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Below is some points that may help you in your girlfriend quest.
If you’re not already; become friends with her. She not gonna have a crush on you unless she’s spoken to you at least a few times.
Be honest and genuine towards your crush, so don’t be a complete asshole to her or her friends as then she won’t like you. Instead be nice to her friends as well as her, if her friends trust you, you’re already half way there.
Always be there for her and give her support if she needs it.
Don’t always necessarily agree with her all the time as this will make you seem bland, if she’s arguing with another person then you could try backing her up.
Talk to her outside of lessons or any other opportunity you get.
Try to catch her eye in class or in hallways as this is cute. Also if she notices that you’re looking at her this may give her an indication that you like her.
When talking to her smile and make eye contact. Don’t fold your arms instead try to have relaxed body language.
Talk about yourself and your interests and also let her talk about herself. However sometimes she could be shy so might not want to talk about herself too much.
If you’re in lesson and you’ve both got a class together next, you could walk with her to it (however this depends if you’re already friends with her, don’t stalk her to her next class).
Be yourself, as if she doesn’t like you for who you are then she isn’t worth it.
If you like her then just ask her out ffs. You’re only a teenager once so make the most of it. Even if she did reject you, at least you’d have a rejection story to tell your friends. Also even if she does happen to reject you then she’ll probably still want to be friends with you, yes this may be awkward for a few days or weeks, but sometimes a platonic friendship is what a girl needs.
I hope I’ve helped someone somewhere get their crush and made their lives just a little bit less lonely.
Edit:
I’ve had some suggestions from peoples’ comments so I’ll add them bellow:
When you become fairly good friends with her, meet up with her and some other mutual friends outside of school, as then you can see her and talk to her more.
If she’s cold offer her your hoodie as that’s cute. Only do this if you’re good friends though otherwise it might come off as creepy.
Also text her. This could be something as simple as discussing homework questions.
For people saying that they are unattractive, personality out rules looks. As long as your crush can have a joke with you and you can hold a conversation you’re good to go.
As well as this try to joke around with her during class or whenever you speak to her. It’s hella attractive if a guy has a great sense of humour.
Maintain at least basic hygiene, please for the love of god no one will want to be around you if you stink. This means deodorant, ask for some for Christmas as that’s coming up.
Also most of these tips are reversible and can be used for any gender, whether you are crushing on a guy or girl. However every person is different so for one person these tips could be spot on, however for another none of these could apply. Every girl/guy is different so it is hard to put definitive categories.
Guys thanks for all the support on the post, I’ve been receiving hundreds of messages and I’m trying to respond to everyone but if I miss your comment I’m sorry.
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If you’re not already; become friends with her. She not gonna have a crush on you unless she’s spoken to you at least a few times.
Be honest and genuine towards your crush, so don’t be a complete asshole to her or her friends as then she won’t like you. Instead be nice to her friends as well as her, if her friends trust you, you’re already half way there.
Always be there for her and give her support if she needs it.
Don’t always necessarily agree with her all the time as this will make you seem bland, if she’s arguing with another person then you could try backing her up.
Talk to her outside of lessons or any other opportunity you get.
Try to catch her eye in class or in hallways as this is cute. Also if she notices that you’re looking at her this may give her an indication that you like her.
When talking to her smile and make eye contact. Don’t fold your arms instead try to have relaxed body language.
Talk about yourself and your interests and also let her talk about herself. However sometimes she could be shy so might not want to talk about herself too much.
If you’re in lesson and you’ve both got a class together next, you could walk with her to it (however this depends if you’re already friends with her, don’t stalk her to her next class).
Be yourself, as if she doesn’t like you for who you are then she isn’t worth it.
If you like her then just ask her out ffs. You’re only a teenager once so make the most of it. Even if she did reject you, at least you’d have a rejection story to tell your friends. Also even if she does happen to reject you then she’ll probably still want to be friends with you, yes this may be awkward for a few days or weeks, but sometimes a platonic friendship is what a girl needs.
I hope I’ve helped someone somewhere get their crush and made their lives just a little bit less lonely.
Edit:
I’ve had some suggestions from peoples’ comments so I’ll add them bellow:
When you become fairly good friends with her, meet up with her and some other mutual friends outside of school, as then you can see her and talk to her more.
If she’s cold offer her your hoodie as that’s cute. Only do this if you’re good friends though otherwise it might come off as creepy.
Also text her. This could be something as simple as discussing homework questions.
For people saying that they are unattractive, personality out rules looks. As long as your crush can have a joke with you and you can hold a conversation you’re good to go.
As well as this try to joke around with her during class or whenever you speak to her. It’s hella attractive if a guy has a great sense of humour.
Maintain at least basic hygiene, please for the love of god no one will want to be around you if you stink. This means deodorant, ask for some for Christmas as that’s coming up.
Also most of these tips are reversible and can be used for any gender, whether you are crushing on a guy or girl. However every person is different so for one person these tips could be spot on, however for another none of these could apply. Every girl/guy is different so it is hard to put definitive categories.
Guys thanks for all the support on the post, I’ve been receiving hundreds of messages and I’m trying to respond to everyone but if I miss your comment I’m sorry.
*100% money back guarantee
