How to get better friends?

[Kirby7000]

It seems like all friend groups are similar in attractiveness like they naturally fall in place. My friends don't like going to social settings or playing sports or talking to women. I'm not attractive and really trying to socially ladder climb but i love playing sports, going out, and at least trying to pick up women. When I try to befriend others who are into those things they flake on me and give excuses?

What am i supposed to do? I'm fated to living a depressing life playing board games with my weirdo friends. They don't even have many women in the friend group so my access to dating options isnt there.

Is there a way to get new or "better" friends without increasing smv?

 

[Saint Casanova]

Expensive sports and activities. I used to Row and formed a close bond with the other guys. You meet attractive, successful and NT people by partaking in upper class activities.

 

[Kirby7000]

Expensive sports and activities. I used to Row and formed a close bond with the other guys. You meet attractive, successful and NT people by partaking in upper class activities.

im black. i dont think they would accept me. Would they?

 

[Saint Casanova]

im black. i dont think they would accept me. Would they?

I don’t know where you live bro. In the Uk it’s not too much about colour, it’s more about your social class, plenty of upper class Blacks here. It shouldn’t be a problem I think ?

 

[Kirby7000]

I don’t know where you live bro. In the Uk it’s not too much about colour, it’s more about your social class, plenty of upper class Blacks here. It shouldn’t be a problem I think ?

In the US its different. There really isnt a thing called upper class blacks in America.

 

[Saint Casanova]

In the US its different. There really isnt a thing called upper class blacks in America.

Yes but which state do you live in? It’s much different if you live in Cali compared to Alabama. I can’t imagine the racism is that bad there to the point where you’re segregated from sports!

 

[OCDisneyChad]

In the US its different. There really isnt a thing called upper class blacks in America.

There are some well off black blacks in texss

 

[Kirby7000]

Yes but which state do you live in? It’s much different if you live in Cali compared to Alabama. I can’t imagine the racism is that bad there to the point where you’re segregated from sports!

pennslyvania

 

[Kirby7000]

Yes but which state do you live in? It’s much different if you live in Cali compared to Alabama. I can’t imagine the racism is that bad there to the point where you’re segregated from sports!

Not really a racism thing, its a meme and made up. Like in college blacks hung out with blacks and white hung out with whites. They had more in common. The white frats had the best parties but almost no blacks.