How to get gf really

D

Deleted member 271141

Iron
Joined
Nov 15, 2025
Posts
30
Reputation
11
After the last time I started working on an approach with a girl and she told me "no," my inhibitions skyrocketed, and I became terrified of rejection. I don't really care about girls who don't know me well, but the situation you put yourself in, where a girl who doesn't know you says no to your face, is incredibly embarrassing, in my opinion. I have a personality and dignity, but when I think about it, I only truly get a chance when I approach. If I hadn't dared to do it, I don't think I would have ever had a real opportunity. Because no girl has ever looked at me with a sign of interest, and I probably wouldn't have been able to get a date if I hadn't approach first, Without it, I haven't been able to find any girl, and that's what makes me so scared
 
  • +1
Reactions: shessonice, gio729 and BigBallsLarry
School settings or work settings or mutual friends works best
 
  • +1
Reactions: VohnnyBoy, BigBallsLarry, SomaliSub5 and 1 other person
  • +1
Reactions: larpcel and BigBallsLarry
s
After the last time I started working on an approach with a girl and she told me "no," my inhibitions skyrocketed, and I became terrified of rejection. I don't really care about girls who don't know me well, but the situation you put yourself in, where a girl who doesn't know you says no to your face, is incredibly embarrassing, in my opinion. I have a personality and dignity, but when I think about it, I only truly get a chance when I approach. If I hadn't dared to do it, I don't think I would have ever had a real opportunity. Because no girl has ever looked at me with a sign of interest, and I probably wouldn't have been able to get a date if I hadn't approach first, Without it, I haven't been able to find any girl, and that's what makes me so scared
being scared is for pussies, men cant afford to be scared
 
After the last time I started working on an approach with a girl and she told me "no," my inhibitions skyrocketed, and I became terrified of rejection. I don't really care about girls who don't know me well, but the situation you put yourself in, where a girl who doesn't know you says no to your face, is incredibly embarrassing, in my opinion. I have a personality and dignity, but when I think about it, I only truly get a chance when I approach. If I hadn't dared to do it, I don't think I would have ever had a real opportunity. Because no girl has ever looked at me with a sign of interest, and I probably wouldn't have been able to get a date if I hadn't approach first, Without it, I haven't been able to find any girl, and that's what makes me so scared
social networking, basically completely removes the "approaching" aspect
 
  • +1
Reactions: VohnnyBoy
To be fair I wonder why would you want that
 
  • +1
Reactions: exire
I tried bro no girl find me attractive still.
People will say cope but just keep trying and it’ll happen eventually
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 271141
dnr, dream about it like the rest of us.
 
  • +1
Reactions: y5helm0
s

being scared is for pussies, men cant afford to be scared
Not scared , embarrassed my last rejection was really embarrassing I felt like I'm a thirsty weirdo
 
social media- don't approach like a creep, don't spam her, don't reply to stories as an intro, follow girls who would realistically be friendly/find u attractive lol
or talk to friends of friends irl
 
People will say cope but just keep trying and it’ll happen eventually
I counted the times I got rejected , I got rejected 12 times
 
After the last time I started working on an approach with a girl and she told me "no," my inhibitions skyrocketed, and I became terrified of rejection. I don't really care about girls who don't know me well, but the situation you put yourself in, where a girl who doesn't know you says no to your face, is incredibly embarrassing, in my opinion. I have a personality and dignity, but when I think about it, I only truly get a chance when I approach. If I hadn't dared to do it, I don't think I would have ever had a real opportunity. Because no girl has ever looked at me with a sign of interest, and I probably wouldn't have been able to get a date if I hadn't approach first, Without it, I haven't been able to find any girl, and that's what makes me so scared
go er or ldar
 
  • +1
Reactions: Rizbor02
social media- don't approach like a creep, don't spam her, don't reply to stories as an intro, follow girls who would realistically be friendly/find u attractive lol
or talk to friends of friends irl
So u mean girls in social circles that in school or something
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 271141
So making conversation first before asking for number?
Yes or if it’s someone you see often try making them your friend first
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 271141
then keep looksmaxxing
That may sounds weird but I think I look good also wheat waffles rated me 7 and some others gave me HTN
 
be incredibly needy and desperate, girls love that
 
  • JFL
Reactions: Regular Doomer
Dont. They’re all manipulative liars in this fuckass generation.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Regular Doomer
After the last time I started working on an approach with a girl and she told me "no," my inhibitions skyrocketed, and I became terrified of rejection. I don't really care about girls who don't know me well, but the situation you put yourself in, where a girl who doesn't know you says no to your face, is incredibly embarrassing, in my opinion. I have a personality and dignity, but when I think about it, I only truly get a chance when I approach. If I hadn't dared to do it, I don't think I would have ever had a real opportunity. Because no girl has ever looked at me with a sign of interest, and I probably wouldn't have been able to get a date if I hadn't approach first, Without it, I haven't been able to find any girl, and that's what makes me so scared
just be confident brah
 
  • JFL
Reactions: Regular Doomer
Want what ?
a girl friend, they're all abnoxious pieces of shit that are worthless and only bring chaos, stress and losses
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 271141

Similar threads

shmool
Replies
21
Views
188
annenisikeyim
annenisikeyim
E
Replies
4
Views
148
esdeeman
E
lblamemyse1f
Replies
9
Views
197
cvskll
cvskll
S
Replies
0
Views
80
sub5lifter
S
freaky
Replies
11
Views
178
TerminatorGenisys9
TerminatorGenisys9

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top