how to keep your foid in check? (no domestic violence)

[abzz!]

oh fuck i would kms if she was my neighbour at this state of our relationship. I will have to really put my foot down and communicate with her, thanks!

anytime bro, i can be your relationship therapy hahaa

 

[domcel]

what is she doing exactly?

obsessive, toxic, wants me to be unhappy and alone if she isnt with me 24/7, hates all my friends, jelaous to the point of being abusive physically, and being in a bad mood almost all the time

 

[d0wnpour_]

obsessive, toxic, wants me to be unhappy and alone if she isnt with me 24/7, hates all my friends, jelaous to the point of being abusive physically, and being in a bad mood almost all the time

yeah just tell her straight up that if she doesnt stop you'll break up with her. works well both ways because in the first situation, she'll either shape up due to being obsessed and fix herself, and in the second situation she doesnt like it and it leads to a break up, which gets rid of her being a bitch

 

[domcel]

yeah just tell her straight up that if she doesnt stop you'll break up with her. works well both ways because in the first situation, she'll either shape up due to being obsessed and fix herself, and in the second situation she doesnt like it and it leads to a break up, which gets rid of her being a bitch

yeah ngl she will probably just say like "fine break up with me and go fuck your other whores who dont love u like i do"

 

[d0wnpour_]

yeah ngl she will probably just say like "fine break up with me and go fuck your other whores who dont love u like i do"

if she says shit like that then just drop her man its not worth the stress

 

[domcel]

if she says shit like that then just drop her man its not worth the stress

thanks for the advice brah!

 

[Lefty Rankin]

she is super jelaous and obsessive and if she feels threatened then she will start her shit over a really small thing so we both have our day ruined. Also she is almost always in a bad mood because every little thing triggers her. Im sick having to deal with her mood swings. Fucking animals i swear

Sounds like someone who's not worth being with. I'd just start over with a new one of I were you.

 

[BlackFag]

Lovebomb and then slight belittling after

Start w jokes abt her appearance then get worse but know when to stop

i don't know why but the idea of belittling or bullying a girl i'm dating
just feels right to me

i don't know whats wrong with me man

 

[domcel]

Sounds like someone who's not worth being with. I'd just start over with a new one of I were you.

problem is that if i break up i will just be an incel because i like to be alone most of the time and going out to meet foids just seems like a waste of time

 

[Lefty Rankin]

problem is that if i break up i will just be an incel because i like to be alone most of the time and going out to meet foids just seems like a waste of time

Don't ever stay with a girl for fear of being alone. That's one of the worst things a man can do for himself. Don't let that be the story of your life. You'll end up a schmuck.

If you were able to get a girl once you'll be able to get one again. Until you're married it's good to have periods of being alone between girls.

 

[domcel]

Don't ever stay with a girl for fear of being alone. That's one of the worst things a man can do for himself. Don't let that be the story of your life. You'll end up a schmuck.

If you were able to get a girl once you'll be able to get one again. Until you're married it's good to have periods of being alone between girls.

i know i can get a foid easily but i just kinda dont want to yk? but yes nice advice thanks man

 

[dada22]

brotha speak to her about it. the key to a successful relationship is communication. if she adores you, she would change for you, correct?

she wants you all to herself? good
retardedly toxic? bleh
obsessive? that's alright i suppose
jealous? just women brah

just speak to her bro. women's minds are still not understood to this day, it's mental lmao. good luck brother, i wish you the best

terrible shit advice

 

[abzz!]

terrible shit advice

don't project your unhappiness onto me, not my fault you got cheated on

 

[dada22]

don't project your unhappiness onto me, not my fault you got cheated on

domcel you can take this advice and come back to this thread in 6-18 months when your relationship is ruined, or you can choose to follow the advice below which has worked for me with 3 girlfriends. if you are not ready to walk away from this then just deal with her bullshit and stick around for the sex because you already lost and she will run the relationship into the ground.

foids just want to see you have an emotional reaction. it's how they know you "care" so in a way it's validation, similar to why they text other dudes. it's also why they respond the best in the early stages when you act disinterested or like you have lots of options. they want to feel validated, like they got something special, like you are above them and they got lucky you even want to be with them.

Not sure what the issue is with her but you need to tell her to stop straight up - she will try and argue, don't fight back just say: "thats fine but now I can't take you serious". She will ask a bunch of questions about what that means and just don't answer her. Start pulling away, go out without her etc. maybe even start to make friends with other foids to stir jealousy. Just constantly demonstrate higher value and no hesitation to leave and move onto the next. If she is "in love" aka feeds off your validation and her own control over you, she will make the changes and you can slowly start to ease back into how you acted before, but never fully back atleast for a long period. IMO they start to pickup that you will never leave no matter what they do if you do this too often and it is all an act. If you are already in those stages where they know this, you can try to "reason" which won't work and so thus you move onto phase 2 where you stop trying completely, just stick around for the sex and maybe cheat if you feel inclined and completely emotionally detach from them and start looking for another one, they will be easier to get since you have a girlfriend and foids like to feel superior to others. This goes back to the value system we talked bout.

If she does not change or start acting right, but isn't aware of these tactics yet, you unfortunately have to move to Phase 3. You have to breakup with her on the spot, out of the blue, be relatively cold about it but basically tell her this isn't working, tell her you dont want to see her anymore, and that you won't reply to any texts or any messages/communication which always eventually follows. This drives them fucking INSANE.

(Bonus Tip: If you really HATE her, and want to inflict maximum pain, this is the ideal point to start turning all mutual friends against her. Tell them whatever you have to, within reason, and tell them you will not be friends with her or speak to her again and that if they want to be friends with her they can't be boys with you. This is dually beneficial since not only will losing the friends inflict shame, one of the few emotions foid brains actually respond and encode to guilt because all they care about is what others think of them (and you are cutting off some validation pipelines for them). You also have the added benefit of getting all simps and cucks out of your friend circle since no guy worth his salt should pick his friends ex over him, and any man who would is a loser anyways).

If your at college she will either show up at your apartment/house/bar and start crying. Highschool probably stop you in the halls and cause some type of scene. From here you deny any wrongdoing, attack her for "ruining things", reverse it on her make yourself the victim in all of this and make her feel some type of guilt and that maybe you will forgive her in a few days. If she contacts your friends, have them say something similar like "ngl what you did is fucked up ____", or just leave her on opened.

They usually come crawling back in about 1 week at this point. You can take her back at this stage, and she might act right, since she now knows at any moment you could take not only her but her entire social circle away. However, you run the risk that she fucked another dude in the interim period where you dumped her which, with foids in 2026, is like a 90% chance even if it was just a few days.

Good luck, but it's probably already cooked.

 

[jester]

need help mine is like an untrained dog and dealing with such animals like foids is so stressful.

it’s not your “foid”
they’re all whores, it’s just your turn

 

[dada22]

problem is that if i break up i will just be an incel because i like to be alone most of the time and going out to meet foids just seems like a waste of time

The price you pay for self-respect is expensive. Grow a pair.

 

[domcel]

domcel you can take this advice and come back to this thread in 6-18 months when your relationship is ruined, or you can choose to follow the advice below which has worked for me with 3 girlfriends. if you are not ready to walk away from this then just deal with her bullshit and stick around for the sex because you already lost and she will run the relationship into the ground.

foids just want to see you have an emotional reaction. it's how they know you "care" so in a way it's validation, similar to why they text other dudes. it's also why they respond the best in the early stages when you act disinterested or like you have lots of options. they want to feel validated, like they got something special, like you are above them and they got lucky you even want to be with them.

Not sure what the issue is with her but you need to tell her to stop straight up - she will try and argue, don't fight back just say: "thats fine but now I can't take you serious". She will ask a bunch of questions about what that means and just don't answer her. Start pulling away, go out without her etc. maybe even start to make friends with other foids to stir jealousy. Just constantly demonstrate higher value and no hesitation to leave and move onto the next. If she is "in love" aka feeds off your validation and her own control over you, she will make the changes and you can slowly start to ease back into how you acted before, but never fully back atleast for a long period. IMO they start to pickup that you will never leave no matter what they do if you do this too often and it is all an act.

If she does not change or start acting right, you unfortunately have to move to Phase 2. You have to breakup with her on the spot, out of the blue, be relatively cold about it but basically tell her this isn't working, tell her you dont want to see her anymore, and that you won't reply to any texts or any messages/communication which always eventually follows. This drives them fucking INSANE. If your at college she will either show up at your apartment/house/bar and start crying. Highschool probably stop you in the halls and cause some type of scene. From here you deny any wrongdoing, attack her for "ruining things", reverse it on her make yourself the victim in all of this and make her feel some type of guilt and that maybe you will forgive her in a few days.

You can take her back at this stage, and she might act right, but you run the risk that she fucked another dude in the interim period where you dumped her which, with foids in 2026, is like a 90% chance even if it was just a few days.

Good luck, but it's probably already cooked.

holy reply, mirin for the time and iq. Problem with her is the jelaousy already so i dont want to add even more of it. She is constantly jelaous, and if a foid even looks at me irl with her with me she will damn near try and tell her what a whore she is and she needs to kill herself jfl. Problem is trust issues with her but sadly i dont think she will ever trust me even tho i havent done anything to make her not trust me.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Daily rape

 

[jester]

she is super jelaous and obsessive and if she feels threatened then she will start her shit over a really small thing so we both have our day ruined. Also she is almost always in a bad mood because every little thing triggers her. Im sick having to deal with her mood swings. Fucking animals i swear

just ignore bruh
if it’s on the phone hang up and mute her notification, if it’s irl just ignore her

 

[domcel]

just ignore bruh
if it’s on phone hang up and mute her notification, if it’s irl just ignore her

might be the move actually thanks

 

[leckerman]

you need to make her feel like she’s replaceable but not to the point where she would out right leave you.

Show her subtle signs that you get "female attention."

If she gets worked up or annoyed about this then thats a good sign.

Your aim should be to keep her on her toes and make yourself unpredictable and spontaneous.

Also tell her that if she cheats she will be a worthless maggot of a whore and she will be forgotten till the end of time.

Jokes aside, women are very spontaneous creatures and they act purely on emotional intelligence.
If they want something, they WILL get it regardless if you or someone else provides that.

My advice to you is to embrace it, just do the Ghengis Khan method and have 10 offsprings with the best women genetically speaking and those offsprings will terrorise the world and continue on your legacy of terror.

Most of you niggas are pussy and are talking about some "but I want a wife"
NO NIGGA WIFE WILL CUCK YOU!
YOU NEED TO SPREAD YOUR SEED.

 

[jester]

might be the move actually thanks

chad never stresses

 

[domcel]

you need to make her feel like she’s replaceable but not to the point where she would out right leave you.

Show her subtle signs that you get "female attention."

If she gets worked up or annoyed about this then thats a good sign.

Your aim should be to keep her on her toes and make yourself unpredictable and spontaneous.

Also tell her that if she cheats she will be a worthless maggot of a whore and she will be forgotten till the end of time.

Jokes aside, women are very spontaneous creatures and they act purely on emotional intelligence.
If they want something, they WILL get it regardless if you or someone else provides that.

My advice to you is to embrace it, just do the Ghengis Khan method and have 10 offsprings with the best women genetically speaking and those offsprings will terrorise the world and continue on your legacy of terror.

Most of you niggas are pussy and are talking about some "but I want a wife"
NO NIGGA WIFE WILL CUCK YOU!
YOU NEED TO SPREAD YOUR SEED.

well yes but in my case this isnt a problem. She already thinks she will lose me thats why she is crazy and jelaous

 

[leckerman]

well yes but in my case this isnt a problem. She already thinks she will lose me thats why she is crazy and jelaous

well nigga fuck her ass out everyday
And if you can and if shes worth it impregnate her and dip.

 

[5OuttaTen]

she is super jelaous and obsessive and if she feels threatened then she will start her shit over a really small thing so we both have our day ruined. Also she is almost always in a bad mood because every little thing triggers her. Im sick having to deal with her mood swings. Fucking animals i swear

Your girlfriend probably has BPD, just ignore her when she acts this way or leave her. Those are basically the only options

 

[abzz!]

domcel you can take this advice and come back to this thread in 6-18 months when your relationship is ruined, or you can choose to follow the advice below which has worked for me with 3 girlfriends. if you are not ready to walk away from this then just deal with her bullshit and stick around for the sex because you already lost and she will run the relationship into the ground.

foids just want to see you have an emotional reaction. it's how they know you "care" so in a way it's validation, similar to why they text other dudes. it's also why they respond the best in the early stages when you act disinterested or like you have lots of options. they want to feel validated, like they got something special, like you are above them and they got lucky you even want to be with them.

Not sure what the issue is with her but you need to tell her to stop straight up - she will try and argue, don't fight back just say: "thats fine but now I can't take you serious". She will ask a bunch of questions about what that means and just don't answer her. Start pulling away, go out without her etc. maybe even start to make friends with other foids to stir jealousy. Just constantly demonstrate higher value and no hesitation to leave and move onto the next. If she is "in love" aka feeds off your validation and her own control over you, she will make the changes and you can slowly start to ease back into how you acted before, but never fully back atleast for a long period. IMO they start to pickup that you will never leave no matter what they do if you do this too often and it is all an act. If you are already in those stages where they know this, you can try to "reason" which won't work and so thus you move onto phase 2 where you stop trying completely, just stick around for the sex and maybe cheat if you feel inclined and completely emotionally detach from them and start looking for another one, they will be easier to get since you have a girlfriend and foids like to feel superior to others. This goes back to the value system we talked bout.

If she does not change or start acting right, but isn't aware of these tactics yet, you unfortunately have to move to Phase 3. You have to breakup with her on the spot, out of the blue, be relatively cold about it but basically tell her this isn't working, tell her you dont want to see her anymore, and that you won't reply to any texts or any messages/communication which always eventually follows. This drives them fucking INSANE.

(Bonus Tip: If you really HATE her, and want to inflict maximum pain, this is the ideal point to start turning all mutual friends against her. Tell them whatever you have to, within reason, and tell them you will not be friends with her or speak to her again and that if they want to be friends with her they can't be boys with you. This is dually beneficial since not only will losing the friends inflict shame, one of the few emotions foid brains actually respond and encode to guilt because all they care about is what others think of them (and you are cutting off some validation pipelines for them). You also have the added benefit of getting all simps and cucks out of your friend circle since no guy worth his salt should pick his friends ex over him, and any man who would is a loser anyways).

If your at college she will either show up at your apartment/house/bar and start crying. Highschool probably stop you in the halls and cause some type of scene. From here you deny any wrongdoing, attack her for "ruining things", reverse it on her make yourself the victim in all of this and make her feel some type of guilt and that maybe you will forgive her in a few days. If she contacts your friends, have them say something similar like "ngl what you did is fucked up ____", or just leave her on opened.

They usually come crawling back in about 1 week at this point. You can take her back at this stage, and she might act right, since she now knows at any moment you could take not only her but her entire social circle away. However, you run the risk that she fucked another dude in the interim period where you dumped her which, with foids in 2026, is like a 90% chance even if it was just a few days.

Good luck, but it's probably already cooked.

you seem very manipulative and emotionally abusive wow, i feel sorry for your previous girlfriends

 

[domcel]

you seem very manipulative and emotionally abusive wow, i feel sorry for your previous girlfriends

true. I mean his advice not wrong if you want to be in a non healthy relationship, sadly a lot of men will choose to be in an abusive relationship rather than single, because of how difficult it is to get a good healthy relationship nowadays.

 

[abzz!]

true. I mean his advice not wrong if you want to be in a non healthy relationship, sadly a lot of men will choose to be in an abusive relationship rather than single, because of how difficult it is to get a good healthy relationship nowadays.

yeah unfortunately. it's just not good advice to give generally, as you're just gonna psychologically fuck up innocent women for no reason jfl

 

[domcel]

yeah unfortunately. it's just not good advice to give generally, as you're just gonna psychologically fuck up innocent women for no reason jfl

agreed. But it is good advice if you only use it as something to help you "see" if a woman is manipulating you with similar tactics. Not to use it tho

 

[abzz!]

agreed. But it is good advice if you only use it as something to help you "see" if a woman is manipulating you with similar tactics. Not to use it tho

indeed

 

[hypernormie]

You have to mog her bro

 

[LTNUser]

obsessive, toxic, wants me to be unhappy and alone if she isnt with me 24/7, hates all my friends, jelaous to the point of being abusive physically, and being in a bad mood almost all the time

Break up and cutoff her forever

 

[Deleted member 296713]

beating

 

[dada22]

yeah unfortunately. it's just not good advice to give generally, as you're just gonna psychologically fuck up innocent women for no reason jfl

This is good advice for when they don't listen. If you have a girl that listens, you don't need to do any of this bullshit. I treated all of my previous girlfriends perfect (dates constantly at high end restaurants, genuine love, didn't use them for sex, "there for them"). However, if you are dating a foid, this is what you have to do to have them act appropriately since we have a society have been degraded to the point of no return due to legalized abortion, birth control, and promiscuous activity being promoted as a positive rather than building families.

They are manipulating you by disrespecting you and asking you to stick around. As much as we and they like to pretend, they are not stupid. Women know exactly what they are doing and how it impacts you emotionally, it's not innocent and it is never just an "accident" that they brought up their ex or gave another dude a hug in front of you they used to fuck before you met.

You can either fight back, or take it and all the negatives that come with that.

 

[domcel]

This is good advice for when they don't listen. If you have a girl that listens, you don't need to do any of this bullshit. I treated all of my previous girlfriends perfect (dates constantly at high end restaurants, genuine love, didn't use them for sex, "there for them"). However, if you are dating a foid, this is what you have to do to have them act appropriately since we have a society have been degraded to the point of no return due to legalized abortion, birth control, and promiscuous activity being promoted as a positive rather than building families.

They are manipulating you by disrespecting you and asking you to stick around. As much as we and they like to pretend, they are not stupid. Women know exactly what they are doing and how it impacts you emotionally, it's not innocent and it is never just an "accident" that they brought up their ex or gave another dude a hug in front of you they used to fuck before you met.

You can either fight back, or take it and all the negatives that come with that.

yeah i mean their mental age and maturity is important here. If they are not matured or something they will always fall for these kind of games but imo if you have an older matured woman it just wont cut ityou will just end up blocked

 

[chudtotyrone]

Stopped listening at "no domestic violence"

 

[domcel]

Stopped listening at "no domestic violence"

motherfucker upvote my shit

 

[chudtotyrone]

motherfucker upvote my shit

Yes sarrrrr