How to justify not using social media on bumble and tinder?

[jakewagner123]

I just broke up with my gf and of course, I came to this forum for advice.Anyways,broke up with my gf I met through an old social circle and got back on OLD after a while.Seems like girls have become less trusting of anyone not using instagram or snap and suspect I am a catfish.Especially with not using instagram.I believe @Amnesia faces something similar. How do I overcome this?

 

[thereallegend]

You can't. Get back on Insta/Snap

 

[Deleted member 23778]

I tend to look for women who don't use social media

 

[jakewagner123]

I tend to look for women who don't use social media

extremely rare these days,they ask me to switch the conversation to instagram on tinder/bumble

 

[jakewagner123]

You can't. Get back on Insta/Snap

too busy for that right now

 

[SecularIslamist]

You've already failed by resorting to OLD

 

[czwarty]

There's no way. Having no social media is biggest marker for autist or fucked up individual, just deal with it. Make some basic account with one photo, you don't need to actually use it all the time.

For longest time I had a locked FB profile with no PFP, but then a lot of girls from tinder asked for my fb profile or at least to add me at messenger before date, and some dipped when they saw I have no profile photo, they feared I'm a catfish or whatever. I had to finally choose a good photo and add it, because otherwise it's just lowering your chances for nothing

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

A girl that insists you have Instagram is either:

a) a catfish

b) using you to increase her popularity

c) a retard that thinks Instagram is a background check

My money's on a or b.

 

[Deleted member 25667]

You overcome this by making a social media, which really isn't difficult unless youre a friendless basement dwelling shut in. And no you don't need to have 5k followers, a blue tick and hundreds of pics of you on luxurious holidays.

Literally just make an insta account, upload a profile picture and mass follow everyone you know and everyone theyre following.

 

[thereallegend]

too busy for that right now

So you're too busy for dating is what I'm hearing?

 

[jakewagner123]

So you're too busy for dating is what I'm hearing?

Too busy to waste time on social media again.Perhaps I'll give snapchat a try again but might face the problem due to low score

 

[jakewagner123]

You overcome this by making a social media, which really isn't difficult unless youre a friendless basement dwelling shut in. And no you don't need to have 5k followers, a blue tick and hundreds of pics of you on luxurious holidays.

Literally just make an insta account, upload a profile picture and mass follow everyone you know and everyone theyre following.

I got friends and a social life,and I do keep getting questions on why I don't use it.I prety much say I see it as a waste of time.Some girls have been more direct and say that they have to ask me questions to know me since they can't stalk my insta.I believe that girls do use social media to judge a guy's likes and dislikes among other things.

 

[jakewagner123]

There's no way. Having no social media is biggest marker for autist or fucked up individual, just deal with it. Make some basic account with one photo, you don't need to actually use it all the time.

For longest time I had a locked FB profile with no PFP, but then a lot of girls from tinder asked for my fb profile or at least to add me at messenger before date, and some dipped when they saw I have no profile photo, they feared I'm a catfish or whatever. I had to finally choose a good photo and add it, because otherwise it's just lowering your chances for nothing

Once I get to the looksmax level I want,I'll reactivate my insta and upload a few trravelling pics.Atleast that won't be bad.I am loosing a lot of leads from bumbe because of it.

 

[jakewagner123]

You've already failed by resorting to OLD

Now when you're good looking,I get a decent number of matches I suppose.