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This is a pretty useful thread and i wanna point out beggers cant be choosers; dont go for girls you know are out of your league or do not give the same vibe as you.
To get started well start with the low inhib part which is probably the easiest. The best way is any GABA inhibitors but i find alcohol is the most successful since it gives you something to hold in your hand and to sip which keeps your mind busy and lower anxiety. You can go to a bar, party(only if you have friends
), a club, concer, or the best of all a rave. These places are full of low inhibs too and since you will be intoxicated you will have more confidence to go up to them. Start a convo or just go straight to the point and ask for a number snap or ig and if you get rejected you wont care because youll be drunk.
The next thing is mirroring their personality and making up interest/following their interests. This is the most successful method ime. Just larp about music tastes and hobbies and youll most likely succeed. You can also love bomb or breadcrumb which keeps you interesting and on their mind.
Last but not least it will be dates or hangouts. This is the hardest one since its unlikely youll be low inhib but just think to yourself you made it this far so fuck it and if it doesnt go well just repeat steps 1&2. You can go somewhere with alcohol but if you want a chance of a relationship its best to get used to the feeling and adapting to that person. Pick whatever that isnt a turnoff like fast food or a bar again; somewhere thats a sit down place if you are on a date or go do something fun if its a hangout.
Dont be too clingy towards them or youll drive em away and the best way to counter that is just ti talk to multiple people at once and picking the best
To get started well start with the low inhib part which is probably the easiest. The best way is any GABA inhibitors but i find alcohol is the most successful since it gives you something to hold in your hand and to sip which keeps your mind busy and lower anxiety. You can go to a bar, party(only if you have friends
), a club, concer, or the best of all a rave. These places are full of low inhibs too and since you will be intoxicated you will have more confidence to go up to them. Start a convo or just go straight to the point and ask for a number snap or ig and if you get rejected you wont care because youll be drunk.The next thing is mirroring their personality and making up interest/following their interests. This is the most successful method ime. Just larp about music tastes and hobbies and youll most likely succeed. You can also love bomb or breadcrumb which keeps you interesting and on their mind.
Last but not least it will be dates or hangouts. This is the hardest one since its unlikely youll be low inhib but just think to yourself you made it this far so fuck it and if it doesnt go well just repeat steps 1&2. You can go somewhere with alcohol but if you want a chance of a relationship its best to get used to the feeling and adapting to that person. Pick whatever that isnt a turnoff like fast food or a bar again; somewhere thats a sit down place if you are on a date or go do something fun if its a hangout.
Dont be too clingy towards them or youll drive em away and the best way to counter that is just ti talk to multiple people at once and picking the best
