How to keep girls around?

[HollowCheek]

First problem:

I have good success at tinder, clubs and bars with one night stands and also girls approach me at uni but the problem is I do not know how to keep them around.

I have diagnosed ADHD with sperg and even my male friends tell me im kinda “retarded” but I simply want to have a bond with a girl.

The problem is I have already really high bodycount and the girls seems to be repulsed by me after 2-3 dates eventhough they were really interested in me at first and for example we fucked straight away. So all I can do is to hop on another girl and having basically 0 emotional bonds with em.



Second problem is connected with the first one

It seems to me that every single maxxing guide on this side (and I am here for 5 years) seems like its for getting girls to bed for once but I want to have romatic relationship and Idk how to keep them around.

I want to know:
How to talk to them after sex?
How to make them feel something romantic towards me?
How to flirt with them?


Yet I can’t find the answers.

I was close many times and eventhough the girls wanted to be my GF I felt like after all the Blackpill I consumed I cant have any romantic emotions towards girls. So in this case its probably two sided problem:

Girls get repulsed by me after few dates (cuz of my diagnosis imho) and I feel repulsed after having no emotional bonds toward them.

I will be happy for every help.

Tbh I am afraid of having STD after all that

 

[HollowCheek]

bump

 

[Britva]

Why are u asking advice on org for girls practically no one has experience with girls here

 

[Zzure]

First problem:

I have good success at tinder, clubs and bars with one night stands and also girls approach me at uni but the problem is I do not know how to keep them around.

I have diagnosed ADHD with sperg and even my male friends tell me im kinda “retarded” but I simply want to have a bond with a girl.

The problem is I have already really high bodycount and the girls seems to be repulsed by me after 2-3 dates eventhough they were really interested in me at first and for example we fucked straight away. So all I can do is to hop on another girl and having basically 0 emotional bonds with em.



Second problem is connected with the first one

It seems to me that every single maxxing guide on this side (and I am here for 5 years) seems like its for getting girls to bed for once but I want to have romatic relationship and Idk how to keep them around.

I want to know:
How to talk to them after sex?
How to make them feel something romantic towards me?
How to flirt with them?


Yet I can’t find the answers.

I was close many times and eventhough the girls wanted to be my GF I felt like after all the Blackpill I consumed I cant have any romantic emotions towards girls. So in this case its probably two sided problem:

Girls get repulsed by me after few dates (cuz of my diagnosis imho) and I feel repulsed after having no emotional bonds toward them.

I will be happy for every help.

Tbh I am afraid of having STD after all that

not a planck

 

[Lefty Rankin]

First problem:

I have good success at tinder, clubs and bars with one night stands and also girls approach me at uni but the problem is I do not know how to keep them around.

I have diagnosed ADHD with sperg and even my male friends tell me im kinda “retarded” but I simply want to have a bond with a girl.

The problem is I have already really high bodycount and the girls seems to be repulsed by me after 2-3 dates eventhough they were really interested in me at first and for example we fucked straight away. So all I can do is to hop on another girl and having basically 0 emotional bonds with em.



Second problem is connected with the first one

It seems to me that every single maxxing guide on this side (and I am here for 5 years) seems like its for getting girls to bed for once but I want to have romatic relationship and Idk how to keep them around.

I want to know:
How to talk to them after sex?
How to make them feel something romantic towards me?
How to flirt with them?


Yet I can’t find the answers.

I was close many times and eventhough the girls wanted to be my GF I felt like after all the Blackpill I consumed I cant have any romantic emotions towards girls. So in this case its probably two sided problem:

Girls get repulsed by me after few dates (cuz of my diagnosis imho) and I feel repulsed after having no emotional bonds toward them.

I will be happy for every help.

Tbh I am afraid of having STD after all that

Fist of all, your diagnosis is bullshit. You might not have a quiet mind but that doesn't mean you aren't normal. "ADHD" is just a farce for big pharma and psychiatrists to get money. Same with "PTSD", "anxiety", "bi-polar", and "depression". It's all bullshit.

Anyways, you're looking in the wrong places. Don't expect to find a girl that you meet at a club or on tinder to be wanting any kind of serious relationship. They might say they are but they really aren't. Try to meet girls at work. That's always been the best place for me. Change jobs if you have to. Or get a part time job somewhere where there will be plentiful options just for that purpose.