How to get a kiss at the club?

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I don’t really have issues approaching or getting a decent vibe.
Last time I even got a few snaps, but things usually stall before it escalates to a kiss.


I feel like I’m missing the correct timing or escalation steps in a club environment.


How do you usually go from eye contact / talking to the kiss without making it awkward?
Any common mistakes to avoid?
 
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Look like ur having a good time, or actually have a good time.

I barely even say anything to them literally just say whats ur name where u from ngl and give eyecontact grab their waist, but u have to notice them looking at u first
 
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only works if you’re good looking
Im HMTN. The girls in any normal club that isnt high class is just filled with hypergamous MTBs anyway not some big acheivment really.
 
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Im HMTN. The girls in any normal club that isnt high class is just filled with hypergamous MTBs anyway not some big acheivment really.
obviously the guy making the thread isn’t anywhere near hmtn otherwise he wouldn’t need to be asking the question
 
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obviously the guy making the thread isn’t anywhere near hmtn otherwise he wouldn’t need to be asking the question
Lots of idiots that underrate themselves here, the fact he was clueless about this subject supports that might just not socialise much
 
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get better looking
Obviously, but I have seen so many average guys make out with way more attractive girls...
I wanted to know the steps or actions to do to go from eye contact to a kiss without getting a rape charge
 
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Obviously, but I have seen so many average guys make out with way more attractive girls...
I wanted to know the steps or actions to do to go from eye contact to a kiss without getting a rape charge
tank the rape charge
 
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obviously the guy making the thread isn’t anywhere near hmtn otherwise he wouldn’t need to be asking the question
Idk, some people on discord have rated me hmtn
I have never been rated below mtn
 
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Im HMTN. The girls in any normal club that isnt high class is just filled with hypergamous MTBs anyway not some big acheivment really.
Yea for sure
But once you drank enough they look like htbs 🤣
 
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take it slow
approach and dance a bit then grab her waist
but its kinda worthless ngl
 
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Its a game of body language to know when its the right time to go in for the kiss
 
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kissing lips that sucked dick a few moments before just fucking lol.
 
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I don’t really have issues approaching or getting a decent vibe.
Last time I even got a few snaps, but things usually stall before it escalates to a kiss.


I feel like I’m missing the correct timing or escalation steps in a club environment.


How do you usually go from eye contact / talking to the kiss without making it awkward?
Any common mistakes to avoid?
be nt and look like youre having a good time. if you get eye contact and start dancing together just be aggressive and lead. youre a man its natural to be dominant especially in this kind of environment
 
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Look like ur having a good time, or actually have a good time.

I barely even say anything to them literally just say whats ur name where u from ngl and give eyecontact grab their waist, but u have to notice them looking at u first
I noticed some looking but i always think that they look at my friends or something like that
I always try to find excuses I guess 😭
 
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I don’t really have issues approaching or getting a decent vibe.
Last time I even got a few snaps, but things usually stall before it escalates to a kiss.


I feel like I’m missing the correct timing or escalation steps in a club environment.


How do you usually go from eye contact / talking to the kiss without making it awkward?
Any common mistakes to avoid?
too low sex appeal, too low psl, bad eye contact, bad dominance, bad body language reading, etc
 
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be nt and look like youre having a good time. if you get eye contact and start dancing together just be aggressive and lead. youre a man its natural to be dominant especially in this kind of environment
Thanks for the good reply 🙏
 
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Thanks for the good reply 🙏
But number one thing really is to just try and have a good time. Girls can kind of sense if your dependent on their attention, even if they dont act into you or something like that you MUST NOT show it affects you at all. If youre having a good time with friends you shouldnt keep any girls on your mind for too long.
 
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But number one thing really is to just try and have a good time. Girls can kind of sense if your dependent on their attention, even if they dont act into you or something like that you MUST NOT show it affects you at all. If youre having a good time with friends you shouldnt keep any girls on your mind for too long.
Yeah, I always have a good time with my friends, a kiss would just be a huge bonus
 
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dont force urself
nono, its not about moral or anything like that, I would like to
The issue is that I live at my parents house and it would be insanely risky...
And no, i am not a 25 year old loser
 
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nono, its not about moral or anything like that, I would like to
The issue is that I live at my parents house and it would be insanely risky...
And no, i am not a 25 year old loser
well the only chance is holiday then
 
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I don’t really have issues approaching or getting a decent vibe.
Last time I even got a few snaps, but things usually stall before it escalates to a kiss.


I feel like I’m missing the correct timing or escalation steps in a club environment.


How do you usually go from eye contact / talking to the kiss without making it awkward?
Any common mistakes to avoid?
signal this to the woman
stroke GIF
 
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well the only chance is holiday then
my parents are like never gone 😭
especially for several days
and we always go on family vacation
I guess I just gotta wait until I got my own place or when I go on holiday with friends only
 
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my parents are like never gone 😭
especially for several days
and we always go on family vacation
I guess I just gotta wait until I got my own place or when I go on holiday with friends only
go on a summer camp bro trust
i assume u are 15-18
 
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