How to keep long distance conversations interesting

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So like 3 weeks ago i got with an exchange swedish girl that i made up with and we are snaping each other but she doesnt come back at least in 3 months, so what can i do to keep the conversation alive, i mean shes giving me signs that shes still interested and sending me videos and stuff but dont wanna fumble the bag tbh
 
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a vibrator for her an a cock ring+ fleshlight for you

you can control it on the phone
 
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them phone controllable sex toys

a vibrator for her an a cock ring+ fleshlight for you

you can control it on the phone
tf bro i didnt even had sex with her
 
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So like 3 weeks ago i got with an exchange swedish girl that i made up with and we are snaping each other but she doesnt come back at least in 3 months, so what can i do to keep the conversation alive, i mean shes giving me signs that shes still interested and sending me videos and stuff but dont wanna fumble the bag tbh
video calls and face times
 
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nah i dont know how to ask because right out of the blue just dont seem like it
how many points will you rate ur comm with her on a 10 point scale?
 
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hmm, show some interest in her and ask like if u can call or talk, make it an excuse that u're bored and then she'll gradually get used to the calls
 
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nah i will do the chatting and background work, you'll go fuck her
im scared of you tbh bhai:feelskek: tell me what i gotta do, also i have to wait like 3 months dont forget that part
 
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hmm, show some interest in her and ask like if u can call or talk, make it an excuse that u're bored and then she'll gradually get used to the calls
ok i think that could work, im gonna snap her that so we can facetime tomorrow
 
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how often tho cuz did it with another girl and got boring after a certain time
This girl is showing interest in you if you really do suspect video calls get boring wait for her to ask on her own

Vc or ft once a week at first maybe, test waters kind of
 
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This girl is showing interest in you if you really do suspect video calls get boring wait for her to ask on her own

Vc or ft once a week at first maybe, test waters kind of
well just asked her to facetime tomorrow lets see what she says, if she rejects im fr roping
 
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how often tho cuz did it with another girl and got boring after a certain time
Also you need to have something to talk about always and also to let her talk

Keep the ft on for 10 minutes minimum but after that if you do suspect it’s awkward find an excuse in advance to end the call smoothly
 
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Also you need to have something to talk about always and also to let her talk

Keep the ft on for 10 minutes minimum but after that if you do suspect it’s awkward find an excuse in advance to end the call smoothly
Good luck bro
yeah i think ill do that, i hope it doesnt because we got a very good connection in person but anything could happen tbh, thanks anyway bhai
 
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So like 3 weeks ago i got with an exchange swedish girl that i made up with and we are snaping each other but she doesnt come back at least in 3 months, so what can i do to keep the conversation alive, i mean shes giving me signs that shes still interested and sending me videos and stuff but dont wanna fumble the bag tbh
I think @emeraldglass had a thread on this
 
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So like 3 weeks ago i got with an exchange swedish girl that i made up with and we are snaping each other but she doesnt come back at least in 3 months, so what can i do to keep the conversation alive, i mean shes giving me signs that shes still interested and sending me videos and stuff but dont wanna fumble the bag tbh
It’s actually very easy,

I was in a long distance 3 year relationship,

You have to make them feel safe and happy around you :)

Call her cute nicknames, like my little milkshake etc, send her pictures of your face, send pics of what ur doing like when ur at the gym or doing something productive to show your worth! girls love that,

Play videogames with her, watch some movies or a show with her (you can use Rave app for this)

Let her vent to you if she has problems, be a good listener and make it feel like ur the only one who understands her and can help her by providing emotional support, tell her that she can talk to you about anything

Teach her some stuff, for example if she ever has trouble with her homework or such, or shes interested in something political or religions, doing a little research and than teaching her about whatever shes interested to makes you seem very intelligent and smart to her.

Do some romantic stuff like writing her a handwritten notes and sending it to her, or ordering her chocolate when shes on her period, flowers.

Have some deep talks with her, like about life, her future, goals etc.. Or anything deep, but make sure YOU do NOT vent about your problems, no woman wants to be your therapist, they wanna be listened to.

People on this forum think that being dark triad gets the ladies, it often only attracts short term relationships/hookups or attracting horrible toxic women :/

You have to shower the girl with compliments make her feel like her inner child around you and safe and loving :) After you did that, don’t give her too much attention, like some days be busy, don’t be too available, so when she is with you she’ll be the happiest and she can also miss you sometimes. Try to make her feel amazing around you basically!

You got this
 
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Facetime
Video games
Manipulation
 
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It’s actually very easy,

I was in a long distance 3 year relationship,

You have to make them feel safe and happy around you :)

Call her cute nicknames, like my little milkshake etc, send her pictures of your face, send pics of what ur doing like when ur at the gym or doing something productive to show your worth! girls love that,

Play videogames with her, watch some movies or a show with her (you can use Rave app for this)

Let her vent to you if she has problems, be a good listener and make it feel like ur the only one who understands her and can help her by providing emotional support, tell her that she can talk to you about anything

Teach her some stuff, for example if she ever has trouble with her homework or such, or shes interested in something political or religions, doing a little research and than teaching her about whatever shes interested to makes you seem very intelligent and smart to her.

Do some romantic stuff like writing her a handwritten notes and sending it to her, or ordering her chocolate when shes on her period, flowers.

Have some deep talks with her, like about life, her future, goals etc.. Or anything deep, but make sure YOU do NOT vent about your problems, no woman wants to be your therapist, they wanna be listened to.

People on this forum think that being dark triad gets the ladies, it often only attracts short term relationships/hookups or attracting horrible toxic women :/

You have to shower the girl with compliments make her feel like her inner child around you and safe and loving :) After you did that, don’t give her too much attention, like some days be busy, don’t be too available, so when she is with you she’ll be the happiest and she can also miss you sometimes. Try to make her feel amazing around you basically!

You got this
alright thanks very much but i wanna clear some things up, i assume when you were distanced from her you at least got to know her for a while before going for that, the thing is i just made up with her it was only a night and the next morning of being with her, we had a very good connection, but yk everything that you mentioned seems like a little overwhelming for someone who ive been with only like 10 hours despite the great connection as i said, and btw is she not gonna get bored if i compliment her too much?
 

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