How to get REAL CLOSE friends

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

i have lots of good aquaintances but no real good friends like im cool w ppl but none see me as their close friend like i never get invited anywhere ,how do i fix it?

 

[lilxder2]

Just meet them more often and do deeptalks with them, show your true personality aka do all the shit that you shouldnt do with women

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

Just meet them more often and do deeptalks with them, show your true personality aka do all the shit that you shouldnt do with women

ty bro ill use it

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

Just meet them more often and do deeptalks with them, show your true personality aka do all the shit that you shouldnt do with women

any deeptalk convo starters examples?

 

[wsada]

I got 3 and all I can say is hang out more brah!!

 

[lilxder2]

any deeptalk convo starters examples?

I think its hard to force them tbh like it depends on the situation, usually it just happens naturally after a night out when ur like a bit drunk

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Forming strong friendships should be as natural as breathing, but it seems like they've taken that away from us. By placing us in giant groups and calling it modernity, they've built the opposite effect. Everyone is surrounded by absolute strangers, situational friends or whatever you want to call it. Almost anything you try to do might be a temporary solution, but the real issue is structural.

 

[NationalWarrior]

Forming strong friendships should be as natural as breathing, but it seems like they've taken that away from us. By placing us in giant groups and calling it modernity, they've built the opposite effect. Everyone is surrounded by absolute strangers, situational friends or however you want to call it. Almost anything you try to do might be a temporary solution, but the real issue is structural.

We are surrounded by people but feel more alone than in real solitude.

I can't relate to much people, too centered in the mundane and the low life.

 

[Deleted member 28927]

We are surrounded by people but feel more alone than in real solitude.

I can't relate to much people, too centered in the mundane and the low life.

In real solitude at least brain wouldn't be on constant overstimulation like ours is right now.