How to go to more parties NT people GTFIH

[damiki]

In short I'm 16 and all the sex havers for my age are out partying and drinking everyday especially since its summer and im from a balkan country its a normal thing.

I have been to a few parties/just drinking but its mainly special occasions + most foids my age post an ig story of them in a club every weekend. Since my close friends are just boys and most of them are against partying because oNlY WhOrEs PaRtY and 2 of them think we are too young I tried getting closer to people my age who party and succeeded being friends with them but we never got that close to the point where they called me with them. I don't want to ditch my current friend group because Im scared I wont succeed in getting in another group and wont have any friends. I have been working on transforming and making my current friend group more nt but its hard.

I know this is the wrong place to ask but I tried almost everything and asking incels is my last resort.

jusy trying to ascend my social skills

 

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Yo I am extremely private person and I am 90% of the time in my home, I am also self-employed so virtually. I do this because I love it, I enjoy my alone time more than anything else. But I have access to the best travel plans and parties because of my friends. Especially this one friend that is extremely extroverted, he is also an entrepreneur and does 100k a month so these are the best parties. We are very good friends and I can every weekend to a party or social gathering if I wanted.

In conclusion, make friends with one very very outgoing person

Edit:

Ditch your friend group, you have to make room for other ppl in your life. You have to be commited. You are young best to take care of it now or it will haunt you later when you age and it is more difficult to make friends. You got to put in some effort and be a ruthless mofo

 

[spongebob]

All you need is 1 friend to join you to a party. And then talk to everyone. Eventually you'll expand your circle and u can leave your old one behind.

 

[MadTwatter]

In short I'm 16 and all the sex havers for my age are out partying and drinking everyday especially since its summer and im from a balkan country its a normal thing.

I have been to a few parties/just drinking but its mainly special occasions + most foids my age post an ig story of them in a club every weekend. Since my close friends are just boys and most of them are against partying because oNlY WhOrEs PaRtY and 2 of them think we are too young I tried getting closer to people my age who party and succeeded being friends with them but we never got that close to the point where they called me with them. I don't want to ditch my current friend group because Im scared I wont succeed in getting in another group and wont have any friends. I have been working on transforming and making my current friend group more nt but its hard.

I know this is the wrong place to ask but I tried almost everything and asking incels is my last resort.

jusy trying to ascend my social skills

1. Find out who normally arranges these things.
2. Smile
3. Be engaging and ask the other person questions about themselves
4. If you’re in school, sit with them at lunch
5. Give them a genuine compliment
6. Ask them about what their plans are for the weekend and see if you can find a way to get yourself invited. A good way to guilt bait them is by revealing something depressing about yourself like “my mom just died”

For socialising the golden rule is: everyone is friendly but you have to go first.

 

[damiki]

Yo I am extremely private person and I am 90% of the time in my home, I am also self-employed so virtually. I do this because I love it, I enjoy my alone time more than anything else. But I have access to the best travel plans and parties because of my friends. Especially this one friend that is extremely extroverted, he is also an entrepreneur and does 100k a month so these are the best parties. We are very good friends and I can every weekend to a party or social gathering if I wanted.

In conclusion, make friends with one very very outgoing person

Edit:

Ditch your friend group, you have to make room for other ppl in your life. You have to be commited. You are young best to take care of it now or it will haunt you later when you age and it is more difficult to make friends. You got to put in some effort and be a ruthless mofo

Thank you
I have one very outgoing friend in highschool that is basically what you described but just 16y/o and we had plans to go to parties together and stuff but the problem is he is from another city and is only in my city because of sport so he basically parties every weekend when he goes back to his hometown. I will try to go more from just school friends to hanging out outside school more in the second year

 

[damiki]

All you need is 1 friend to join you to a party. And then talk to everyone. Eventually you'll expand your circle and u can leave your old one behind.

basically what I did for the few parties I was on but I never was invited multiple times it was just a one time thing idk how to explain

 

[damiki]

1. Find out who normally arranges these things.
2. Smile
3. Be engaging and ask the other person questions about themselves
4. If you’re in school, sit with them at lunch
5. Give them a genuine compliment
6. Ask them about what their plans are for the weekend and see if you can find a way to get yourself invited. A good way to guilt bait them is by revealing something depressing about yourself like “my mom just died”

For socialising the golden rule is: everyone is friendly but you have to go first.

In school i am basically only hanging out with 4 people that go out and party and we hangout together all day in school but its that connection out of school that I lack

 

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Thank you
I have one very outgoing friend in highschool that is basically what you described but just 16y/o and we had plans to go to parties together and stuff but the problem is he is from another city and is only in my city because of sport so he basically parties every weekend when he goes back to his hometown. I will try to go more from just school friends to hanging out outside school more in the second year

Capitalize on that friend if commute is not too long it is worth it

 

[spongebob]

basically what I did for the few parties I was on but I never was invited multiple times it was just a one time thing idk how to explain

I mixed with some internationals and every time I was invited by some girl.
Another strategy is to just befriend some guy for like a hobby you both benefit like gym.
Try to find something you can both enjoy like maybe an upcoming festival or rave.
Just pretend you like something they like.
Numbers game bro