how to get out of total social isolation at late twenties

[zainab]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

Hobbies

 

[YabadiDabado]

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[Shogun]

Very likely over for you. Just look at middle aged people in your enviromment, like your parents and ask them how they met their friends and most will tell you that they went to the same school/class. There may be an exception here and there but most friends are made during school time.

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Talk to strangers, unironically. In the train/bus, at a concert or in places where u get to be with others even for a short amount of time, say something nice like a compliment (it has to be something specific they got tho, like a tattoo maybe or a weird hairstyle) and ask them questions about them to show u care, but not too personal questions. Then just try to introduce yourself and get to know the other person better

Spoiler: Spolier

Dont do this shit its a terrible advice

What do you think this is, 1985?

 

[0kami123]

Have sex

 

[mogger123]

real answer is get a job where people of a similar age will be starting brand new at the same time as you

 

[humanoidsub7]

real answer is get a job where people of a similar age will be starting brand new at the same time as you

If you're not Chad you're going to be called a creep. It's essential, become chad and do whatever you want and it will work

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

talk to every person out there until you lose your fear and become low inhib

 

[Splinter901]

Impossible after high school (it could be possible in college but not the college I went to) every other place I went to it just wasn't something that seemed possible, maybe in the correct job under the right circumstances you could (something like soft eng, if you graduate in mech eng you will be surrounded by +55yo when you graduate).

@_MVP_ not only is it impossible to make money but also impossible to make friends outside of school.

 

[Part-Time Chad]

cognitive behavioural therapy and improving your looks, i had the most social anxiety when i looked bad, improving your looks leads to better positive feedback cycles, your brain turns less incel after a while

He doesn't need cognitive behavioral therapy; he just need good looks. Like you said, it will result in a positive feedback loop, and cause him to change his behavior naturally. Cognitive behavioral therapy is just reinterpreting reality, and trying to brainwash yourself to feel good when you have every reason to feel bad. In other words, it's brainwashing you to be delusional.