how to get over a foid?

[adi.mike]

Steps to Cure Oneitis

After struggling for years with a former oneitis, and most recently been infatuated with another female online, I have developed a method to stop the intense feelings and constant thought patterns associated with this. __________________________________________________ Step 1. Understand...

incels.is

step 1 i see 0 negatives in her and she is litterly perfect. step 2 i dont wanna unfollow her on insta or remove her on snap bc i still think i have a chance, might be delusional but ig we will see.i get my dopamine elsewhere but she still is in my mind during it, litterly the whole time, when im at the gym when i go on walks, both with our without music im still thinking abt her.

 

[adi.mike]

its gonna take time man just distance yourself from her and just go on about your day it will just take time but its gonna get less and less till you forget about her

everytime it feels close it just comes back again, any little sign, like if i someone in public with a girl i think of her, when a certain song comes up on my playlist it reminds me of her, when its a thing that she used to do it reminds me off her, i actualy cannot go hours without thinking of her ik i sound stupid and fucked up but thats why im asking for help my mind is actually fried

 

[Multivitaminsaft6]

everytime it feels close it just comes back again, any little sign, like if i someone in public with a girl i think of her, when a certain song comes up on my playlist it reminds me of her, when its a thing that she used to do it reminds me off her, i actualy cannot go hours without thinking of her ik i sound stupid and fucked up but thats why im asking for help my mind is actually fried

we all been there well actually maybe not on here but ive been there your still inlove and there really is not much you can do just spend time with your friends and distract yourself whenever she pops up in your mind

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

we were never rlly serious

I liked her for 3 years, she liked me back wihtin that time but i didnt know of it

'never rlly serious' for me is something you say abt a bitch youre slaying but isnt commited to a LTR

not that sheeeit

 

[cannibaloid]

maybe she isnt interested, last thing she said was she doesnt have time to speak to anyone which ig is true and she does alot of things but idk. what else can i do

Delete her and move on easier said than done but what else is there to do if she’s not interested in taking time out of her day to write you back… What does she do anyways to say that she doesn’t have time?

 

[adi.mike]

we all been there well actually maybe not on here but ive been there your still inlove and there really is not much you can do just spend time with your friends and distract yourself whenever she pops up in your mind

i mean yeah ill try, i cant sleep bc ik ima have a dream abt her and ima be depressed for thr whole day

 

[Donnie Darko333]

we were never rlly serious and we stopped talking abt a month ago. I liked her for 3 years, she liked me back wihtin that time but i didnt know of it. I still like her but shes leaving me on delivered. I stopped talking to her and thinking abt her but now every single day i get dreams and shes in them. and it just ruins my whole mood for the day. destroys my motivation makes me feel depressed and lost. how can i ACTUALLY get over a girl instead of just "stop thinking abt her" because its not working.

Crying over an slut

 

[adi.mike]

Delete her and move on easier said than done but what else is there to do if she’s not interested in taking time out of her day to write you back… What does she do anyways to say that she doesn’t have time?

dancing goes gym studies and is preparing for this camping thing as a qualification.

 

[adi.mike]

Crying over an slut

if u never be through it dont comment on it u dont know how it is

 

[cannibaloid]

we all been there well actually maybe not on here but ive been there your still inlove and there really is not much you can do just spend time with your friends and distract yourself whenever she pops up in your mind

dancing goes gym studies and is preparing for this camping thing as a qualification.

dancing goes gym studies and is preparing for this camping thing as a qualification.

Wow you have to be severely deluded if you genuinely believe she can’t find time to text people. I do art projects and spend 4-6 weeks on a piece whilst still going to school, gym and the climbing gym. Oddly enough i still manage to be on my phone near the end of the day . It’s this simple; she does not want to text you. Stop cucking yourself out believing in a woman’s lies. And i think in order to get over that is just to actually realize that weird and nasty behavior. And if ur not low iq soon enough you’ll realize how weird and scum people actually are, especially women.

 

[adi.mike]

Wow you have to be severely deluded if you genuinely believe she can’t find time to text people. I do art projects and spend 4-6 weeks on a piece whilst still going to school, gym and the climbing gym. Oddly enough i still manage to be on my phone near the end of the day . It’s this simple; she does not want to text you. Stop cucking yourself out believing in a woman’s lies. And i think in order to get over that it’s just to actually realize that weird and nasty behavior. And if ur not low iq soon enough you’ll realize how weird and scum people actually are, especially women.

yeah well thats a different problem it aint abt me texing her anymore i js wanna stop thinking abt her bc she might not want me which doesnt make sense at all icl bc she used to like me when i was ugly asf and now she doesnt. idk i js waanna stop thinking abt her but its hard

 

[cannibaloid]

if u never be through it dont comment on it u dont know how it is

yeah well thats a different problem it aint abt me texing her anymore i js wanna stop thinking abt her bc she might not want me which doesnt make sense at all icl bc she used to like me when i was ugly asf and now she doesnt. idk i js waanna stop thinking abt her but its hard

yeah well thats a different problem it aint abt me texing her anymore i js wanna stop thinking abt her bc she might not want me which doesnt make sense at all icl bc she used to like me when i was ugly asf and now she doesnt. idk i js waanna stop thinking abt her but its hard

A good step right now is to delete her on everything to mentally disconnect yourself. Don’t fight your thoughts, accept them and the emotion attached to it and just let them flow. But stop questioning them, and stop looking for an answer that you will not find. Sometimes it’s best to simplify your decisions instead of looking too deep into it.

 

[KazeMG]

we were never rlly serious and we stopped talking abt a month ago. I liked her for 3 years, she liked me back wihtin that time but i didnt know of it. I still like her but shes leaving me on delivered. I stopped talking to her and thinking abt her but now every single day i get dreams and shes in them. and it just ruins my whole mood for the day. destroys my motivation makes me feel depressed and lost. how can i ACTUALLY get over a girl instead of just "stop thinking abt her" because its not working.

Only solution is to focus on other things and over time the thoughts will slow down may not be gone forever I feel you I’ve been through something kinda similar

 

[adi.mike]

A good step right now is to delete her on everything to mentally disconnect yourself. Don’t fight your thoughts, accept them and the emotion attached to it and just let them flow. But stop questioning them, and stop looking for an answer that you will not find. Sometimes it’s best to simplify your decisions instead of looking too deep into it.

alr ill try my best ty bro

 

[adi.mike]

Only solution is to focus on other things and over time the thoughts will slow down may not be gone forever I feel you I’ve been through something kinda similar

focusing on other things hasnt been working muchfor me rn but ima keep trying ty.

 

[KazeMG]

litterly impossible. i speak to my friends i think abt her, i go to the gym i think abt her especially the music i listen to makes me depressed and makes me think abt her. i train with no music then im not distracted and im thinking abt her. i go on a walk with or without music im still thinking abt her bc im not distracted.

Gonna a hard few months or year(s) depending how much she meant to you that’s just how it’s gonna be really