How to get a gf

[yadidortega21]

I’m 14 and mtn fyi and I thinks that’s good enough to get a gf my age but how?

How does it happen, do you just talk to her become friends then date?
Or do you start up say you like her or have a friend talk to her for you or tell a friend to have on of their friends talk to you or what
Im so confused how it works
What do I do to get one

 

[Konon]

I’m 14

At your age I was playing too much and until 18-19 I wasn't looking for a gf - btw foids always despised me

Now I'm 23 K(HH)V with zero relationships

 

[Lowtiertroll]

I’m 14 and mtn fyi and I thinks that’s good enough to get a gf my age but how?

How does it happen, do you just talk to her become friends then date?
Or do you start up say you like her or have a friend talk to her for you or tell a friend to have on of their friends talk to you or what
Im so confused how it works
What do I do to get one

Depends on how your social situation is looking, are you popular do you have many friends do you have female friends, do you have any friends? Do you practice any sports

 

[m4thewsonn1845]

If girls don’t approach or show interest to you first it’s fkn overrrr

 

[yadidortega21]

Depends on how your social situation is looking, are you popular do you have many friends do you have female friends, do you have any friends? Do you practice any sports

I’m very popular and I play basketball and football I’m friends with the so called popular guys too, everywhere I go I get iois but my only problem is that I just can’t talk to girls I just can’t idk why I’m like the most low inhibition dude in my school but when it comes to girls I just can’t it’s like I’m just not interested but I really am

 

[yadidortega21]

If girls don’t approach or show interest to you first it’s fkn overrrr

somtimes get approached everywhere once in a while, but I constantly get iois

 

[Lowtiertroll]

I’m very popular and I play basketball and football I’m friends with the so called popular guys too, everywhere I go I get iois but my only problem is that I just can’t talk to girls I just can’t idk why I’m like the most low inhibition dude in my school but when it comes to girls I just can’t it’s like I’m just not interested but I really am

If you’re popular, and go to parties then just meet one there. Seems weird tho that you’re apart of the popular group and can’t talk to women, I’ve never met one person who’s apart of the popular normie crowd who isn’t great at speaking to women

 

[Lowtiertroll]

somtimes get approached everywhere once in a while, but I constantly get iois

Yea then the reason you don’t have a girl is because you’re dumb, if you get approached all the time and IOis you must be retarded to not manage to get their socials

 

[yadidortega21]

If you’re popular, and go to parties then just meet one there. Seems weird tho that you’re apart of the popular group and can’t talk to women, I’ve never met one person who’s apart of the popular normie crowd who isn’t great at speaking to women

Never had practice, I’m thinking I’m this way because in my childhood years I went to a different school and I was a loser like the complete opposite and a lil ugly, I was always picked on and no girl would ever even look in my direction, no freinds and I was so so insecure and home wasn’t any better either and I was poor.

( Not important) at some point at my life everything changed, it was around the time of 2023 tiktok when lm was popular, i was insecure and hated my looks so i looked for ways to fix it, eventually i did and i went out more and people liked me more but i wondered why people still didn’t want to be friends even tho they liked me now, i found out years of loneliness and insecurity makes your social skills shit so I fixed that too.

Then I moved into a better house in a better neighborhood and a better school and by then I had functional social skills and looks to attract and first day of school my now friends who were the popular boys wanted me to sit with them in class and lunch. And life went on. A couple of years building confidence and getting better looking bring us here now, but even with all the stuff I’ve learned I’ve never learned how to talk to specifically girls, I’ve had many many chances to get a girlfriend or girl-friends but everytime we always just eventually stop talking. Right now at this moment I have two potential gfs a Hispanic 7/10 and a white 6/10 both same age and very popular girls, I know if I date one of them my status will boost 10 times so I’m very serious about this. But I’m struggling, struggling to talk to them and everyday I go without talking to them they lose interest, even I do, and this is an opportunity I can’t lose. So that’s why I made this tread but so far no help and I might lose these girls

 

[Lowtiertroll]

Never had practice, I’m thinking I’m this way because in my childhood years I went to a different school and I was a loser like the complete opposite and a lil ugly, I was always picked on and no girl would ever even look in my direction, no freinds and I was so so insecure and home wasn’t any better either and I was poor.

( Not important) at some point at my life everything changed, it was around the time of 2023 tiktok when lm was popular, i was insecure and hated my looks so i looked for ways to fix it, eventually i did and i went out more and people liked me more but i wondered why people still didn’t want to be friends even tho they liked me now, i found out years of loneliness and insecurity makes your social skills shit so I fixed that too.

Then I moved into a better house in a better neighborhood and a better school and by then I had functional social skills and looks to attract and first day of school my now friends who were the popular boys wanted me to sit with them in class and lunch. And life went on. A couple of years building confidence and getting better looking bring us here now, but even with all the stuff I’ve learned I’ve never learned how to talk to specifically girls, I’ve had many many chances to get a girlfriend or girl-friends but everytime we always just eventually stop talking. Right now at this moment I have two potential gfs a Hispanic 7/10 and a white 6/10 both same age and very popular girls, I know if I date one of them my status will boost 10 times so I’m very serious about this. But I’m struggling, struggling to talk to them and everyday I go without talking to them they lose interest, even I do, and this is an opportunity I can’t lose. So that’s why I made this tread but so far no help and I might lose these girls

Just talk to them/either one, if you cans ocialize with dudes you can with girls