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- HOW TO GET THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAM IN LESS THAN A WEEK -
mimic mechanism and comprehension of personality drivers.
[ YES ! ]
today we will discuss how to use your analyzing skills to get absolutely any girl you want.
Disclaimer :- this guide does not work if you're a sub 5 or less.
- this guide is made on my own experience as a lmtn who has never been rejected.
I - where to start
• first of all you need to understand that the dating mechanism has drastically changed from twenty years ago. Most of the relationships are created on an equilibrium IRL / social media
50% of teens have let someone know they were interested in them romantically by friending them on Facebook or another social media site, while 47% have expressed their attraction by liking, commenting on, or otherwise interacting with that person on social media.
• And if you understand how we can use online interactions, we understand that the dating mechanism transformations are actually really helpful.
I - where to start
• Understanding that relationships today are based on this equilibrium, why don't we use social media as a key to initiating romantic interactions ?
A) Finding socials
• the first thing that you will need to get is logic : find their socials.
• there are two cases :
A - you already know them and you naturally have them on TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat etc...
B - you don't know them or you aren't close enough to have them on socials.
A) Finding socials
if you are in case A you can skip this slide ->
• If you don't know them ( don't know their names, class group etc... ), you can use multiple ways to find them.
here are some keys that can be helpful :
- girls usually know themselves, ask your female friends if they know them ( use an excuse to not get caught )
- Social media platforms like Instagram allow you to reach someone through a chain of mutual connections: A → B → C → Z.
Important : be aware that being added by someone you don't know can appear strange. - use the golden opportunity : school event, functions etc...
B) Analysis of personality traits
• Now that you have their socials, we can dive deeper into our topic: personality drivers.
• to all of our iqlets reading this, you need to understand that looks aren't everything, that's why you usually see LTN guys with MTB + girls and vice versa.
• A global study of over 218,000 people across 53 countries found that women placed greater importance on honesty, humor, kindness and dependability than men, while men placed greater importance on physical attractiveness. (PubMed) hypergamy is not just one-sided JFL.
• A 2023 study of 274 people examined 153 characteristics of partner compatibility. Participants identified 24 major dimensions of compatibility, including lifestyle, opinions, morals, family, leisure, empathy and appearance. Similarity was considered more important by women than by men, particularly in serious relationships. (Recherche Unipd)
I’m not saying women dont care about looks, we are living in the worst dating market that has ever been created, and they are in fact actually hyper selective, but we can beat the system with other ways than just looks.
B) Analysis of personality traits
Now that you've gained 20 IQ points from the previous slide, how can we actually use this information to our advantage ?
B) Analysis of personality traits
- TikTok -
• TikTok is literally the best way to analyze what a person really likes, supports, does not like, searches for etc...
And the best instrument is the repost function.
• 76.97/100 — average level of TikTok Repost use among women aged 18–20 in a 2026 study.
The study found that reposting was used not only to share content, but also for emotional expression, self-presentation and indirect communication. (Zenodo)
B) Analysis of personality traits
- TikTok -
While looking through reposts, I look for a few key pieces of information:
• What kind of music does she listen to?
• What are her passions and interests? (sports, art, etc.)
• What shows or movies does she have a strong connection with?
• What is her personality like? Is she more introverted or extroverted? What kind of relationship is she looking for ? What values are important to her ?
• Her ambitions and goals → Her studies, career plans, and future projects.
• Her communication style → Is she expressive, reserved, romantic, sarcastic, etc.?
• What is her sense of humor like? Is she more sarcastic, absurd, dark, etc.?
• What topics are sensitive for her? (To avoid saying something inappropriate or causing an awkward situation during a conversation.)
• Her lifestyle → Does she prefer parties, quiet evenings, sports, traveling, etc.?
• Her social circle → What kind of people does she like and who does she seem close to?
C) First interaction
- Case B -
if you are case A you can skip
Now that you understand her personality traits, we can initiate our first interaction, and we will develop this part through different strategies.
C) First interaction
- Self-validation
People naturally seek social validation and confirmation of their identity. When someone shares a song on their Instagram Note, they are revealing a small part of their personality and interests. Reacting positively to it can therefore validate that aspect of their identity and make the interaction feel rewarding.
C) First interaction
- Perceived similarity
Similarity can create attraction and a sense of shared reality, feeling that two people see the world in a similar way. Research involving 2,290 participants across four experimental studies found that perceived similarity can increase both shared reality and interpersonal attraction.
C) First interaction
- Behavioral mimicry
People also tend to unconsciously mirror the behavior and interests of others. For example, if she posts a song she likes, I could later post a similar song. This can create a subtle signal of commonality: "We like the same things."
C) First interaction
- From information to interaction
This is where Instagram Notes or stories become particularly interesting. They allow us to discover someone's interests and personality without directly questioning them.
Her Note → My reaction → Validation → Similarity → Potential reciprocity → Conversation
Q.E.D
Instead of starting a conversation randomly, we can use information she has voluntarily shared to create a natural and personalized first interaction.
Validation → Similarity → Connection
C) First interaction
example :
- using Instagram Notes combined with TikTok research -
situation : she posts a Daniel Caesar song.
your potential strategies :
A : like her note
B : react to her note, give her validation, engage conversation on the music topic and let the conversation flow.
A' : after liking her note, you can post a Daniel Caesar song ( not mainstream, try to be different ) and wait for a potential reaction.
B' : thanks to your repost research, post a note ( ex : Evergreen, Amar Apollo ) about an artist she loves, it will create a confirmation bias that you are the one.
C) First interaction
- maintain interest -
now we can use TikTok again, after this first interaction we can now deploy the trap a bit larger :
• step 1 : try to repost the same kind of TikToks on your account.
• step 2 : wait one or two days
• step 3 : go on her account, like one of her reposts, she will get the notification that you liked her repost.
• step 4 : she will go check your reposts and guess what ? You are the MALE version of her, isn't it crazy ?
D) Desire and love through psychology
This is for people concerned by case A and case B
Love and desire are not created solely through physical appearance or sexual attraction. They can also develop through different layers of psychological connection.
D) Desire and love through psychology
1 : how to make someone deeply obsessed with you
Okay so now that you've had your first interaction, your first conversations, and now that she's actually potentially interested in you, you can now finish the work.
Disclaimer : If you truly love this person, you might not want to use those strategies.D) Desire and love through psychology
1 : how to make someone deeply obsessed with you
• You need to listen to that person, not what she's externally signaling, but what she wants you to tell her on the inside.
ex : she tells you that she loves creating, wearing original clothing etc...
translation : she craves to be different and to be really seen.
D) Desire and love through psychology
• now that you understand that, once you see the real signal you become selective with validation.
do NOT feed it when she's performing for the table
Feed it when the attention is on YOU.
example : when she turns toward you, still talking about her, say :
" It's crazy, you are so different from the rest of them, I've never seen someone like you"
D) Desire and love through psychology
• when you start using this, you are not only someone who just shows interest in her.
You are actually someone who sees the version of herself she's trying to reach.
For now, your presence is a need, working as a regulation and your absence
feels like something is missing.
D) Desire and love through psychology
2 : how to really talk to someone.
Most people think that to seduce someone you need to be yourself and to create a mutual and natural conversation.
They are wrong.
D) Desire and love through psychology
• The Paradox of Conversation
When we want to attract someone, we often think that the key is to show them how interesting we are. We talk about our experiences, our passions and our personality in order to make a good impression.
However, psychological research suggests a surprising paradox: one of the most effective ways to become more likable is to make the other person feel interesting.
People have a strong intrinsic motivation to talk about themselves. Research by Tamir and Mitchell found that self-disclosure activates brain regions associated with reward, and estimated that around 30–40% of everyday speech is devoted to communicating our own experiences. (PubMed Central (PMC))
D) Desire and love through psychology
• you need to adapt to the way she's talking, use punctuation, emojis etc... let me be more precise, you not only need to adapt, you need to absolutely mimic the way the person talks.
• you need to give her the feeling that she's talking to the male version of herself, and while falling in love with herself, she will actually fall in love with you.
D) Desire and love through psychology
you also need to go deep into conversations, stop asking random questions, topic after topic.
Instead, go deeper into one topic she seems passionate about.
example : if she tells you that she has loved reading since she was a child, say :
- "that's so cool, what are your favorite books ?"
- "Do you have any recommendations ?"
- "what's your favorite genre ?"
E) Online into real-life
Now that you have completed your mission online, you need to turn this online connection into a real-life one.
but how to convince someone to actually meet you ?
E) Online into real-life
• You're going to hand them two or more options subtly, both must lead where you want and one has to feel slightly better.
• but instead of just asking randomly, inject the questions subtly, calmly in a normal conversation.
• make sure not to ask for it, rather embedding a command.
E) Online into real-life
example : she's telling you about a night out with her friends, and mentions wanting to show you pictures
" that sounds so cool, show me when we see each other later today/ tomorrow/etc... by the way did you know about " X "
Now, the rest is up to you.
