continue dating but dont mention being exclusive or wanting to be offical. Larp talking to other girls or alternatively not talking to other girls if she gets jealous. Continue to lay pipe fuck like ur life depends on it bc it does. If everything works she will ideally want to lock shit down if ur nice to her and giving good dick. Wait for her to ask u to be ur bf first.
Additional tips:
Dont act jealous or clingy it will make u unattractive. Dont buy her tons of shit or go on expensive dates.
Do ask lots of questions ab her and take interest in her hobbies or whatever. Do escalate physically aslong as its recipricated or clearly wanted.
Disclaimers: having a gf is 60% watching movies and getting food. Other 40% is cuddling and laying pipe. The 60% is kind of manditory to keep them happy.
ANTI COPE:
"But im chopped" I was litterally 25+bf with bad skin and i had a gf then.
"But i have anxiety" i used to have social anxiety. I did exposure therapy and got over it. Also just fake it till u make it if you are genuinely retarded
"But im weird" just dont say weird shit then. Ppl love to talk about themselves just ask engaging questions.
Good luck. Luv u guys be nice to eachother.
There are more methods to meet girls but i assume if ur not a chud with no social skills you dont need a guide so im not going to mention those.
Method no.1 Friend of friends.
Unfortunately this method requires some level of social skill. Sections will rank from most nt to most nd.
Appropriate settings for this method: parties, hang outs, group hobbies, etc. Basically anywhere you already know SOME ppl this gives you social proof and makes you not seem like as much as a stranger. The first step is socialize with as many ppl in the group as possible. Important TALK TO MANY GIRLS not just the ones u like this makes u not seem like ur singling ppl out and being weird. If a girl seems to fw u make up an excuse to get their number or social dont be scared to get several number socials "as friends".
Method no.2 dating apps
Requires signifigantly less effort but generally yields worse results especially in quality of women.
Make sure you have good photos and pls for the love of god DO NOT put a shirtless mirror selfie unless you have a top 1% physique. It will make u look like a disgusting ugly hoe.
Pics should be in good lighting. Examples of good pics: you in a park or some shit wearing a nice outfit, you at the club or out w friends (social proof), pics of you with a pet, you doing a hobby, etc. If you NEED to show off ur physique make sure it makes sense in context of the pic. Eg. At the beach/pool, form fitting clothing, etc.
Bio should be as normal as possible dont post autistic shit pretty self explanitory.
Just swipe right on everything and filter l8r.
Once you match. Referance their profile for things to ask about. Dont just send a "hey". Dont spend days texting try to set up a date asap do not invest any time unless you have a date set. Also doing a phone call to screen to make sure they arent weird asf helps.
Step 1. Ok you have a number/date what now?
DO NOT be clingy and call/text them all the time remember you are strangers if you do it will make u look weird.
Best dates are activity based not going to explain u can figure it out.
Ask them questions about themselves try to be actually interested and try to learn about them. Find excuses to break the touch barrier you will know if they fw it.
After the date text saying you enjoyed the date or whatever and ask when they are free again. Try to schedule a week after to not seem clingy. This is assuming you werent retarded and the date went well.
Step 2. After a couple dates hopefully ur at least making out or something. For third (or 4th dates sometimes if u havent fucked yet) try to schedule ur dates later at night like around 6-8pm. Dont eat a shit ton btw. Try to invite them over to ur house after to watch a movie or some shit or sone other excuse. Try to make out once ur settled after ur date and escalate w more and more touching dont be scared to ask if its ok or what they want. Ideally u lay pipe.
Step 3. Continue dating but dont mention being exclusive or wanting to be offical. Larp talking to other girls or alternatively not talking to other girls if she gets jealous. Continue to lay pipe fuck like ur life depends on it bc it does. If everything works she will ideally want to lock shit down if ur nice to her and giving good dick. Wait for her to ask u to be ur bf first.
Additional tips:
Dont act jealous or clingy it will make u unattractive. Dont buy her tons of shit or go on expensive dates.
Do ask lots of questions ab her and take interest in her hobbies or whatever. Do escalate physically aslong as its recipricated or clearly wanted.
Disclaimers: having a gf is 60% watching movies and getting food. Other 40% is cuddling and laying pipe. The 60% is kind of manditory to keep them happy.
ANTI COPE:
"But im chopped" I was litterally 25+bf with bad skin and i had a gf then.
"But i have anxiety" i used to have social anxiety. I did exposure therapy and got over it. Also just fake it till u make it if you are genuinely retarded
"But im weird" just dont say weird shit then. Ppl love to talk about themselves just ask engaging questions.
Good luck. Luv u guys be nice to eachother.
