darkness97
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this may come off as a gay post, but felt more like an epiphany to me the other day.
If you want a good girlfriend which is a drafting period for a wife. you first need to become a good husband.
and to become a good husband you have to become a better person.
and being a better person entails being a good son. being a good student, being a good worker, being a good brother, being a good friend, and being a good roommate.
if you can satisfy all of these domains of your relationships you will become a husband worthy of a wife. one of the reasons why i am really insecure is not just because of my face. but because how my life is generally. i don't have good relationships with people, i am a mess at work and school, and deep down i feel like i have nothing to offer. Sites like these try to bash women in their entirety, and it comes off as women hating. but people who come across this miss the nuance of it all.
Every user here longs for a relationship and intimacy. more than your average man. that's why men don't identify as incels because they don't feel like it's bad to not be getting laid. they feel that its normal and are unaffected by it. but for people like us, it deeply wounds us.
Its to the point where we put women on this insane pedestal and are only concerned by what women want, and how to get there. Guys literally derive worth in themselves just because women like them. this is what you would call a brag post.
There is nothing really wrong with this, all it means is that we are more relationship focused and we are unfulfilled. there are guys here who are plenty good looking enough for women, but they internally believe that they are just not good enough. normies/shortfags/lanklets/ethnics who do slay do believe their good enough and that is enough for women to spread their legs. we judge women only on their appearance which is why when we see assholes dating hot girls, we never actually question if the girl is actually an asshole or a bum as well.
the answer i have come to to solve this is to make the simple accomplishments of being a good person and maintain great relationships. you relationship with your wife is then the ultimate test. if you can make your coworkers/friends/family love and respect you than you are ready for the final test.
I could go on all day about this but i hope you get the gist.
I know deep down, all i want in this life is a wife and a family to come home to. That's literally all i care about. Because i have finally admitted this to myself, every action i do will be devoted to making this happen. instead of me searching for the way on this site. i have been on these sites for many years and this is what i have come to. this is hopefully the last post i will make.
thank you for reading.
@Scammer
If you want a good girlfriend which is a drafting period for a wife. you first need to become a good husband.
and to become a good husband you have to become a better person.
and being a better person entails being a good son. being a good student, being a good worker, being a good brother, being a good friend, and being a good roommate.
if you can satisfy all of these domains of your relationships you will become a husband worthy of a wife. one of the reasons why i am really insecure is not just because of my face. but because how my life is generally. i don't have good relationships with people, i am a mess at work and school, and deep down i feel like i have nothing to offer. Sites like these try to bash women in their entirety, and it comes off as women hating. but people who come across this miss the nuance of it all.
Every user here longs for a relationship and intimacy. more than your average man. that's why men don't identify as incels because they don't feel like it's bad to not be getting laid. they feel that its normal and are unaffected by it. but for people like us, it deeply wounds us.
Its to the point where we put women on this insane pedestal and are only concerned by what women want, and how to get there. Guys literally derive worth in themselves just because women like them. this is what you would call a brag post.
There is nothing really wrong with this, all it means is that we are more relationship focused and we are unfulfilled. there are guys here who are plenty good looking enough for women, but they internally believe that they are just not good enough. normies/shortfags/lanklets/ethnics who do slay do believe their good enough and that is enough for women to spread their legs. we judge women only on their appearance which is why when we see assholes dating hot girls, we never actually question if the girl is actually an asshole or a bum as well.
the answer i have come to to solve this is to make the simple accomplishments of being a good person and maintain great relationships. you relationship with your wife is then the ultimate test. if you can make your coworkers/friends/family love and respect you than you are ready for the final test.
I could go on all day about this but i hope you get the gist.
I know deep down, all i want in this life is a wife and a family to come home to. That's literally all i care about. Because i have finally admitted this to myself, every action i do will be devoted to making this happen. instead of me searching for the way on this site. i have been on these sites for many years and this is what i have come to. this is hopefully the last post i will make.
thank you for reading.
@Scammer
