How to improve confidence?

[incelest504]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

 

[Deleted member 25621]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

oh god u got a lot to learn on here lmao

 

[BohemianThunder]

lift

 

[Deleted member 24712]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

give me giftcard and i teach u son

 

[incelest504]

give me giftcard and i teach u son

Okay

 

[Deleted member 24712]

Okay

pm me it sonny boy

 

[7zyzz7]

lift

theres no lifting for your face

 

[7zyzz7]

public trolling, being loud in public will make you more confident.

 

[Fallencel]

Looks is confidence

 

[incelest504]

theres no lifting for your face

Dang how u know

public trolling, being loud in public will make you more confident.

I don’t think so

 

[incelest504]

Looks is confidence

Maybe to some extent but I know a few quite ugly guys who have crazy confidence, if they’d look a bit better they’d slay so hard

 

[7zyzz7]

here is a way that always works for me but its temporary, watch some Cassedy Cambell videos on youtube
This is a good one, hes live streaming with no edit:



watch this too, theres some good advice in here:

 

[sub5outsider]

get a good job

 

[7zyzz7]

confidence is about winning, if you win and win and win and win you will build up confidence, but if you lose and lose and lose and lose you will be unconfident, thats why some ugly guys are confident beacuse they are so low IQ that they cant process how ugly they are so they can only win in social interaction because they dont pick up on social queues, whereas a super neuortic self observant incel is always going to be picking up microexpression in a conversation and always judjing themselves as a loser

 

[7zyzz7]

You can create unlimited confidence by believing in yourself, but how is this helpful if you are always thinking you are ugly, which you probably are... this is the dilema, if only you can create some momentum to love yourself then you can carry that momentum and be confident for the rest of the day, but if you wake up sad and miserable its going to take a lot of energy to be confident.

 

[7zyzz7]

acting a violent way will make you more confident thats why i recommend you be loud in public or do some public trolling such as dance in public... it will make you perseive the people around you as less of a threat and you will relax and stop being so axious... look at black people they are the ugliest but loudest and most confident race... this is because they are violent and high testosterone... and always ready to kill. You have to become a killer.

 

[incelest504]

confidence is about winning, if you win and win and win and win you will build up confidence, but if you lose and lose and lose and lose you will be unconfident, thats why some ugly guys are confident beacuse they are so low IQ that they cant process how ugly they are so they can only win in social interaction because they dont pick up on social queues, whereas a super neuortic self observant incel is always going to be picking up microexpression in a conversation and always judjing themselves as a loser

So your saying they are low iq for keeping high confidence? In what way is being insecure and unconfident from the start on better than trying to

 

[incelest504]

You can create unlimited confidence by believing in yourself, but how is this helpful if you are always thinking you are ugly, which you probably are... this is the dilema, if only you can create some momentum to love yourself then you can carry that momentum and be confident for the rest of the day, but if you wake up sad and miserable its going to take a lot of energy to be confident.

I’ve always hoped that a wide 6‘4 frame could balance out but I dont think it’s enough, I do feel like I maybe could get women if I had confidence and would loose weight

 

[incelest504]

acting a violent way will make you more confident thats why i recommend you be loud in public or do some public trolling such as dance in public... it will make you perseive the people around you as less of a threat and you will relax and stop being so axious... look at black people they are the ugliest but loudest and most confident race... this is because they are violent and high testosterone... and always ready to kill. You have to become a killer.

I get where your coming from, I have thought about just laying on the ground in a city to realize that no one give a hell about me but if I’d do that then only in a city far away

 

[Deleted member 22924]

just become good looking when i was a 6'0 ltn i had no confidence now that i am a 6'3 htn i am confindent

 

[incelest504]

I’ve posted a face pic of myself here yesterday and since then I feel so much more self aware of my looks it’s honestly depressing

 

[7zyzz7]

I’ve always hoped that a wide 6‘4 frame could balance out but I dont think it’s enough, I do feel like I maybe could get women if I had confidence and would loose weight

look i am a gymmaxxed gymcel 5'11" 230 lbs mostly muscle and im still extremely unconfident because ive spend the last decade years shitting on my looks everyday, and alienating myself from people, ive probably insulted myself more times in one day than i will ever get insults from other people in my entire life, its all in my head. Losing weight will help BUT ONLY if you see yourself as a beautiful people after you get lose the weight... so many models are depressed, even though they have a 6 pack and could get women, but some 400 lb fatass who loses some weight and see some changes in the mirror cna become very confident beacuse they see it a positive change... so the key is all its all in your head and your mindset.

 

[7zyzz7]

I’ve posted a face pic of myself here yesterday and since then I feel so much more self aware of my looks it’s honestly depressing

welcome to the dark side

 

[incelest504]

look i am a gymmaxxed gymcel 5'11" 230 lbs mostly muscle and im still extremely unconfident because ive spend the last decade years shitting on my looks everyday, and alienating myself from people, ive probably insulted myself more times in one day than i will ever get insults from other people in my entire life, its all in my head. Losing weight will help BUT ONLY if you see yourself as a beautiful people after you get lose the weight... so many models are depressed, even though they have a 6 pack and could get women, but some 400 lb fatass who loses some weight and see some changes in the mirror cna become very confident beacuse they see it a positive change... so the key is all its all in your head and your mindset.

Yeah, i got completely roasted into oblivion here yesterday but I think the problem is that I can’t turn off feeling sad about it, the goal is to just don’t care about getting insulted but I don’t know how to achieve that

 

[incelest504]

welcome to the dark side View attachment 2088985

I just don’t know if I should take the responses here for certain, this may sound dumb but before posting here I’ve read that a lot of guys here have a bit of hate for tall guys so maybe that kinda went into the rating but I feel like I’m just massively coping rn

 

[incelest504]

look i am a gymmaxxed gymcel 5'11" 230 lbs mostly muscle and im still extremely unconfident because ive spend the last decade years shitting on my looks everyday, and alienating myself from people, ive probably insulted myself more times in one day than i will ever get insults from other people in my entire life, its all in my head. Losing weight will help BUT ONLY if you see yourself as a beautiful people after you get lose the weight... so many models are depressed, even though they have a 6 pack and could get women, but some 400 lb fatass who loses some weight and see some changes in the mirror cna become very confident beacuse they see it a positive change... so the key is all its all in your head and your mindset.

230lbs at 5‘11 with mostly muscle is crazy congrats man

 

[7zyzz7]

I just don’t know if I should take the responses here for certain, this may sound dumb but before posting here I’ve read that a lot of guys here have a bit of hate for tall guys so maybe that kinda went into the rating but I feel like I’m just massively coping rn

im not going to look at your picture because i dont care.. you seem like a genuine person and thats all that matters.. you are 6'4"? thats amazing, get in the gym and start bodybuilding, get some sunlight and eat lots of eggs fruits and steak and you will lose weight, i cant see you not making it at 6'4" get on your knees and thank God that you got that height and get off this forum tbh

 

[7zyzz7]

most of the people here are mentalcels (retarded) its all in their head.. what are you like 6 inches over the average height? thats an amazing blessing from God. Wide frame?? start bodybuilding bro... ow volume heavy weight.. frequent training and 1 pound of protein per lb of bodywieght.

 

[incelest504]

im not going to look at your picture because i dont care.. you seem like a genuine person and thats all that matters.. you are 6'4"? thats amazing, get in the gym and start bodybuilding, get some sunlight and eat lots of eggs fruits and steak and you will lose weight, i cant see you not making it at 6'4" get on your knees and thank God that you got that height and get off this forum tbh

Thanks man means a lot to me, you also seem really nice, your right I think I’m completely wasting my gift by being an obese fuck

 

[7zyzz7]

no lifting for your face only applies for manlets. if you an absolute unit at 6'4" you will get a wife and have children... now getting laid before marriage will come down to your confidence and your experience with girls... that you will have to build up by having small victories everyday, make it a habit to talk to girls.. if you dont know where to start then find a circle of guys and they will teach you how... however if you have trouble making friends with guys than its over for you. If i were you i would start bodybuilding, take a shower, get a haircut, and find a group of cool guys (normies) that have connections to some girls. from there you can practice talking to their girl friends and improving your social skills

 

[7zyzz7]

Thanks man means a lot to me, you also seem really nice, your right I think I’m completely wasting my gift by being an obese fuck

What is your bodywieght?

 

[7zyzz7]

i can teach you how to get shredded with natural chemicals... Thyroid, DNP, caffiene, aspirin. its extremely easy to lose bodyfat. what hard is to gain muscle while remaining low bodyfat as a natural lifter. but if you are severely obese with a hanging gut i can give you a protocol to lose 30 lbs of bodyfat in a month with DNP dinitrophenol.

 

[Vain786]

get LL

height = confidence

 

[Deleted member 16970]

Im my opinion confidence is internal. You percieve others as more confident you, more valuable of coversation.

Erase this belief from your head.

Either by carefully observing their opinions not align with their actions. Which makes them look more human. Or by becoming better than the average person at anything.

You will realize how confidence is actually a way of looking at everyone as not better or worse than u. But rather equal and deserving of what u offer.


But if u want the confidence to pickup chicks on the streets, u need to become an actor and “fake it till u make it” which surprisingly requires no confidence

 

[rand anon]

Sorry bhai u can’t, it’s genetic. You can get more positive validation which might increase ur confidence by improving ur looks though

 

[7zyzz7]

Im my opinion confidence is internal. You percieve others as more confident you, more valuable of coversation.

Erase this belief from your head.

Either by carefully observing their opinions not align with their actions. Which makes them look more human. Or by becoming better than the average person at anything.

You will realize how confidence is actually a way of looking at everyone as not better or worse than u. But rather equal and deserving of what u offer.


But if u want the confidence to pickup chicks on the streets, u need to become an actor and “fake it till u make it” which surprisingly requires no confidence

good post, too mad i cant practice "fake it you make it" because i dont even have a place to meet girls without being a creep, maybe the gym is the only place i could posibily talk to a girl. not having a social circle is death

 

[incelest504]

What is your bodywieght?

i can teach you how to get shredded with natural chemicals... Thyroid, DNP, caffiene, aspirin. its extremely easy to lose bodyfat. what hard is to gain muscle while remaining low bodyfat as a natural lifter. but if you are severely obese with a hanging gut i can give you a protocol to lose 30 lbs of bodyfat in a month with DNP dinitrophenol.

My first goal would be to just lose fat but gaining muscle is probably the right thing to do
I weigh 240lbs but I think my obesity is getting downplayed in the picture

 

[incelest504]

good post, too mad i cant practice "fake it you make it" because i dont even have a place to meet girls without being a creep, maybe the gym is the only place i could posibily talk to a girl. not having a social circle is death

Yeah, I also can’t seem to think of places to get a connection again, but maybe gym actually would be the right play

 

[incelest504]

Sorry bhai u can’t, it’s genetic. You can get more positive validation which might increase ur confidence by improving ur looks though

I think I already got really good positive validation yet I can’t seem to take any of the validation, the only things that reach me are the negative validations

 

[incelest504]

Im my opinion confidence is internal. You percieve others as more confident you, more valuable of coversation.

Erase this belief from your head.

Either by carefully observing their opinions not align with their actions. Which makes them look more human. Or by becoming better than the average person at anything.

You will realize how confidence is actually a way of looking at everyone as not better or worse than u. But rather equal and deserving of what u offer.


But if u want the confidence to pickup chicks on the streets, u need to become an actor and “fake it till u make it” which surprisingly requires no confidence

Thanks that sound pretty logical, I just don’t know how to get into that state or feeling equal with the opposite

 

[Seth Walsh]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

Buy my ebook, video DVD set, hardback copy of my confidence masterclass and my Adonis university just $29997 but I can offer you a really good deal only $4000 today and you get all of the above and you'll learn confidence and masculinity

 

[Deleted member 17585]

Try and find confidence through copes (hobbies/skills) if you can't find them in your looks. I personally get my confidence from my blood and skin color, and all people should be proud of their background.

 

[incelest504]

Buy my ebook, video DVD set, hardback copy of my confidence masterclass and my Adonis university just $29997 but I can offer you a really good deal only $4000 today and you get all of the above and you'll learn confidence and masculinity

Sounds good

 

[Seth Walsh]

Thanks that sound pretty logical, I just don’t know how to get into that state or feeling equal with the opposite

It might be aspergers, imposter syndrome, missing out on formative years and not knowing what to do now even though you have looks, or you just overestimate your genetics

^ real answer

 

[incelest504]

Try and find confidence through copes (hobbies/skills) if you can't find them in your looks. I personally get my confidence from my blood and skin color, and all people should be proud of their background.

Im German so taking pride on my background seems like the wrong way of handling it

 

[coispet]

even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way

there is no way bro

 

[incelest504]

It might be aspergers, imposter syndrome, missing out on formative years and not knowing what to do now even though you have looks, or you just overestimate your genetics

^ real answer

I think it may be impostor syndrome, I feel like I deserve none of the good things I got since I’m just a lazy fuck that does nothing the whole day, but where does this realization get me I still don’t know how to go against it

 

[Seth Walsh]

there is no way bro

There's no way for normies either, they just cope with recent sports events and drinking. More unsuspecting normies are blackpilled than actual sub5s.

 

[incelest504]

Im in the top 10k in clash Royale but that doesn’t give me confidence that just makes me feel ashamed

Try and find confidence through copes (hobbies/skills) if you can't find them in your looks. I personally get my confidence from my blood and skin color, and all people should be proud of their background.

 

[Deleted member 17585]

Im German so taking pride on my background seems like the wrong way of handling it

You have plenty to be proud of as a German. Even if you're not a national socialist, there is a lot more to German history. The Holy Roman Empire, German Empire, Kingdom of Prussia, etc.. Be proud that your culture invented people such as Wernher von Braun, for example.