How to get friends when youre at your midtwenties

[Deleted member 4430]

Muh muh loox

 

[Deleted member 6403]

 

[Deleted member 6403]

This nigga wants to know how to make friends

 

[MostGLSlayer]

At that point just be honest and say you wanna meet new people and make friends.

 

[Gonthar]

Very difficult...

 

[chadmanlet04]

Rupert Pupkin​

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[Deleted member 2403]

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Usual suspects

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Go to college...

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Go to a gas station and start drinking there, lots of lonely people do the same
you should start the conversation

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Go to a gas station and start drinking there, lots of lonely people do the same
you should start the conversation

Thx bro

 

[the BULL]

Bro you should have a family a mortgage and 2 cows by now WTF are you talking about what Friends do you want to make

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Go to college...

I have zero collagen for that

 

[gamma]

Bro you should have a family a mortgage and 2 cows by now WTF are you talking about what Friends do you want to make

You're same age than op

 

[Deleted member 4430]

2 cows by now

The bull

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I have zero collagen for that

This is your competition. How hard do you think it could be?

 

[the BULL]

You're same age than op

indeed i'm not asking stupid questions

 

[gamma]

This is your competition. How hard do you think it could be?

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Op won't go to Harvard but to some small college in Eastern Europe, so his competition are only white men

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

1. Take initiative

If you find people around you, you don’t need to wait for anyone to reach out to you and take the first step. Instead, become a kind initiator even if you’re an introvert, Amber O’Brien, therapist at Mango Clinic, explains. Start talking to a person and share something about yourself. Likewise, let them share about themselves. There’s no need to be so personal at the very first interaction, but exchange a few words or stories that can break the ice.

2. Join a new club or organization

Get involved in an activity that matters to you, where you’re likely to meet others with similar values and interests, says Susanna Guarino, MS, LMHC. You’ll have something to connect over and some of these relationships might become long-lasting friendships with time.

3. Show that you’re friendly

“A person that has friends must show themselves to be friendly,” notes Dr. Markesha Miller, licensed psychotherapist. “I often help my patients to understand that you must be that which you seek. What qualities are important to you in ‘a friend’? Make sure that you are exemplifying those.”

4. Don’t look for similarities

If you don’t share a similar vision and hobbies with someone, it doesn’t mean you can’t develop a friendship. “A true friend is like a deep ocean who observes all the flaws of another person,” says O’Brien. “Therefore, don’t judge someone if he/she belongs to a different mindset. Not doing so will allow you to make new friends.”

5. Be a good listener

If you notice your attention wandering when someone is talking, try to bring it back to what they’re saying, Guarino explains. If you’re listening well, others will feel respected, understood, and warmly towards you.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

b

 

[AlexAP]

Go to dancing classes.