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dont be nd
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How do I become nt is there any guide because my friend group I had left me and it was the only one and I’m trying to get gf so I can hangout with someone but I’m too ugly
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I’m 15If u already made a fool of urself in ur current city, js move and be confident when u move
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the biggest obstacle to making friends is thinking you only want a certain type of person as a friend. open yourself to being friends with many types of people, it might surprise you who you gel with. i begunhigh school right after the pandemic and lost my whole friend group pretty much since they moved or went to a different hs. i didn't make any meaningful friendships in freshman classes because i was so focused on replacing my old friends with new ones just like them. i only made good friendships when i had conversations with people i didn't expect to have much in common with. that said, don't force yourself to connect with people when there is 0 chemistry with and a huge lack of common interests. i cannot force myself to watch a fucking football game or be friends with anyone with green hair
it can be hard to make friends when you have 6 classes and half of them the teacher talks the whole time, or there are super established friend groups, or everyone is silent. this is why you should join a club, no-cut sport, or get a job. I'd recommend cross country or track as you will be running in small groups of guys and get to know many people.
another tip is to just put yourself out there. Be around people, smile, say hi, introduce yourself after a short conversation. last year when i was a senior i was invited to be a plus one for an expensive hot pot place by a kid i knew only from vaping in the bathrooms.
not a tip, but as an nd person, i have come to find that some of my friends are technically nd, but not socially inept. people with adhd, bipolar, bpd girls.
hope you find your people soon
it can be hard to make friends when you have 6 classes and half of them the teacher talks the whole time, or there are super established friend groups, or everyone is silent. this is why you should join a club, no-cut sport, or get a job. I'd recommend cross country or track as you will be running in small groups of guys and get to know many people.
another tip is to just put yourself out there. Be around people, smile, say hi, introduce yourself after a short conversation. last year when i was a senior i was invited to be a plus one for an expensive hot pot place by a kid i knew only from vaping in the bathrooms.
not a tip, but as an nd person, i have come to find that some of my friends are technically nd, but not socially inept. people with adhd, bipolar, bpd girls.
hope you find your people soon
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