How to hide your face?

[Andremln]

title (without looking too aspie)

I am getting DJS next year but i will still need to get a couple of Implants done, until then i truly would like to be as invisible as possible looks wise for a variety of reasons, most important ones are obviously because i am insecure about my face and also because once i get surgery i will just tell people i lost bodyfat, so id like to hide my face as much as possible

Fuck should i do, wear a hat? grow my hair longer? both?

 

[halftime]

Get a beard

 

[Joeseminate]

Going into my local shop with a hat sunglasses on and a mask on to hide my face

 

[Andremln]

Get a beard

I can't even grow one, only a stache and i am 19

 

[halftime]

I can't even grow one, only a stache and i am 19

Just use tret + minoxidil and dermaroll. Or try oral minoxidil

 

[halftime]

And trust me, people end up accepting whatever excuse you throw at them. So you can say that you lost weight or “grew” into your features, they’ll leave it at that

 

[Andremln]

Just use tret + minoxidil and dermaroll. Or try oral minoxidil

might give it a shot since i already wanted to try minoxidil to boost my eyebrows, currently the only things i am proud of myself looks wise are my eyebrows, browridge and body, but my maxilla is legit deformed tier, downgrown and recessed, mandible is just bad but not vomitive tier id say

 

[Andremln]

And trust me, people end up accepting whatever excuse you throw at them. So you can say that you lost weight or “grew” into your features, they’ll leave it at that

i would say even saying you did mewing could work with how mainstream it wen jfl

 

[sln]

Not that many people are seriously going to look at you or even care enough to remember you. If you are pretty much daily traffic (under htn) people won't think twice seeing you in public.

 

[BR32]

Not that many people are seriously going to look at you or even care enough to remember you. If you are pretty much daily traffic (under htn) people won't think twice seeing you in public.

I only really notice people who are truly subhuman in a negative way.

One time I was on the subway tripping balls on shrooms and I saw the most subhuman person I'd seen in my life and I legit thought they were a different species. I started at bro for 15 minutes straight.

 

[halftime]

might give it a shot since i already wanted to try minoxidil to boost my eyebrows, currently the only things i am proud of myself looks wise are my eyebrows, browridge and body, but my maxilla is legit deformed tier, downgrown and recessed, mandible is just bad but not vomitive tier id say

Gl

 

[Andremln]

Not that many people are seriously going to look at you or even care enough to remember you. If you are pretty much daily traffic (under htn) people won't think twice seeing you in public.

its more for college tbh, as of now i am going to an only math academy to gain a strong foundational level of it because next year ill get into applied math, most people here are dudes and they want to get into computer engineering so as you could guess, lots of obese guys, and in my workplace its just 40yo dudes and they're blue collar so as long as you look masculine they don't bully you or anything, i've been chilling because of this but i hated school because of how ugly i was and i will hate college again, id rather be invisible until getting surgery so i am not in a hurry with the tips or recommendations, i suffer from social anxiety tbh, not diagnosed by a pro but when i get in a room with people my age i start biting my nails, kicking my feet, blood pressure goes up, i get stiff, etc. and i can't focus on daily academic tasks because of that, its weird because that feeling is cyclical, sometimes i feel very low inhib and couldn't give a fuck about my environment, next day i wake up super self consciouss and wanting to kill myself because of how fucking ugly i am

 

[sln]

I only really notice people who are truly subhuman in a negative way.

One time I was on the subway tripping balls on shrooms and I saw the most subhuman person I'd seen in my life and I legit thought they were a different species. I started at bro for 15 minutes straight.

Holy shit

 

[NinjaRG9]

If you have no friends no one is gonna notice bro

 

[Rick_bozo]

Hoodie + mask
Or be 5,5 ft

 

[sln]

its more for college tbh, as of now i am going to an only math academy to gain a strong foundational level of it because next year ill get into applied math, most people here are dudes and they want to get into computer engineering so as you could guess, lots of obese guys, and in my workplace its just 40yo dudes and they're blue collar so as long as you look masculine they don't bully you or anything, i've been chilling because of this but i hated school because of how ugly i was and i will hate college again, id rather be invisible until getting surgery so i am not in a hurry with the tips or recommendations, i suffer from social anxiety tbh, not diagnosed by a pro but when i get in a room with people my age i start biting my nails, kicking my feet, blood pressure goes up, i get stiff, etc. and i can't focus on daily academic tasks because of that, its weird because that feeling is cyclical, sometimes i feel very low inhib and couldn't give a fuck about my environment, next day i wake up super self consciouss and wanting to kill myself because of how fucking ugly i am

Nah man I feel you, I also have horrid anxiety and it was very hard to get to the point I'm at right now. I'm just saying unless you ask somebody to recall seeing you, they most likely will never even think about you. Also if they do recall what you looked like before surgery, they'll just think to themselves "oh this previously normal-looking guy is chad now. nice." and treat you as such. Also try propranolol if you haven't already, its a lifesaver.

 

[jw.qsg]

title (without looking too aspie)

I am getting DJS next year but i will still need to get a couple of Implants done, until then i truly would like to be as invisible as possible looks wise for a variety of reasons, most important ones are obviously because i am insecure about my face and also because once i get surgery i will just tell people i lost bodyfat, so id like to hide my face as much as possible

Fuck should i do, wear a hat? grow my hair longer? both?

mirin dedication, hoodie, beard, grow hair, sunglasses

 

[Genio]

Nah man I feel you, I also have horrid anxiety and it was very hard to get to the point I'm at right now. I'm just saying unless you ask somebody to recall seeing you, they most likely will never even think about you. Also if they do recall what you looked like before surgery, they'll just think to themselves "oh this previously normal-looking guy is chad now. nice." and treat you as such. Also try propranolol if you haven't already, its a lifesaver.

Second that on Propranalol, it's so great, secondhandedly cured my stuttering; My friend's are saying i'm more confident in my speech now

 

[Andremln]

mirin dedication, hoodie, beard, grow hair, sunglasses

unabombermaxxing

 

[Andremln]

Nah man I feel you, I also have horrid anxiety and it was very hard to get to the point I'm at right now. I'm just saying unless you ask somebody to recall seeing you, they most likely will never even think about you. Also if they do recall what you looked like before surgery, they'll just think to themselves "oh this previously normal-looking guy is chad now. nice." and treat you as such. Also try propranolol if you haven't already, its a lifesaver.

Thanks man, even tho the thing we have in common is bad (anxiety), it feels good to know someone is fighting the same problem as you are, and yeah it helps to remember that people don't give a fuck about you unless you're either too good looking, or too ugly.

I used to be on the edge of being neurotypical as a kid, never got diagnosed with autism or anything, just a bit introvert and liked to study a lot, but i played soccer, had many friends, enjoyed to go out, even had a couple of gfs in late elementary

I got homeschooled in middle school, i lost connection with my old friends and moved to another city, then the pandemic hit so 2 years more of being on a asocial state of mind, then i got into a highschool in sophomore year and i was socially lost, plus now looks did matter and i was ugly as fuck, boneless and obese, puberty hit me later that year but the first months were absolute hell, because i was actually subhuman and people did notice me, girls subtly bullied me, you know their type of jokes, "our friend likes you, you should ask her out", that type of stuff

I truly used to enjoy school but because of that experience i got really anxious and avoidant, like if my brain fucking rewired, even skipped school to avoid people, i lost a lot of time for studying because of it and my grades went to the ground, i was on the verge of killing myself until i graduated which was in 2024, couldn't get into college because of shit grades and i stopped studying because of how depressed i was, so i took 2025 and this year to learn as much as possible while working a blue collar job so the financial aspect doesn't get too hard on my parents, but i am scared that once i get into college the same experience of high school repeats, i would definitely kill myself if it happens

 

[ghk.finalboss]

title (without looking too aspie)

I am getting DJS next year but i will still need to get a couple of Implants done, until then i truly would like to be as invisible as possible looks wise for a variety of reasons, most important ones are obviously because i am insecure about my face and also because once i get surgery i will just tell people i lost bodyfat, so id like to hide my face as much as possible

Fuck should i do, wear a hat? grow my hair longer? both?

hat and hoodie method. wear sunglasses if u want too but u will look suspicious

 

[ghk.finalboss]

Second that on Propranalol, it's so great, secondhandedly cured my stuttering; My friend's are saying i'm more confident in my speech now

is there anything else you know about that can help with anxiety?

 

[Obsidian1]

title (without looking too aspie)

I am getting DJS next year but i will still need to get a couple of Implants done, until then i truly would like to be as invisible as possible looks wise for a variety of reasons, most important ones are obviously because i am insecure about my face and also because once i get surgery i will just tell people i lost bodyfat, so id like to hide my face as much as possible

Fuck should i do, wear a hat? grow my hair longer? both?

rope

 

[Obsidian1]

Thanks man, even tho the thing we have in common is bad (anxiety), it feels good to know someone is fighting the same problem as you are, and yeah it helps to remember that people don't give a fuck about you unless you're either too good looking, or too ugly.

I used to be on the edge of being neurotypical as a kid, never got diagnosed with autism or anything, just a bit introvert and liked to study a lot, but i played soccer, had many friends, enjoyed to go out, even had a couple of gfs in late elementary

I got homeschooled in middle school, i lost connection with my old friends and moved to another city, then the pandemic hit so 2 years more of being on a asocial state of mind, then i got into a highschool in sophomore year and i was socially lost, plus now looks did matter and i was ugly as fuck, boneless and obese, puberty hit me later that year but the first months were absolute hell, because i was actually subhuman and people did notice me, girls subtly bullied me, you know their type of jokes, "our friend likes you, you should ask her out", that type of stuff

I truly used to enjoy school but because of that experience i got really anxious and avoidant, like if my brain fucking rewired, even skipped school to avoid people, i lost a lot of time for studying because of it and my grades went to the ground, i was on the verge of killing myself until i graduated which was in 2024, couldn't get into college because of shit grades and i stopped studying because of how depressed i was, so i took 2025 and this year to learn as much as possible while working a blue collar job so the financial aspect doesn't get too hard on my parents, but i am scared that once i get into college the same experience of high school repeats, i would definitely kill myself if it happens

you look good now?

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Wear a shiesty and end up slaying anyways due to thug halo

 

[Andremln]

you look good now?

i don't look boneless nor i am obese anymore, still ugly tho

 

[sln]

Thanks man, even tho the thing we have in common is bad (anxiety), it feels good to know someone is fighting the same problem as you are, and yeah it helps to remember that people don't give a fuck about you unless you're either too good looking, or too ugly.

I used to be on the edge of being neurotypical as a kid, never got diagnosed with autism or anything, just a bit introvert and liked to study a lot, but i played soccer, had many friends, enjoyed to go out, even had a couple of gfs in late elementary

I got homeschooled in middle school, i lost connection with my old friends and moved to another city, then the pandemic hit so 2 years more of being on a asocial state of mind, then i got into a highschool in sophomore year and i was socially lost, plus now looks did matter and i was ugly as fuck, boneless and obese, puberty hit me later that year but the first months were absolute hell, because i was actually subhuman and people did notice me, girls subtly bullied me, you know their type of jokes, "our friend likes you, you should ask her out", that type of stuff

I truly used to enjoy school but because of that experience i got really anxious and avoidant, like if my brain fucking rewired, even skipped school to avoid people, i lost a lot of time for studying because of it and my grades went to the ground, i was on the verge of killing myself until i graduated which was in 2024, couldn't get into college because of shit grades and i stopped studying because of how depressed i was, so i took 2025 and this year to learn as much as possible while working a blue collar job so the financial aspect doesn't get too hard on my parents, but i am scared that once i get into college the same experience of high school repeats, i would definitely kill myself if it happens

Our story is quite similar in some ways. I was always viewed as neurotypical and was quite popular up until middle school. From that point on I became 250lbs and hideous, girls who once enjoyed talking to me only saw me as a creature of sorts. I would be constantly made fun of and my life was horrible so I decided to enroll in online school in 7th grade. Because of this I lost a lot of my friends and even family, along with my social skills and previous NT-like abilities. I’m re-enrolling back into school for my junior year, but I fear it’s too late.

 

[jw.qsg]

Thanks man, even tho the thing we have in common is bad (anxiety), it feels good to know someone is fighting the same problem as you are, and yeah it helps to remember that people don't give a fuck about you unless you're either too good looking, or too ugly.

I used to be on the edge of being neurotypical as a kid, never got diagnosed with autism or anything, just a bit introvert and liked to study a lot, but i played soccer, had many friends, enjoyed to go out, even had a couple of gfs in late elementary

I got homeschooled in middle school, i lost connection with my old friends and moved to another city, then the pandemic hit so 2 years more of being on a asocial state of mind, then i got into a highschool in sophomore year and i was socially lost, plus now looks did matter and i was ugly as fuck, boneless and obese, puberty hit me later that year but the first months were absolute hell, because i was actually subhuman and people did notice me, girls subtly bullied me, you know their type of jokes, "our friend likes you, you should ask her out", that type of stuff

I truly used to enjoy school but because of that experience i got really anxious and avoidant, like if my brain fucking rewired, even skipped school to avoid people, i lost a lot of time for studying because of it and my grades went to the ground, i was on the verge of killing myself until i graduated which was in 2024, couldn't get into college because of shit grades and i stopped studying because of how depressed i was, so i took 2025 and this year to learn as much as possible while working a blue collar job so the financial aspect doesn't get too hard on my parents, but i am scared that once i get into college the same experience of high school repeats, i would definitely kill myself if it happens

im sorry that happened brah, im sure u will do well in college

 

[jw.qsg]

Our story is quite similar in some ways. I was always viewed as neurotypical and was quite popular up until middle school. From that point on I became 250lbs and hideous, girls who once enjoyed talking to me only saw me as a creature of sorts. I would be constantly made fun of and my life was horrible so I decided to enroll in online school in 7th grade. Because of this I lost a lot of my friends and even family, along with my social skills and previous NT-like abilities. I’m re-enrolling back into school for my junior year, but I fear it’s too late.

u will be fine, opposite happened to me, was fucking ugly and had tons of friends, good social life, even a girlfriend who was way out of my league like WAY out, i disappeared completely for a while, moved school, deleted socials etc, tried getting in contact with my old group and none will talk to me, i cant pull girls i find hot because my standards are too high lol, i have a few friends in my new school but i dont see them outside of school, i start at a new 6th form in september though, i hope it will be better and i will get a similar social group back to before, i have like 2 friends rn lol