how to get over a oneitis?

[alurmo]

i feel like a creep just staring at her, I feel like shes one day gonna call me out on it then lash out saying smt like shes not interested or that shes taken(which she prob is ffs)

I dont want to suffer through this anymore, she literally has me on a leash and whatev she does to say to me I will prob do, I don't need to feel like a cuck in my life

any tips?

 

[FutureSlayer]

you will not follow any of our tips, it’s like being high and addicted to a drug.
You will eventually either get bored or go er

 

[alurmo]

you will not follow any of our tips, it’s like being high and addicted to a drug.
You will eventually either get bored or go er

so its really just a matter of time
i randomly just got attracted to her a couple months ago but it feels like Ive been tortured for a year

i srs don't need this obsession

 

[FutureSlayer]

so its really just a matter of time
i randomly just got attracted to her a couple months ago but it feels like Ive been tortured for a year

i srs don't need this obsession

Yes I’m kinda still down after like 2 years but getting better

 

[Deleted member 42490]

i feel like a creep just staring at her, I feel like shes one day gonna call me out on it then lash out saying smt like shes not interested or that shes taken(which she prob is ffs)

I dont want to suffer through this anymore, she literally has me on a leash and whatev she does to say to me I will prob do, I don't need to feel like a cuck in my life

any tips?

find out if she sucked dick or got pounded before, instantly disgusts me

 

[Deleted member 42490]

Also ask her out on a date, the feeling will not go away until she rejects you or goes with you

 

[alurmo]

Also ask her out on a date, the feeling will not go away until she rejects you or goes with you

too high inhib

 

[Deleted member 89730]

she wanted me first, i'm just socially inept an didn't know till 2 weeks ago.

Op just go for it bro.

 

[FutureSlayer]

she wanted me first, i'm just socially inept an didn't know till 2 weeks ago.

Op just go for it bro.

cope females get what they want asap cause they know it always work.
She didn’t want you enough

 

[Deleted member 42490]

too high inhib

do it pussy, i had the same problem and asking them out fixes it happened to me a couple of time already.Yeah, I got rejected like twice but the third girl i bagged. If you don't start asking them out now you will never be low inhib enough to do it later.

And next time as soon as you notice attraction ask her out, never confess your feelings just ask her out.

Better than living as mental slave. You will lose her eventually anyways but if you don't ask her you will lose your mind in the process.

 

[Deleted member 42490]

cope females get what they want asap cause they know it always work.
She didn’t want you enough

Depends on what girl, if its a hoe then yea. But I've noticed the quieter more insecure girls don't show it as much and they want you to make the first move even for just flirting. They still like you.

 

[Deleted member 89730]

cope females get what they want asap cause they know it always work.
She didn’t want you enough

I ignored her due to not knowing her intentions bc of paranoia, so maybe u are right but i don't blame her for stopping herself.

 

[FutureSlayer]

Depends on what girl, if its a hoe then yea. But I've noticed the quieter more insecure girls don't show it as much and they want you to make the first move even for just flirting. They still like you.

No, AWALT

 

[Deleted member 42490]

I ignored her due to not knowing her intentions bc of paranoia, so maybe u are right but i don't blame her for stopping herself.

ask her out its not to late, never confess feelings though first just take her out

 

[Deleted member 42490]

No, AWALT

In my experience this is not true, i even seek out these types of women because they actually do truly like you.

Believe it or not some women are just to insecure, my last gf told me the reason why she didn't make it obvious was because she felt like she didn't feel like she was good enough for a relationship, she was hot to just mentally caged. Best relationship I ever had, I just had to move away.

Also she never had a BF before.

 

[Deleted member 64864]

Do you just look at her and never talk?

 

[alurmo]

Do you just look at her and never talk?

yep

 

[Deleted member 72551]

yep

How tall are you again

 

[Deleted member 64864]

yep

why

 

[alurmo]

How tall are you again

5'7
i fraud to 5'8 most of the time tho with lifts

 

[alurmo]

why

bc of high inhib and anxiety
plus I'm ugly

 

[Deleted member 64864]

bc of high inhib and anxiety
plus I'm ugly

just try to forget about her then if she doesnt give you IOI when you look at her