lemon67
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In this guide I will teach you how to pull girls IRL and Online using the methods I'm going to show.
After this guide you won't magically be able to pull every girl you meet (REMEMBER EVERYTHING INVOLVES TRIAL AND ERROR).
But I promise you if you master what I'm about to show you'll have an 80% success rate.
Also if you are rich with a house you don't need this. THEY ARE CALLED CHICKS FOR A REASON BECAUSE THEY WANT A NEST.
1. Hot and Cold (HAC)
Hot and Cold (aka HAC) is a technique to spike girls emotional state between negative and positive highs and lows (like a roller coaster)
this involves compliments or sexual comments ("I would fuck you," "we should get married") followed immediately by insults ("Fuck you bitch," "You're a whore").
Below this you'll see a graph the represent the girls emotional state while using this method
Positive represents compliments/sexual comments ("You are so cute")
Neutral represents boring shit ("What do you do for work")
Negative Represent insults ("Fucking Hoe")
Positive: When you say something Positive to her, her emotional state is going to spike to the positive part of the graph meaning what you said made her either, Happy, or HORNY
Neutral: Neutral is when you talk about normal stuff ("How was your day," "What are your future goals")
Negative: When you say something Negative to her, her emotional state is going to spike to the negative part of the graph meaning what you said made her either, Mad, or HORNY (if she's into that shit)
The main goal while using Hot and Cold is to avoid being on the "Neutral" spot for so long (Who tf cares what her goals in the future are), BUT to build an actual connection you HAVE to ask those type of questions, KEEP IT VERY MINIMUM THOUGH BECAUSE IT WILL BORE YOU and if you are bored she's going to get bored. REMEMBER THE BEST WAY TO NOT BORE A GIRL IS TO NOT BE BORED YOURSELF.
Also this method is better to use when you are in your "Older Brother" Archetype. This is the older brother archetype because usually the older brother bully the "weak" sibling in the family while also protecting the "weak" siblings from other (NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE). This archetype is the best for starting to talk with a girl BUT as soon as you start dating her make the immediate switch to the "FATHER (DAD)" Archetype.
2. Tone Manipulation
SLOW DOWN, this is a MUST.. when you talk to a girl slow down, never answer on her timing Example convo below
Before giving your actual response, use anticipation building phrases like "Oh my God," "Wait," "No way," or "You have to be kidding."
This creates suspense she doesn't know if you'll be positive or negative.
Example: If she says "I love twerking," pause with shock, then drop her down with something like "I didn't think you were like that" or "Good thing were just friends"
playful but judgmental from a higher value position.
Another Example:
Stacy: omggg chaddd what did you eat today?
Chad: (Waits 3-4 seconds to answer the question) wait let me think....nothing but... IM GOING TO EAT YOU NEXT. (TONE MANIPULATION + HOT AND COLD)
Stacy: OMGGG CHAD YOUR SO FUNNY HAHAHAHA!!
Notice what chad did? He waited to reply, by waiting to reply to stacys answer he raises her anxiety a bit flooding her mind with a bunch of possibilities (Positive or Negatives) but once he answers her anxiety drops immediately because it wasn't as bad as she thought it was going to be making her laugh and believe that chad is funny.
this is a cool method right? but if you are evil you can make a girl obsessed and never want to leave you
Tone manipulation doesn't only involve delayed response it involves lowering your tone to a deeper serious one.
Let's say chad and stacy are arguing and once she goes silent chad can say
"stacy...i remember when i use to love you" in a serious, slow and deep tone this will fucking destroy the bitch and make her feel like she did something wrong. Again only use it in those type of situations if you are EVIL.
3. Have No Filter
Don't have a filter NIGGAS, a filter is like a mask, you can't wear it around girls because they have death anxiety (THEY HAVE TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE)
Most men agree with everything women say. Stand out by disagreeing frequently (around 70%) because:
Men and women think differently
Disagreement creates emotional spikes (the "rollercoaster" effect)
It distinguishes you from other guys (MAKES YOU UNIQUE)
REMEMBER BEING OFFENSIVE IS RECOVERABLE BUT BEING FORGOTTEN IS FATAL
Only escalate physically if she started touching first. Think of it as stairs:
Start small (arm touch, hand holding)
If she reciprocates (good response), escalate further
If she accepts but doesn't reciprocate (neutral), continue at that level
If she pulls back (bad response), retreat, build comfort, try again later
ALSO DONT CARE ABOUT THE WEIRDO PARADOX
You're only a weirdo if you push something too far and you don't know that you've pushed it too far
Weird/Creepy: Pushing boundaries + being oblivious to her discomfort + persisting after you see she's uncomfortable
Confident/No Filter: Pushing boundaries + being fully aware of her reactions + adjusting your "GAME/RIZZ" in real time
Should I make a part 2 which will include the following method Direct and Dismissive (DAD), When to break Touch Barrier, and How to set up dates.
After this guide you won't magically be able to pull every girl you meet (REMEMBER EVERYTHING INVOLVES TRIAL AND ERROR).
But I promise you if you master what I'm about to show you'll have an 80% success rate.
Also if you are rich with a house you don't need this. THEY ARE CALLED CHICKS FOR A REASON BECAUSE THEY WANT A NEST.
1. Hot and Cold (HAC)
Hot and Cold (aka HAC) is a technique to spike girls emotional state between negative and positive highs and lows (like a roller coaster)
this involves compliments or sexual comments ("I would fuck you," "we should get married") followed immediately by insults ("Fuck you bitch," "You're a whore").
Below this you'll see a graph the represent the girls emotional state while using this method
Positive represents compliments/sexual comments ("You are so cute")
Neutral represents boring shit ("What do you do for work")
Negative Represent insults ("Fucking Hoe")
Positive: When you say something Positive to her, her emotional state is going to spike to the positive part of the graph meaning what you said made her either, Happy, or HORNY
Neutral: Neutral is when you talk about normal stuff ("How was your day," "What are your future goals")
Negative: When you say something Negative to her, her emotional state is going to spike to the negative part of the graph meaning what you said made her either, Mad, or HORNY (if she's into that shit)
The main goal while using Hot and Cold is to avoid being on the "Neutral" spot for so long (Who tf cares what her goals in the future are), BUT to build an actual connection you HAVE to ask those type of questions, KEEP IT VERY MINIMUM THOUGH BECAUSE IT WILL BORE YOU and if you are bored she's going to get bored. REMEMBER THE BEST WAY TO NOT BORE A GIRL IS TO NOT BE BORED YOURSELF.
Also this method is better to use when you are in your "Older Brother" Archetype. This is the older brother archetype because usually the older brother bully the "weak" sibling in the family while also protecting the "weak" siblings from other (NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE). This archetype is the best for starting to talk with a girl BUT as soon as you start dating her make the immediate switch to the "FATHER (DAD)" Archetype.
2. Tone Manipulation
SLOW DOWN, this is a MUST.. when you talk to a girl slow down, never answer on her timing Example convo below
Before giving your actual response, use anticipation building phrases like "Oh my God," "Wait," "No way," or "You have to be kidding."
This creates suspense she doesn't know if you'll be positive or negative.
Example: If she says "I love twerking," pause with shock, then drop her down with something like "I didn't think you were like that" or "Good thing were just friends"
playful but judgmental from a higher value position.
Another Example:
Stacy: omggg chaddd what did you eat today?
Chad: (Waits 3-4 seconds to answer the question) wait let me think....nothing but... IM GOING TO EAT YOU NEXT. (TONE MANIPULATION + HOT AND COLD)
Stacy: OMGGG CHAD YOUR SO FUNNY HAHAHAHA!!
Notice what chad did? He waited to reply, by waiting to reply to stacys answer he raises her anxiety a bit flooding her mind with a bunch of possibilities (Positive or Negatives) but once he answers her anxiety drops immediately because it wasn't as bad as she thought it was going to be making her laugh and believe that chad is funny.
this is a cool method right? but if you are evil you can make a girl obsessed and never want to leave you
Tone manipulation doesn't only involve delayed response it involves lowering your tone to a deeper serious one.
Let's say chad and stacy are arguing and once she goes silent chad can say
"stacy...i remember when i use to love you" in a serious, slow and deep tone this will fucking destroy the bitch and make her feel like she did something wrong. Again only use it in those type of situations if you are EVIL.
3. Have No Filter
Don't have a filter NIGGAS, a filter is like a mask, you can't wear it around girls because they have death anxiety (THEY HAVE TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE)
Most men agree with everything women say. Stand out by disagreeing frequently (around 70%) because:
Men and women think differently
Disagreement creates emotional spikes (the "rollercoaster" effect)
It distinguishes you from other guys (MAKES YOU UNIQUE)
REMEMBER BEING OFFENSIVE IS RECOVERABLE BUT BEING FORGOTTEN IS FATAL
Only escalate physically if she started touching first. Think of it as stairs:
Start small (arm touch, hand holding)
If she reciprocates (good response), escalate further
If she accepts but doesn't reciprocate (neutral), continue at that level
If she pulls back (bad response), retreat, build comfort, try again later
ALSO DONT CARE ABOUT THE WEIRDO PARADOX
You're only a weirdo if you push something too far and you don't know that you've pushed it too far
Weird/Creepy: Pushing boundaries + being oblivious to her discomfort + persisting after you see she's uncomfortable
Confident/No Filter: Pushing boundaries + being fully aware of her reactions + adjusting your "GAME/RIZZ" in real time
Should I make a part 2 which will include the following method Direct and Dismissive (DAD), When to break Touch Barrier, and How to set up dates.
